Chapter 385 Bone Strength
The weather was getting colder day by day, and Qi Shan cleaned up a room and laid a piece of thick felt on the ground. After the children were unwilling to play on the couch, they could also sit on the ground and play for a while.
Lin and Mi Zi only felt that Qi Shan was too attentive to the children, but they were just as happy. When the weather was cold, sitting in such a room felt much warmer.
In the evening, Yuan Dasheng would sit in this room to deal with some things, and Yuan Shijin would occasionally go into the room and say a few words to him.
It was cold, and Yuanshi didn't bring Xier with him when he came in and out. However, after Xier could not find his grandfather at home, he often waited at the door for his grandfather to return home.
Lin saw the look of grandson looking forward, and said to Qi Shan both angry and funny. After hearing this, Qi Shan laughed: "Mom. It's cold, and it's not convenient for dad to take Xier out. After Xier waited a few times, he understood in his heart that he would not wait in the future."
Qi Shan comforted Lin in this way, but she felt pity for Xier. When she went out during the sun, she would bring both sons with her. The mother and son walked from the alley to the end of the alley. The brothers Xier and Le'er were both happy, and Qi Shan felt comfortable.
Lin and Yuan Shijin said privately: "Fortunately Sheng'er married Xi'er's mother. I saw her easily take her two sons out, and I didn't have to follow her.
I heard from the old lady in the neighbor said that her daughter-in-law was so delicate that she had to breathe in a hurry when she walked a few steps away. She envied our daughter-in-law for doing any work at home."
Lin's face showed a smug expression, and Yuan Shijin looked at her in surprise: "You can talk to them now?"
"When the weather was warm, we took our children in the alley. They met us and then spoke. Now it was cold and I had no time to go out."
Yuan Shijin listened to Lin's words and encouraged her: "As long as the sun is out, you should go out and take a walk. I heard them say that at our age, it is very beneficial to our health to walk around and bask in the sun."
Lin listened to Yuan Shijin's words, the next day, she and her granddaughter-in-law took Shi Tou out. Then, for several days, they all took their children out together.
Aunt Wang's behavior was full of surprise on Lin's face, and Qi Shan's unconscious attitude made her feel that her mind was too narrow.
Aunt Wang still kindly reminded: "Master, I'm worried that people outside will misunderstand that your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's relationship is not very good."
After listening to her, Qi Shan smiled and said, "We live a good life, don't pay too much attention to other people's ideas. I saw that the old lady had a grandson-daughter-in-law and great-grandson walking with her, and she had a lot of smiles on her face."
Lin is a kind mother-in-law, and Lin is also a good daughter-in-law. However, the two get along well but lack a natural sense of intimacy. Qi Shan treats Yuan Tongze's wife friendly, but Mi Zi still pays great attention to the rules in front of Qi Shan.
When Lin and Yuan Tongze's wife were together, they were separated by generations and they naturally got close to each other.
Aunt Wang could see Qi Shan's expression of pleasure in seeing her. She would not talk too much. She told Qi Shan that she could buy some meat and vegetables to make cured sauce now. Qi Shan understood what Aunt Wang meant and bought the silver for meat and vegetables for Zhao Daniu the next day.
There is always something unreasonable about the family affairs. In the letter Qi Shan wrote to Qi Qiliang and his wife, he also said that life is full of trivial matters. When you think about it carefully, it is really not worth wasting your writing.
Qi Qiliang replied to Qi Shan to read more. His wife told Qi Shan the same feeling in the letter, and lamented the naughtyness of the children, and also said that Qi Qiliang still did not return to Qijia Village on holiday.
Qi Shan opened the letter from his brother and sister-in-law and felt that the distance between them was not very far away. In fact, over the past few years, her relationship with Qi Qiliang has not felt as close as before.
She told Yuan Dasheng what she thought. After hearing this, he looked at her and sighed: "You are a little greedy. If you have me, how can you expect the relationship between brother and sister to be as close as before."
Qi Shan was amused by his words: "Husband, tell me your heart. Have you changed a lot in your relationship with your sister-in-law and sister-in-law in recent years because of their biological children?"
After Yuan Dasheng glanced at her, he calmed down and thought carefully: "My relationship with them has always been like this. When I was born, they were not young anymore. When I was young, my sister and I had to be closer.
But later when I was studying, she had to do a lot of family affairs every day, and she gradually didn't want to pay attention to me. They got married one by one, and after my grandfather and grandmother disappeared, and after our family split, they were willing to interfere in my marriage.
I didn't think there was anything wrong at that time, and other sisters would do similar things. But when they brought their sisters to the door one by one, I realized that they actually didn't have much deeper feelings for me.
Later, my parents came forward to talk about them, but it was not very useful. They would still bring their husbands and family to the house as guests. When I went back, I would not know my parents."
Yuan Dasheng mentioned their engagement and marriage with a smile, and said with a smile about the reactions of his brothers, sisters and sisters after their marriage was settled. He looked at Qi Shan and said, "It's better for us to see how well we are doing in the face of our relationship."
Qi Shan looked at Yuan Dasheng and sighed: "Maybe they are jealous. If the younger generations are sensible, we should treat them kindly."
Yuan Dasheng looked at Qi Shan with a bright smile: "This is what we do now. If Ze'er and his wife were ignorant, I wouldn't be willing to treat them kindly. Back then, their parents just wanted to live their own lives, and now we don't want to take care of the ignorant juniors."
Yuan Dasheng and his wife treated Yuan Tongze and his sister kindly, which gave them an illusion that Yuan Dasheng was angry and he would treat his brothers and sisters kindly in the future.
But people will not care about everything. The calculations between relatives are the most heartbreaking. The closer a person is, the more they will care about the gains and losses of love in the future, until they completely ignore it.
The so-called carelessness and generosity in the eyes of others is just to show the elders and others, and it is just to allow the elders to spend their old age with peace of mind.
Since Yuan Shijin and his wife arrived in the capital, the Yuan family will send the New Year gift to Yuanjia Village, but Yuan Dasheng did not write a letter back.
When Qi Shan wrote a letter to the Qi family, he took the initiative to ask for a few greetings. Sometimes, Qi Shan would even dislike him for being a little troublesome. His handwriting was too kind, and Qi Shan's handwriting seemed to be as incompetent as a walking child.
The more Qi Shan showed such a look, the more Yuan Dasheng was willing to write one more line of words at the end of the letter.
Chapter completed!