Chapter 1703 Advice to Men (33)
Secretary Chen’s mother is busy preparing lunch with the nanny, and laughter keeps coming from the kitchen. The open kitchen is not suitable for making Chinese food, and recently the range hood has been installed.
It's just a simple pasta. Her mother doesn't know how to make noodles with various flavors, but cooking noodles won't help her. Others will be cooked. Before the meal time is ready, she is busy processing other ingredients.
Dawson's father-in-law is in his fifties and cannot interfere in the kitchen. His English is not very good. As for chatting with Han Xuan, he believes that there is no common topic between the two.
It was too embarrassing to stand next to me. I finally thought of something to talk about, and suddenly asked Han Xuan: "Have you been practicing calligraphy recently?
I remember seeing from the news that your calligraphy works are very valuable. A small part was published in the newspaper. Although the photos were not very clear, it may be because the reporter deliberately blurred the photos a little bit, but they could clearly distinguish them. The fonts were really great."
Han Xuan naturally would not tell him that he had not taken a brush for more than a year, nor had he really trained hard to write brush calligraphy. The published photos were screened by Mr. Han’s Ab TV station to photos allowed to be published by the newspaper. The topic was changed and answered: "Thank you for your praise. Do you also like to write brush calligraphy?
My grandfather and grandfather like to write when they are free. They don’t have to buy couplets for the New Year at home. Moreover, if you want to buy couplets in the United States, it is more difficult than buying buns. You can only see them in Chinatown before the Spring Festival.
I haven't started writing for a long time. As for value, I think I haven't really reached that level yet. It was my friends from Xiangjiang who praised me, but I can't actually get on the table."
I understand that Han Xuan is polite, Dawson's father-in-law will not take it seriously. He has seen Han Xuan's calligraphy works in the newspaper, and it is indeed quite interesting. As for whether it is worth it, it is a matter of person's opinion.
In 1997, Mr. Li Zhaoji from Xiangjiang made a fool of himself. After taking away the calligraphy works written by Han Xuan, he sent them to the auction house and bought them back with a large amount of money. He was considered to have a layer of gold on the calligraphy works of Han Xuan. In the future, someone wanted to buy Han Xuan's calligraphy works, so there was a precedent for reference prices.
Some people didn't understand his intention at the beginning, but Mr. Li Zhaoji was indeed remembered by Han Xuan. While Xueshan Real Estate Company is now entering Huaxia Real Estate, Xiangjiang, whose housing prices have plummeted due to its return, has not let it go.
When he decided to find a powerful local partner, his name and real estate company were the first to appear in Han Xuan's mind. Now the Snow Mountain Real Estate Xiangjiang Branch, which was jointly opened by the two, has hoarded land in many yellow areas in Xiangjiang. In just two years, Mr. Li Zhaoji has gained a lot.
The first property developed by the two companies will be officially launched in March of the new millennium. People in the real estate industry cannot not understand the importance of funds and backers. Connections are sometimes more important than money...
"I was bored recently and asked someone to buy a set of pen, ink, paper and inkstone from a store in San Francisco. Later, I wrote and wrote everything in the study upstairs. Do you want to take a look?
I am idle too, I guess I will have some time to leave the meal.”
Hearing Mr. Chen's words, Han Xuan looked at Anya who was teasing the child as if she was addicted to playing, and then looked at Secretary Dawson who was about to go out to buy diapers. He had nothing to do anyway, so he said: "Why not? My grandfather often said that practicing calligraphy requires more communication to improve. Everyone has different characteristics in writing brushes. Copybooks are dead, but people are alive."
"These words make sense. From my grandfather's generation, I was a Jinshi from the Qing Dynasty, and so was my grandfather's father.
My father came to Baodao with the 74th Army and broke off contact with his family. He could not see them even before he died. But he always remembered that he was a scholarly family. Until he went to junior high school, he would be beaten by him if he didn't practice a hundred big words any day.
Later, he became the vice chairman of the Taichung Calligraphers Association. In less than two years, he resigned because he had too much work. However, a group of old friends would gather together without any work, and when they had time, they would feel itchy..."
Regarding the old history that year, due to different positions and angles, the two sides have different opinions. Han Xuan is very interested in it. He finally met someone who had something to do with the history of that year and had personally experienced that great migration, and asked many topics about taboos.
Similarly, because of different positions, Mr. Chen’s perspective on things is different, with a certain bias. It has been fifty years since time passed. The most touching sentence that made Han Xuan sighed was “As long as peace is.”
In recent years, the independence faction has been in power and has caused quite a lot of trouble. Even the media in European and American countries often exaggerate the messy things, which is obviously because of "the clouds of close war gradually fading away."
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Go upstairs and enter a study room.
During this period, I passed by the room where Secretary Chen was resting and saw through the crack in the door that she was milking her cup with the help of Ms. Alexis.
Han Xuan looked away with a glance. Such a picture was not beautiful at all, and it was easy to destroy his longing for such a wonderful thing, so it was better not to look at it. He simply greeted Ms. Alexis and Chen Yutong through the door and walked away.
The reason is that the cows in the snow-capped mountain ranch also milk this way, and inadvertently equate the two. Although men seem to be very strong, they will occasionally be very fragile in their psychology.
For example, many men gradually lose interest in creating a human after their wives gave birth to children. Once he thought it was just too familiar and tired of the consequences of existing life. It was not until he studied psychology that Han Xuan suddenly realized something interesting one day.
This has a lot to do with the husband participating in the wife's childbirth process.
Nowadays, the "Lamaz painless delivery method" has been widely popular in European and American countries. This is a special breathing method used to relieve the tension of a woman when giving birth. The husband must stand by and participate together during the wife's delivery.
Hospitals generally recommend that when giving birth, the husband holds the hand of his wife who is struggling in the pain and breathes simultaneously with his wife. Modern social concepts generally believe that since it is a husband and wife, giving birth is not a matter of one person, so it is natural to do so.
But Han Xuan's opinion was exactly the opposite. He figured it out that day that he believed that after a woman gave birth to a child, her husband should escape from a distance, and it would be better not to even imagine the picture.
Standing next to the delivery bed, the wife will feel at ease, and men can also personally experience how difficult the delivery process is. However, the scene of the wife's legs spreading until the blood-filled baby is born is by no means a scene that the husband likes to hear.
At that moment, the scene was completely different from what men thought in their minds, the romantic and cute impressions of women, which led to the disappearance of women's mystery and leave a huge shadow in the future creation process.
Therefore, sometimes the truth is revealed and the beautiful face disappears in an instant.
Han Xuan’s psychology paper when he graduated from Brown University was elaborating on this issue in detail. That paper has a broad survey basis.
During a certain period of time, whenever someone went to the 24-hour convenience store of Sos and bought the treatment Viagra with medical prescriptions, a salesperson asked them if they had participated in the production process of women. The results were beyond his imagination. About 46% of the patients replied "yes".
This paper has caused widespread discussion. Major hospitals later canceled the practice of having their husbands accompany them. Male obstetricians and gynecologists with full delivery experience suddenly became one of the most unpopular professions in society and were afraid that these doctors would have psychological problems, so their lives would be bad in the future.
Because of that paper, Han Xuan successfully became the savior of many men. If he continues to develop for a long time, maybe Xueshan Pharmaceutical Company will lose a lot of profits, but he doesn't care.
From then on, he avoided contact with situations that might lead to the shattering of women's imagination. For the sake of the next wonderful life, Han Xuan felt that it would be better to regard women as a wonderful "mystery" forever...rw
Chapter completed!