"Okay, no more joking."

Han Lie suddenly smiled and brought Tang Xintian out of his confusion.

Glancing at her, the dog-man said in an understatement, "You are too impatient and want to accomplish everything in one go. This is not good."

Tang Xintian's pupils shrank, and all the hair on his body exploded.

Just as he was about to observe the other party carefully, he saw Han Lie lowering his head again and eating his meal slowly, and he suddenly realized something in his heart.

Wow, it turned out that I met a top expert!

People who study psychology are generally not afraid of others guessing their thoughts. Healthy people will not keep themselves closed all the time. On the contrary, an open mind is a good attitude that is conducive to growth.

The significance of mastering certain psychological knowledge is to set up an interception net, filter out the bad things, improve your personality, have a healthy mentality, and build self-confidence.

Therefore, psychologists have a very unique perspective on people.

They generally do not value money, wealth, or appearance, but rather value the health and independence of their personality, and understand the human heart from a deeper level.

From this perspective, the bones are painted but not the skin.

Tang Xintian cannot be called a psychologist, but her knowledge of psychology is enough to make her invincible in normal social interactions.

Portray the person you are in contact with, establish a psychological profile, gain insight into the character's weaknesses, and thus determine the other person's behavioral patterns and underlying logic, so you can deal with them with ease.

Before, every move she made had a deep meaning.

Detailed observation in President Huang’s office...

Take Han Lie back to his office instead of sending him directly to the private banking department...

Insist on making tea with your own hands...

Ask the handsome guy Xiaobai to give you a tea set...

Used the word "bastard" twice to describe subordinates...

Briefly mention your own difficulties and express your gratitude...

Hold Han Lie high in the air...

To be honest, if it were used to deal with an ordinary college student, that stupid kid would probably have a huge crush on her.

Even if you deal with normal successful people, you will at least get a considerable degree of positive feedback.

——Not every successful entrepreneur is proficient in psychology. The success of most people is actually an accident caused by the combination of the right time and place, rather than the inevitable due to absolute strength.

However, such sharp means were used on Han Lie...

Good guy, I just mentioned Xiaobai twice and immediately smashed her abacus into pieces.

When she was confused, someone suddenly said, "I'm just teasing you." But her defense was broken.

Tang Xintian has never been teased like this before.

What is play?

He could see her thoughts clearly and chose the most confrontational solution even though it could be resolved easily.

How can I die if I don’t scare Xiaobai?!

Tang Xintian was holding the spoon tightly, breathing heavily, and her chest was rising and falling uncontrollably. She was angry and ashamed, and she wanted to rush up and bite that doggy man.

I was angry because of Han Lie's teasing, but I was embarrassed because it was complicated.

To sum it up briefly - the lethality of that last sentence is too powerful.

If Han Lie didn't make it clear, then at least she would still have room to pretend to be confused. She could just laugh and blur the matter over.

But there is no if.

Han Lie slapped her across the face, but she couldn't resist because he was right.

Tang Xintian did act too hastily.

Most people don't realize it, but experts who are proficient in psychology can definitely see it.

It was that last sentence that made Tang Xintian understand, oh, it turns out that Han Lie understands everything and his level is higher than mine...

Are all the previous attempts at relationships just trying to do the same thing?

So not only was she angry, but she was also ashamed and anxious.

Oh, what a shame!

But from another perspective, it was precisely because of Han Lie's self-destruction that she no longer had to make aimless guesses and only had to face a clear situation.

This is Han Lie's decision to stop at the last minute and show mercy.

Otherwise, she might be teased until she doesn't understand what's really going on.

That would be even more embarrassing and embarrassing than now.

Tang Xintian bit her lower lip, looked at Han Lie with a complicated expression, hesitated for a moment, and finally choked out a soft word.

"Thank you, Teacher Han, for reminding me. I will pay attention to it in the future."

Oh, I can bend and stretch, and I get scared very quickly~~~

God knows how Tang Xintian secretly cheered herself up in her heart. She has always been a proud girl of heaven. How could she ever be submissive to a man?

Therefore, his attitude is not very gentle, nor is he cute, and he is somewhat unconvinced.

Brother Lie didn't care.

He raised his head and looked at her, and said with a gentle smile: "Sister Tangtang is too polite. In fact, we won't have many opportunities to interact with each other in the future. It's my fault that our friendship is shallow and deep."

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Hearing the four words "communicate shallowly and deeply", Tang Xintian was so stimulated that his scalp went numb.

Careless words?

How is that possible!

The dog man definitely did it on purpose, and he is so weird!

Tang Xintian's eyelids drooped, and she buried her head in her meal, making up her mind - everything from now on will be business-like, and if I try to have a relationship with you, I'll be a dog!

She calmed down, and Han Lie became even quieter.

Eat slowly, move calmly, and feel more calm.

Everything must be done at a certain temperature. The stimulation for her now is just right, and any more would be too much.

Four sentences are exactly four levels.

The first sentence, "Turn Xiaobai over to me," is a sudden surprise, deliberately trying to disrupt her rhythm.

The second sentence, "Xiaobai loves to go?" is to break out of her stereotypes and break her preset trap with strong confrontation.

The third sentence, "You are too impatient," directly points out the confrontation and at the same time establishes a condescending psychological advantage to make her break her defense.

In the fourth sentence, the focus is actually on "there are not many opportunities to deal with each other", and to regain distance from the state of close combat.

And that strange and sinister phrase "Speaking lightly and speaking deeply" is at best a vague statement, and even a dumber person might not be able to understand it.

The four sentences before and after are psychologically profound, so the last sentence is the most heart-wrenching.

On the social level, it constitutes a reciprocating movement of "outside, inside, outside". It seems that it finally returns to its original position and the position does not change. In fact, Han Lie has already dug a handful in her most sensitive place.

As for why it has to be so complicated...

There is no way, high-level confrontation is so complicated to begin with.

Society is not just about studying and working. As long as you want to go higher, nothing is simple.

Su Zi once said——

"All simple love is because the needs are too easy to satisfy, and the needs that are easily satisfied never last long, and the replaceability of the objects provided is too high, so simple and pure love will only appear on campus, with flowers blooming brilliantly,

But there are very few results.”

After entering society, people's needs begin to become practical and complex, making matching more difficult.

Not only love, but also making friends can be difficult.

Who is Tang Xintian?

The leader's daughter is extremely beautiful, extremely intelligent, academically capable, and ambitious.

The friendliness and enthusiasm she showed towards Han Lie was because Han Lie could bring huge benefits, so she wanted to take action against Han Lie and show her charm.

In essence, she regarded Han Lie as prey.

I want to gain Han Lie's friendship by getting closer to each other, and then use the friendship to play a long-term binding role, and finally continue to reap benefits in a relatively cheap way.

This is not a bad thing, an evil thing.

Every self-reliant person should strive to actively show himself to leaders, bosses, elder brothers, elder sisters and other noble people, and try to use the value he can give in exchange for the help and support of others.

Otherwise, if you have been working diligently to earn hard money, when will you be able to provide a good life for your parents and family?

Tang Xintian's approach was not wrong, but he should not use his methods on Han Lie.
To be continued...