【288】After giving birth(1/2)
Xiao Zhanfeng sent Feng Jiang and the child home. After Song Yunlan and Liu Yunmian left, they suddenly looked at the four dolls lying beside their daughter-in-law. He has not yet awakened. Has his wife given birth? Has four children? Three boys and one girl?
"Dad, are you a younger brother and sister?" Xiao Yuanyuan looked at the four little babies lying on the bed curiously. She didn't dislike her red face because she had visited Aunt Wenxue's children with her mother before and there were other children from her aunt's families. She knew that newborn children were so red.
"Dad, I have younger brothers and sisters, four." Xiao Yuanyuan raised her head happily and looked at Xiao Zhanfeng, and said with a smile.
Xiao Zhanfeng looked at Xiao Yuanyuan, then at his wife and children, and nodded with a smile.
"Yes." Xiao Zhanfeng was also full of joy. His wife gave birth to four children, but her body did not leave much damage as before. She just took care of her during confinement. She didn't have to make people feel distressed as before.
"Wife, four children, you can't bring you alone." Xiao Zhanfeng looked at his wife who was lying on the kang, and even after a sleep, he couldn't hide his fatigue. He said in a negotiating tone, "Do you think, should you let your mother-in-law come to take care of you, or should my mother come to take care of you?"
Feng Jie actually didn't have any deep hatred with her mother-in-law. She didn't have many opportunities to get along with her. She has always lived in Beijing instead of living with her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law complained about her because she didn't have a son, so she didn't like her.
But now her son has given birth to three, can her mother-in-law still not like her grandson because of her? Even if Xiao Zhanfeng is not her favorite son, her grandson is still her grandson, and of course she likes them all.
"You should report the message to your family and tell your mother-in-law and my mother that if any of them wants to come, it's okay to come together or not. If you come together, we'll find someone to help take care of the children if you don't come." Feng Jie was very open-minded.
She had seen someone hire a nanny when she was in Beijing. Although her family was not rich, she still had to go to confinement now. It was impossible to stay alone with four newborn babies and a child over four years old.
Xiao Zhanfeng nodded, "Just decide."
Xiao Zhanfeng planned to cook first. After all, since he woke up, his wife ate the brown sugar and egg water he made from the hospital canteen and ate nothing. He could only prepare some food for his wife to replenish her body.
Feng Jeong looked at the four children beside her and couldn't help but smile happily. She felt that as soon as she saw these four children, she felt that the troubles she had for several hours this morning was worth it.
The news that Feng Yan had quadruplets and the third brother's son and a daughter swept across the entire military camp. Countless military wives were envious of her, while the soldiers envied Xiao Zhanfeng and had a few more children.
"Are they really quadplugs?"
"Yes, yes, all were born safely and very healthy."
"What you said is true, they really gave birth to four children, and three of them were boys?"
"Of course it's true. Everyone in the entire hospital knows it. You must know that this morning, Captain Xiao and his wife fell down accidentally while going to school and class, so they gave birth prematurely. The entire hospital was alarmed. It took several hours to give birth to the child even more alarmed the entire hospital. You must know that it is rare to see that one child gave birth to four in one child, and of course the news spread quickly."
"How can such a big deal of having four children in one child be fake? If the false words are said, it is a lie, and it is their own shame, so it is definitely not a lie."
"There are four children in one child, three of which are sons. Feng Jie is really lucky. Who knew that she had a daughter before and hurt her body, and she thought she could never give birth again?"
"That's right, when I just gave birth to my first daughter, many people said that she would have only the life of a daughter in her life, so I wondered when Captain Xiao would divorce her and then marry a woman who could have a son. As a result, they have given birth to quadruplets all at once?"
"That's right. Feng Jie had a very lively fight with her mother-in-law in the past. Feng Jie didn't go back to her mother-in-law's house for a long time and had a quarrel with her. I heard that Battalion Commander Xiao's mother forced Battalion Commander Xiao to divorce Feng Jie, and even planned to throw the daughter in bad health to Battalion Commander Xiao's wife and asked Battalion Commander Xiao to find another daughter-in-law who could have a son."
"This is too much, right? Even if you give birth to a daughter, they are also a wife for Battalion Commander Xiao. They have worked hard to give birth to a child, but they just let others have a divorce because they have a daughter. This is too much."
"What's so too much about this? Are women who can't have sons still considered women? Didn't she say that she can't give birth after giving birth to a daughter? Since she can't give birth, why are she staying in the pit and not stool?"
"That's right, Battalion Commander Xiao has a great future. Having a wife who only has one daughter and can never have another one will definitely not benefit him. If Battalion Commander Xiao was willing to divorce and marry a woman who would help his future, that would be reasonable."
"You are too much. Everyone is a woman. Just because you have a daughter, you have to force others to survive? You have to let others experience what you have experienced, right? It seems that if anyone of you gave birth to a daughter?"
"Why should Battalion Commander Xiao divorce his wife and marry a woman who will help him and his future? Why don't you divorce your own men and ask them to marry a wife who will help them and their future? In this way, you can benefit from the children in the future, right?"
"That's right, although your family has sons, you also have daughters. Don't you like that you have abused your daughters?"
"We are not as good as boys than girls to force our daughter to death. It's just like this that Captain Xiao's mother forced Captain Xiao to divorce his wife. Isn't this a normal thing? Aren't we sighing?"
"I tell you, now it's Xinhua Kingdom, so it's not popular to take concubines. However, in some places, they still find a few women who can give birth to their sons in addition to marrying a wife. This is not uncommon. So what if you don't have a name or a distinction? Just be able to give birth to a son, but there are many women who can't survive."
"Captain Xiao's mother asked Captain Xiao to take the divorce and not divorce his wife. You see, there is no good result now? Captain Xiao's wife gave birth to four at once, three of them were sons. Even if there was one daughter, Captain Xiao's family still had three sons now, and one more daughter is not affected."
"That's right, thanks to Captain Xiao who didn't listen to his mother's words to divorce his wife. Look at his wife's health and gave birth to four in one child after she has raised her body. What a blessing is this?"
"That's right, Captain Xiao's wife is not just a college student. After graduation, she also worked as a teacher at Peking University. Even if she is with the army now, she is still a teacher at our school. That is very promising. And now she has given birth to three sons at once, that is definitely a lucky person, and his life will be much better in the future."
"Just there are three more sons at once, so why don't Battalion Commander Xiao provide her with him?"
The military wives were envious and jealous of Feng Jie, and they were talking about Feng Jie's quadruplets, saying that her dialogue was good and bad.
When Feng Jie gave birth to Xiao Yuanyuan, because both mother and daughter were in good health, some doctors even said that if Feng Jie was not well raised, they would either not be able to give birth to a child in the future, or they would be in poor health than the current eldest daughter, so it would be equivalent to Feng Jie's ability to give birth.
Xiao Zhanfeng's mother, who only wanted to hold a grandson, disliked this daughter-in-law very much, so she wanted to let Xiao Zhanfeng divorce Feng Jiang and marry a daughter-in-law who could have a son.
It was also because of this incident that Feng Jie and her mother-in-law had a more severity. After all, she had a daughter and had not given birth to a son, and she could understand that her mother-in-law didn't like her, but she urged her husband to divorce her and marry someone else. This kind of thing made Feng Jie unable to bear it.
But now Feng Jie gave birth to four children at once, and three of them were boys. This made the thoughts remained when boys were more precious and the military wives felt that Feng Jie had been so happy that he could be so happy that his waist could be straight in front of his in-laws' house.
Even if the military wives are military families and their thoughts are more progressive, the tradition of continuing the incense that has been left in the bones of Chinese people since ancient times will never be erased. Therefore, for them, only having a son is the best. Only by having a son can they stand up straight, and only by having a son can they gain a foothold in their in-laws' house and make them no longer make things difficult for them.
In the past, when Feng Jiang gave birth to a daughter and his mother-in-law, no one would help her, because they all thought that Feng Jiang should swallow his anger and let his mother-in-law get along with him, instead of confronting her mother-in-law head-on and contradicting her mother-in-law.
Now Feng Jie has three sons and her waist is straightened, so she can resist when her mother-in-law makes things difficult for her. However, these people still think that being unfilial to the elders is not a good thing. Even if the elders are not kind, they must be filial to the elders.
Don’t talk about the problem of putting your heart in favor. Country people, especially rural women, will of course let others experience what they have experienced. For example, when they are young, they will let their mother-in-law get along with each other, and the mother-in-law acts as a wife and makes them look ugly and difficult to live. Then when they become mother-in-laws, they will also get along with their daughter-in-law.
This phenomenon repeats itself and is a vicious cycle.
Moreover, some people have a more vicious mouth. Even if the couple has a good relationship, they will blame the woman for the matter. It is really shameless to say that the woman used some tricks to hook her husband.
They don’t think it’s normal for a husband to love his wife so much, but they think that the woman used some means to seduce her husband.
They are obviously serious and married by the Ming media, but when the couple sees their relationship improve, they will arrange the man who is a wife behind their backs to seduce their men, which will make the man's soul unreasonable. Anyway, they just can't stand others' goodness.
Of course, there is also something that doesn’t want your daughter-in-law to win the heart of your son. If you worry that your son will have a wife and forget your mother, he will maliciously slander many beautiful girls and maliciously slander your daughter-in-law. These are all caused by women’s jealousy.
This time Feng Jie gave birth to quadruplets, and these people also said a lot behind their backs. Of course, they were envious and jealous and hated Feng Jie for being able to give birth to quadruplets, so the words behind her were also filled with envious and jealous tones.
Fortunately, my wife gave birth to a child and had four children all at once. Xiao Zhanfeng was surprised and went to train or came back every day to circle around his wife and children, and he didn't care what he said outside at all.
Xiao Zhanfeng didn't know what was going on outside about his wife and children? Because she was thinking about her daughter-in-law and children, she didn't pay attention to other things at all. Of course, she didn't know that others had arranged her daughter-in-law behind her back again, especially after seeing her revolving around her daughter-in-law all day, she still arranged her daughter-in-law and didn't know what methods she used to make him so devoted, which was definitely not a good method or something.
Xiao Zhanfeng was busy taking care of his wife and children during the confinement period. Because it was winter and there were many children, he did it himself to wash diapers and clothes. Fortunately, the fabric used for diapers is not the kind that cannot be washed with a washing machine, so Xiao Zhanfeng just sent the diapers to Nuannuan's home to wash them with a washing machine.
Of course, if the diapers are wet, they can certainly be placed in the washing machine to wash. But if the diapers are dirty, then Xiao Zhanfeng has to use water to clean the daisy before putting it in the washing machine to wash it again.
Because if you wash it in a washing machine, you can use it after washing it, just put it on the kang and bake it on the kang for a while. Therefore, during this period, Xiao Zhanfeng frequently used Su Qiao's washing machine.
Nuannuan never thought about buying a washing machine for Feng Jie and their relationship, because a washing machine with drying is really expensive. Although Feng Jie's savings can be bought, their family will have no savings after buying the washing machine.
Feng Zhi's family still has four children to raise. If they spend all their savings by buying a washing machine, it would be really not worth it. So Nuannuan did not think about finding a way for Feng Zhi and others to buy a washing machine, but lent out his own washing machine.
Xiao Zhanfeng was busy taking care of his wife during this period, but he also found an opportunity to inform him of his wife's childbirth in his hometown. When Feng Zhe was just pregnant, Xiao Zhanfeng had already told them about his hometown, and both his family and Yue's family told them about Feng Zhe's pregnancy.
After all, Feng Jie became pregnant again after four years, so of course they hoped that Feng Jie could give birth to a child safely. Especially the mothers of the two families, Xiao Zhanfeng's mother hoped that Feng Jie could give birth to a son for his son, otherwise the son would be the last one, especially the son was a dangerous profession in the army. How pitiful if there was someone who did not inherit the incense?
As for Feng Jie's mother, she hopes that her daughter can give birth to a son and that her waist can be straight in her in-laws' house. Otherwise, it would be very bad for her to be disliked by her in-laws. As her mother's family, they would gossip about seeing her in-laws bullying her and wanting to help her daughter, and would not let her family help.
Now that Feng Jie finally gave birth to a child, Feng Jie's parents' family gave him a breath, and Feng Jie finally didn't have to be angry with his in-laws.
When the news about Xiao Zhanfeng came back to his hometown, Xiao Zhanfeng's mother was in surprise and jumped up.
"What you said is true. Zhan Feng's wife really gave birth to four children, three of whom were boys?" Xiao Zhanfeng's mother asked in surprise, grabbing the arm of the person who came to report the news. It was obvious that Xiao Zhanfeng had a son and she and Gao Xing.
"Of course it's true. Zhan Feng called me back and told me, saying that he would like to notify you and his mother-in-law's family. His wife gave birth to four children a few days ago, and the mother and son were safe. Now all four children are very good." The person who reported the news said with certainty.
Xiao Zhanfeng's mother heard the affirmative answer and made a more message. Has the daughter-in-law made a big splash? There has been no movement for four years, but now she is born with her three grandchildren. What a joyful thing?
It is obvious that Xiao Zhanfeng's mother has forgotten her youngest granddaughter. She focuses all her attention on her three grandchildren, and her little granddaughter is optional.
To be honest, the Xiao family really does not lack children. The brother above Xiao Zhanfeng and his younger brother. There are boys in their families, so Xiao Zhanfeng's mother does not lack grandchildren at all. But she always feels that her son may face danger at any time when she goes to the army. If he has something to do, it would be really worrying if he has no children.
Now that the son of this family finally has a son, she can feel at ease.
"By the way, Zhan Feng said he was very busy and had to train every day and didn't have much time to take care of his wife. Moreover, his wife couldn't take care of four children by herself. I would like to ask you or his mother-in-law if anyone came to help take care of the children?" The person who reported the news said again.
"Go to take care of the confinement period?" Xiao Zhenfeng's mother was a little eager to try when she heard this. She wanted to see her three grandchildren, but she was stopped by her eldest daughter-in-law.
"Mom, Zhan Feng's wife does need someone to take care of her when she gave birth to a child, but there are people in our family who need to take care of her. My uncle and his wife have just given birth to her, and we also need to watch so many children in our family. If you run to their side, who will take care of the family?"
"And you have a bad relationship with Zhan Feng's wife. If you go up like this now, what if your brother and sister get angry when you see you? This makes her feel uncomfortable during confinement, why don't you let her mother go over and take a look?"
"Mom, you are not only Zhan Feng, you are also not only of those grandchildren. You are also from my uncle's family who just gave birth to a short time ago and need someone to take care of the confinement period. The children also need someone to take care of them. So if you go there now, who will take care of my uncle and his wife?"
Originally, Xiao Zhanfeng's mother was biased, and she was biased towards her eldest son and younger son. Now that she was stopped by her eldest daughter-in-law with her younger grandson, she certainly would not take care of Xiao Zhanfeng's son.
Although she was surprised that her son had three sons, they didn't have a good relationship with Xiao Zhanfeng after all. Relatively speaking, the newly born grandson was really not as good as the grandson she had taken care of herself, so when she was stopped by her eldest daughter-in-law, Xiao Zhanfeng's mother was stopped.
Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law originally didn't want Xiao Zhanfeng's mother to go to Xiao Zhanfeng to take care of Xiao Zhanfeng's children. She was jealous of Xiao Zhanfeng's family and even more jealous of Feng Jie. Now Feng Jie gave birth to four children in one child, and her jealousy in her heart became even stronger.
Originally, she was jealous of Feng Jeong as a college student and she looked very good. She married Xiao Zhanfeng, the most promising Xiao family. She was particularly jealous of Feng Feng Jeong from the beginning. She would not have a good face when facing her, and she often used eye drops in front of her parents-in-law and even in front of her husband.
Fortunately, Feng Zhe married Xiao Zhanfeng and gave birth to a daughter soon after, and Feng Zhe was in poor health because of this child. Not only was her own daughter's health not good, Feng Zhe herself also injured her body because of giving birth to a daughter. When the news came and came to her hometown, it was said that Feng Zhe would never have children again. At this time, Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law was very happy.
Feng Jie is indeed more beautiful than her, has higher education, and has married better than her, but so what? She is much better than Feng Jie in giving birth to a child. Feng Jie can never give birth to a daughter after giving birth, but she has four sons and two daughters.
Originally, Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law was very arrogant. She looked down on Feng Jie when giving birth, and was very contemptuous of Feng Jie. She also said bad things about Feng Jie in front of her mother-in-law. Even when Xiao Zhanfeng's mother went to the army to force Xiao Zhanfeng to divorce Feng Jie, it was Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law who instigated her sister-in-law.
She had already destroyed the relationship between her mother-in-law and Feng Jie. As a result, the news came back that Feng Jie gave birth to quadruplets after more than four years, three of whom were boys, which made Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law very unhappy and secretly scolded God for being so good to Feng Jie.
Feng Jie has given birth to four children with such a good life. Of course, Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law can't let this mother-in-law take care of Feng Jie anymore. What if Feng Jie and her mother-in-law are getting better and better because of the face of the four children? Anyway, Xiao Zhanfeng's sister-in-law just doesn't want her mother-in-law to treat Feng Jie too well.
Xiao Zhanfeng's mother was stopped, and no one in the Xiao family planned to visit Feng Jie and his family.
However, Feng Jie's parents' home was very happy after hearing that Feng Jie gave birth to quadruplets.
In addition to being able to get into college, Feng Jeong was very outstanding, and her family loved her very much, otherwise she would not have found a good man like Xiao Zhanfeng to let her get married.
Feng Jie's family is not the only daughter, but it is the daughter that his parents like very much. Moreover, Feng Jie is the eldest sister, and her sister admires her very much, but she does not have much jealousy about Feng Jie. The atmosphere in their family is very good.
Feng Jeong has been working and studying in Beijing for many years. When he returned to his hometown, he also went back to his parents' home instead of his mother-in-law's house. It was because the people in his parents' home were kind to her, and his mother-in-law always looked at her coldly, and her sister-in-law sneered at her, making her dislike the atmosphere of her in-laws.
The people in the Feng family are very good to Feng Jie, but the people in the countryside always think that they will not be straightforward if they don’t have a son. Even if the people in the Feng family love Feng Jie’s daughter very much, they don’t think that their son must be more important than their daughters, but others don’t think so.
Feng Jie's father certainly knew that this daughter was definitely a treasure in their family, but it was not necessarily true that she would marry someone else's family. Their family could not favor boys over girls and could give Feng Jie to college, but other people's family might not necessarily be like this.
To be continued...