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In most people imagine that if you become a son-in-law, you will become the emperor's son-in-law, with wealth and glory, and glory.

But the real history is just the opposite. The life of the prince-consort can be described as "tragic".

In ancient times, it was normal for men in Chinese to have three wives and four concubines, but the prince consort must not take concubines, otherwise it would be disrespectful to the royal family and that the wife could not ask for three obediences and four virtues. Conversely, the prince consort should treat the princess three obediences and four virtues.

"Ming History·Zhi Zi·Li Jiu" records: "The prince consort is on the platform outside the palace at dawn. After three months, he goes to the hall, goes to the door, goes to the screen wall, and bows as before. He first sees the meal in front of the princess, the princess eats and eats, and the prince consort stands beside him."

The princess and the princess cannot live in the same room together. They will come to greet the princess in the morning. During the meal, the princess sat and the princess stood and served. This is not the princess, it is obviously a slave!

During the reign of Emperor Yingzong of the Ming Dynasty, Princess Changde married Xue Huan. Because the princess didn't like Xue Huan much, Xue Huan could only have fun with her maid. When Princess Changde found out, she cried to the emperor. As a result, Xue Huan was "inspected in the court for the judicial examination, and was beheaded, and was banned from the Jinyi Guard."

During the Qing Dynasty, the status of the prince-consort was slightly higher, but it was not very good.

After the princess got married, she had a special princess's mansion, and she was supervised by the nanny from the clan mansion. The prince consort was not allowed to live in the mansion. She could only live in a small house next to the princess' mansion. Only when the nanny agreed to the princess' summoning could the prince consort stay for a night.

This also led to many princesses who wanted to live a couple's life and had to bribe the nanny.

If the princess dies first, the prince consort will be driven out of the princess's mansion and all property will be filled in the palace treasury.

Some people may think that the prince-consort in the Ming and Qing dynasties was too miserable, and the prince-consort who moved forward should be better.

This idea is very wrong.

Take the prince consort of the Tang Dynasty as an example.

Guo Ziyi's sixth son Guo Yan married Princess Shengping, the daughter of Emperor Daizong of Tang. Princess Shengping was very charming and often scolded Guo Yan. Once Guo Yan was scolded and said, "My father just looked down on your Li family, otherwise he would have become emperor long ago." Princess Shengping told Tang Daizong of Tang. Emperor Daizong of Tang said truthfully, "Yes, if Guo Ziyi wanted to be the emperor, my throne would have been his." Guo Ziyi learned about this, quickly tied Guo Yan to take the thorns and apologized, and beat Guo Yan to beat Guo Yan. Since then, Guo Yan never dared to talk back again, and Princess Shengping became even more powerful. The son of the powerful minister Guo Ziyi became the son-in-law, and it was even more conceivable.

Princess Xuancheng, the daughter of Emperor Gaozu of Tang, married a minister. Princess Xuancheng heard that her son-in-law had an external favor and was very jealous. She asked people to find the woman, and then cut off the woman's ears and noses in front of everyone in the hall and shaved her hair. Everyone around her felt that the princess was very cruel.

Emperor Xuanzong of Tang, Princess Wanshou, married his son-in-law Zheng Hao, and Zheng Hao's younger brother once fell seriously ill. Emperor Xuanzong of Tang told Princess Wanshou: As a sister-in-law, you should see your brother-in-law. Two days later, Emperor Xuanzong of Tang asked Princess Wanshou: Have you gone to see it? Princess Wanshou replied: No. Emperor Xuanzong of Tang asked her where she was going? Princess Wanshou said she was watching the show.

Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty, the daughter of Hepu Association, married Fang Xuanling's son, but at the same time fell in love with a monk Hua and put a big cuckold on her son-in-law. Her son-in-law dared not be angry or speak out.

Emperor Suzong of Tang Dynasty, Princess Gao Guo, married Xiao Sheng, but at the same time, four lovers.

Although Princess Anle, the daughter of Emperor Zhongzong of Tang, married Wu Chongxun, she was entangled with Wu Chongxun's brothers.

Because the princess was arrogant since childhood, many of them acted very domineeringly and didn't care much about their prince-consort's ideas. Anyway, they could change their prince-consorts at any time.

Moreover, these princesses often have a crush on each other and do not allow their prince-in-law to marry concubines outside.

What’s more important is that after becoming a son-in-law, he will basically no longer be awarded a real position, but will only be awarded a honorary title, and the officials in the family will also be implicated. If the father becomes an official, he will be promoted and then retire directly.

In the Song Dynasty, because the status of scholars and officials was too high, they would criticize them at all times, and sometimes even scold the emperor, let alone the emperor's princess. Therefore, the character of the Song Dynasty princess was actually much better, and the son-in-law of the Song Dynasty was somewhat stronger than that of the son-in-law of other dynasties.

But the psychological advantages of the princesses are exactly the same as those of the princesses in other dynasties.

Therefore, it is also difficult to be the son-in-law of the Song Dynasty. The key is that the future is not bright.

If you don’t talk about it, just talk about Cai Wang.

Cai Yan's knowledge is actually very good. He even passed the imperial examination, but because he became the prince-consort, he could only hold a free position in Xuanhe Palace. Not only did he have no future, but he had to revolve around Zhao Fujin every day.

There was a Song Dynasty with 117 top scholars. Except for a top scholar named Zhou Zhenyan who almost became the son-in-law during the reign of Emperor Lizong of Song Dynasty, none of them became the son-in-law.

(There were eighty-nine top scholars in the Ming Dynasty, and none of them became the son-in-law.)

As for the story of Chen Shimei winning the top scorer to recruit the son-in-law, it is completely false.

In fact, since the founding of the Song Dynasty, the son-in-laws were mostly selected among the sons of meritorious officials, military generals or relatives, and they did not make any decisions among the highest-ranking talents (i.e., Jinshi) - there were only a few son-in-laws who had the status of Jinshi.

Therefore, people with a little ambition and talent will avoid choosing a son-in-law.

When I arrived at Cai Gan, because of my lofty goals, I was even more reluctant to be the prince consort.

Therefore, seeing that Zhao Fujin was pursuing him relentlessly, Cai was still preparing to explain clearly to Zhao Fujin so that Zhao Fujin would not ruin his good deeds.

Based on this, Cai still invited Zhao Fujin to his living room.

After the two of them were silent for a while, Cai still looked at Zhao Fujin and said earnestly: "You are a smart little lady, and a kind little lady. If I use the means of retreating and giving up, it will be really unfair to you. I feel a little unbearable, so today I will explain it to you."

After a pause, Cai still said: "You may not know me very much. Although I have not married, I am lustful. I have five concubines, more than a dozen maids, one daughter, and three unborn children. I love my concubines very much and will not give up on them for anyone, so I cannot compete with you."

Zhao Fujin said: "I am not a jealous person, I..."

Seeing that he had said that he was lustful and became a person, Zhao Fujin did not give up getting himself, Cai still quickly said: "Since you have participated in the family dinner of our Cai family that day, you should listen to the poems I wrote, and then you should understand my ambitions. I think you should know more about what kind of person the prince consort is."

Fearing that Zhao Fujin was confused about continuing to get entangled, Cai simply said: "If I were to be my son-in-law, then I would rather die."

Cai still looked at Zhao Fujin, his voice slowly slowed down: "You are very beautiful and very kind. I'll tell the truth, if you were not the princess, I would definitely be willing to marry you as a wife. Now... I can only say that luck is a mess."

After saying that, Cai still deliberately showed a look of regret or even reluctance.

actually--

The reason why Cai Shen showed such a look was that he was completely afraid that Zhao Fujin would take revenge on him, and then forced himself to rebel in advance, so Cai Shen took this bad move to stabilize Zhao Fujin.

Unexpectedly, Zhao Fujin even said affectionately: "I don't have to be my son-in-law. I know that your ambition is higher than the sky. If you want you to be my son-in-law, it will destroy you, a great hero who stands tall and strong. I am... that's..."

Zhao Fujin couldn't say anything about the following "I like you and want to talk to you" - after all, she is still an unmarried girl.

Unexpectedly, Cai still misunderstood because of this.

Cai still thought that Zhao Fujin was also a romantic princess, who wanted to find herself as her lover. To put it bluntly, she wanted to find herself as her runner.

Cai Shen looked at Zhao Fujin carefully and found that she was really beautiful, and the more she looked, the more she looked, the more she looked, and her body was filled with the fragrance of a sunny girl. The key was that she also had the identity of a princess, which made Cai Shen, who had not eaten meat for a while, and had the idea of ​​conquering her.

More importantly, Cai was still worried that if he didn't answer Zhao Fujin, Zhao Fujin would keep pestering him, and even more so, he directly asked Zhao Ji to recruit him as his son-in-law and ruin his major affairs.

"If you want to look back, just look back. Han Xin can be humiliated by the crotch. Why can't I behave back as a cow and wolf? Besides, if you don't have much time, Zhao Ji will summon me, and then I can go back to the Jinwu army. At that time, where will she find me? Then I can jump to the sea with a wide fish and let the birds fly."

Thinking of this, Cai still stood up, then came to Zhao Fujin, and then hugged Zhao Fujin, who was at a loss, and then he hugged him in the waist.

Zhao Fujin was shocked and hurriedly said, "What are you...what are you going to do?"

Cai still said: "For safety reasons, you can't stay here for too long, so we have to hurry up."

"Why hurry up?" Zhao Fujin had no idea what Cai Shen was talking about.

But before Zhao Fujin could say what he wanted to say, Cai still kissed Zhao Fujin's red lips and hugged Zhao Fujin to the bed not far away...

...

actually--

Shortly after the two started the war, Cai Shen realized that it might be because Zhao Fujin had no experience at all and was at the mercy of Cai Shen like a puppet.

But there is no turning back when you open the bow, let alone Cai was still rushing into his brain at that time.

As a result, Zhao Fujin was confused and called Cai Shen to succeed.

Soon, Cai Shan’s previous speculation was confirmed - Zhao Fujin fell into the rainbow...

However, at this time, the raw rice had been cooked into porridge, and Cai still knew that he had guessed wrong, so what could he do?

Afterwards, Zhao Fujin bit Cai Jian hard, and then snuggled in Cai Jian's arms to discuss Cai Jian's arms: "For me, can you give up your ambitions? I promise that no matter how many concubines you take, I will not be jealous."

Cai Shen heard this and quickly changed the subject and said, "Why are you so brave? Not only do you dare to come to my residence to find me, but you also dare to come to my residence to wait for me. Are you not afraid of your reputation being damaged?"

Zhao Fujin looked at Cai Jian with some resentment, blaming Cai Jian for not being her son-in-law!

After a while, Zhao Fujin pouted and said, "I will come to you whenever I want to come to you. I will stay with you for as long as I want to stay with you, and who dares to care about me?"

What Cai Jian fears most is Zhao Fujin. If she returns like this, she will come to find Cai Jian whenever she wants to come to find Cai Jian. What's more, she stays with Cai Jian like today. The relationship between the two will sooner or later be discovered by others, which will cause incalculable trouble for Cai Jian!

So Cai still quickly advised: "If you want to see me again in the future, don't come to me. Just send me a message to me. I will go to find you..."
Chapter completed!