Chapter 193 Nan Yan is narrow-minded about feelings

Nan Yan: "..."

Of course she knows what kind of benefits she enjoys and what responsibilities she has to bear.

She still understands the principle that good fortune and misfortune depend on each other.

Even if she knew it, she couldn't accept that her man had affairs with other women.

Kong Shangci continued: "Your Aunt Yu is pretty good, at least she didn't do it before Sanniang came in, like other families who asked their sons to produce the eldest son and the eldest daughter of a concubine.

Even if Zhen Nian has concubines now, let these people take medicine. Sanniang will not let concubines give birth to children before she gives birth to a legitimate son."

When Kong Shangci said this, Nan Yanma stood up from the chair and said, "I'm going to Yu's house."

"Why are you going to Yu's house?" Kong Shangci said in a panic.

"Didn't Mom say that Sanniang would have a baby? I will help her get her body in order so that she can give birth to a legitimate son as soon as possible."

She can't control the world, and she can't change the world's monogamy and polyconcubine system.

She couldn't take care of the Yu family's affairs, so she went to the Yu family to help her little friend get well and give birth to her eldest son, so that her little friend could go to the head office safely!

Kong Shangci breathed a sigh of relief, "You kid, don't be so surprised. I thought... I thought..."

Ouch, my daughter just scolded Yu Zhinian so fiercely for not being a man.

She also thought that her daughter was going to beat Yu Zhinian at the door of Yu's house.

The daughter said she was going to help Sanniang take care of her health. Her heart was beating loudly and became much calmer for a while.

Nan Yan was speechless: "Mom thought I was going to come and beat Yu Nian."

Kong Shangci was embarrassed to say "Yes" and smiled awkwardly: "No, no, no, how could my mother think so!"

Nan Yan: "..."

I believe you, you said with a clear expression that I have a bad temper and want to hit someone at their door.

Kong Shangci held Nan Yan down and said, "Yan'er, although you have a good relationship with Sanniang and can't bear to see her stay alone in an empty room and watch her husband favor his concubine, but now is not the time for you to visit Yu's house."

Nan Yan was puzzled.

Kong Shangci was helpless.

My daughter is a good daughter, but she is too impulsive in some things for her own people.

Kong Shangci said: "Just think about it, your Aunt Yu brought Sanniang to visit our house today. As soon as they left, you went to Yu's house.

Let your Aunt Yu think about it."

Nan Yan was silent.

Her mother was right.

He Sanniang and Mrs. Yu had just left home.

If she goes to Yu's house now, it might make Mrs. Yu think that it was He Sanniang who said something bad to her.

That's why she hurriedly came to help He Sanniang.

Nan Yan sat down glumly and said, "Okay, I won't go today. I'll send the bean sprouts to Sanniang another day."

Kong Shangci took Nan Yan's hand and said, "It's not that Mom doesn't want you to go. It's a good thing for you to help Sanniang diagnose her pulse and regulate her body. In case other people don't understand and think that you use your identity to show off your power in the Yu family, you will instead treat Sanniang and Sanniang.

It's not good for you.

If you really want to help Sanniang and establish yourself in the third room of the Yu family, there will be plenty of opportunities in the future so don't rush for this moment.

And Yan'er, you have to understand that if Sanniang wants to live a good life in Yufu, in addition to giving birth to her eldest son, she also needs to see how her brothers are doing.

If her natal brothers are promising and have their natal brothers to help her, even if she has many concubines, Sanniang's life will not be difficult."

This is the sorrow of ancient women!

At home, you obey your father, when you get married, you obey your husband, and when your husband dies, you obey your son.

It seems that all the glory of this generation depends on men.

Whether a married woman lives well in her husband's family depends mostly on the support of her mother's family.

Nan Yan thought about it and realized that her mother was right.

To put it bluntly, I and He Sanniang are just friends.

She can help He Sanniang for a while, but she cannot help He Sanniang forever.

The most important thing is for He Sanniang to stand up on her own.

And in these evil ancient times, if the brothers of the mother's family live well, the married woman will get more respect from her husband's family, which is much better than if she is a good friend.

Kong Shangci continued to say sincerely: "If her mother's brother gets the power, and Sanniang herself is smarter, and she gives birth to a child next to her, life will not be bad."

Of course Nan Yan knew that if He Sanniang was smarter, her life would not be difficult.

Doesn’t she just accept that her friend’s man has other women?

Nan Yan sighed: "If my husband has another woman in the future, I can cripple his third leg."

Kong Shangci: "..."

What is this kid talking nonsense about?

The imperial edict was also issued, and it was no surprise that the little daughter was destined to have an extraordinary life.

The younger daughter said that the man’s third leg was crippled. She really dared to say this.

Kong Shangci reprimanded: "The royal family has three palaces and six courtyards, one queen, four concubines, nine concubines, twenty-seven wives and eighty-one royal wives. Even if there are really more other women in the palace in the future, your idea is not feasible. You only need to do a good job."

Just do what you should do."

She even wanted to say bluntly that if there were other concubines in the palace in the future, her daughter would only need to do what a queen should do.

Nan Yan smiled and said nothing.

Ye Xiaoyun has no chance to have another woman in this life.

If one day comes, she won't mind killing Ye Xiaoyun and establishing herself as king and ruling the world.

She had such dark thoughts but would not tell her mother, which made her mother think she was being rebellious.

So we turned to other topics: "Has my eldest sister come back from her grandma's stay this morning?"

This morning she and her mother entertained the Yu family's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the eldest sister went to the old lady's yard to serve the old lady.

Kong Shangci shook his head, "Not yet. Your eldest sister will probably take the baby back for lunch break after finishing her meal in the main courtyard."

It is said that the Nan family is already supported by Mr. and Mrs. Nan Liang. The Fang family of Nan Zhonglun is called the old man and the old lady. The main courtyard is still occupied by Mr. and Mrs. Nan Zhonglun.

To show the status of the old couple in the family.

The courtyard of Nanyan and Nanning sisters is right next to the east courtyard where Nanliang Kong Shangci lived.

As for her second brother.

The old father said that if a man is not married, he cannot go to the backyard and let him stay in the front yard and look after the house.

Kong Shangci and Nan Yan kept talking until noon.

The mother and daughter went back to see Nan Liang, who was recovering from illness, to have lunch, and then Nan Yan planned to go out for a walk in the Chamber of Commerce.

Just as Nan Yan was about to go to the Chamber of Commerce and walked out of her parents' yard, Butler Nan came to report, "Madam, Miss, the female officer sent by the palace has arrived and is waiting in the front yard."

Old customs of the Xia Dynasty.

Before the queen and the princess get married, the palace will send female officials to their homes to teach them about palace etiquette, palace rules and other matters.

Ye Xiaoyun sent people here. On the one hand, he assigned people to protect Nan Yan. He also followed the rules of his ancestors to let others know that he valued Nan Yan as the queen.

If no one is assigned to Nan Yan, other caring people will think that he does not value Nan Yan!

Nan Yan and Kong Shangci went to the front yard. Nan Yan saw five palace attendants headed by the Queen.

When the Queen and the five palace attendants saw Nan Yan, even though Nan Yan was not the queen, they bowed respectfully and said: "I have seen the third girl."

Nan Yan waved her hand and said: "Get up!"

Then he sat on a chair nearby and looked at these people carefully.

Seeing Nan Yan sit down, Princess Wang began to introduce herself and the five others.

At the same time, he also told Nan Yan what she needed to learn next.

After hearing this, Nan Yan looked depressed and suddenly didn't want to get married.

The Queen's Lady is worthy of being someone who came out of the palace. When she saw Nan Yan's lack of interest, she said: "Girl, the servants came to the Lord and told me that girls do not need to learn according to the rules, but only need to understand the rules and matters in the palace."

Ye Xiaoyun knew that Nan Yan didn't like all kinds of rules and regulations.

Therefore, the Queen and others only need to let Nan Yan know how to do something, and be able to deal with the nagging courtiers in the court.
Chapter completed!