1710. Chapter 1710 Well matched
Chapter 1710 A match between the two
The camera switched, Jiang Xiaoli came over to confront Xilingchen with Jun Chen. Zhou Ming originally wanted to go to Long'er's place, but Qian Yan came to him. She called Qianzang over and Youche also came with her.
Qianyan looked at Youche first, then looked at Qianzang and Zhouming: "Do you two go back to the Demon Sect?"
Qianzang Fu'e: "You actually call your organization the Demon Cult... You are really--"
Qian Yanman spread his hands indifferently: "What's the matter? My situation is similar to Xiao Cheche, and I can't be considered a Demon Cult."
Youche's face turned blue: "Don't call this title!"
Qianzang looked at the Ritou: "It's still morning now. I'll have lunch with Xiao Zi and the others later, and I'll go back in the afternoon."
Zhou Ming turned his eyes and looked at Long'er who was talking to Gucheng with Shiyu and Yanran: "I don't really want to go back."
At this time, Qian Yan no longer laughed like she had just appeared. A deep look appeared between her eyebrows, and a faint sadness was also accompanied by: "I will go back after all, right? I will not say much if you leave the Demon Sect. But you are still a Demon Sect. As long as you are in the Demon Sect, your contact with them will be limited."
Ru Yan Zi also came over, as if she heard the conversation between them, and said in confusion: "Then let's get out! Since it's not good at all in the Demon Sect, why don't you leave as soon as possible, Brother Azang?"
Qian Yan shook her head: "You are not from the Demon Sect, you don't understand. However, I want to ask you, little girl, why have you entered the right path?"
Ru Yan Zi remembered the days when she lived with Brother Yisheng, Xiaoyu and the others, and smiled on her face and answered innocently: "I was born on the right path, lived on the right path, and the magic I practiced is also the orthodox way. Of course, I am the right path!"
Qianyan turned around and asked, "Zhouming, where are you?"
Zhou Ming is also a ignorant of the world. He answered similarly: "I was born in the Demon Sect and lived in the Demon Sect. I also practiced the Demon Sect. If I don't get involved in the Demon Sect, where else can I go?"
This statement is sad and a pity. The different living environment and different growth experiences have created differences between the two sides. The audience didn't know what barrage should be posted for a while.
In Ru Yan Zi's view, everything she lives and comes into contact with is the right way, so she cannot understand the Demon Sect. From the perspective of Zhou Ming, he was born and grown in the Demon Sect, so he cannot understand the right way.
Finally, some viewers posted barrage. They wanted to know if the situation in Tianxiao Pavilion and Jiuyou Palace was the same?
Some Liang Que's party also said that if Liangzi and Yue Que could understand each other and move forward and back together, would it be that Liang Xiao would be together? There is also Jun Ju said that it was a pity. The difference in life and position was destined that they would not choose each other.
Qianzang let out a deep breath: "Can I get out? My family is all in the Demon Sect. I can't leave easily if I want to leave alone. I can't leave everything. In some ways, should I envy you both?"
He was talking about Youche, who had long been separated from the Demon Sect, and Qianyan, who was half separated from the Demon Sect.
Few people know Qian Yan's real name. In fact, it is not a coincidence that she and Qian Zang have the same surname. They were originally a family. Qian Yan could leave as soon as he said, but Qian Zang could not leave everything behind.
Abandoning everything for love seems great, but in fact it is very selfish. Qian Yan naturally knows this truth, and even knows that love between the good and the demons is usually not happy.
Therefore, when she saw that Azang and Xiao Zi's relationship became closer and closer, A Ming became more and more attached to Long'er. As for Ache and Dai'er's situation might be better - so she felt that her sister needed to remind them of their younger brothers whether they decided to start the "taboo love".
"I believe everyone knows it," she said in front of the audience, "The right and the demon are inseparable, and once the people of both the right and the demon have a relationship - this relationship will be unwilling to the world. Not many people will be happy about them being together, and don't expect that after they get married, the grudges between the two parties will be written off... After all, it is difficult for blood debt to disappear due to the so-called marriage. The harm has been caused. How can we fill it with the taboo love?"
"Even if they really abandon everything selfishly and choose to elope, they may be happy for a while, but in the long run, will they really be happy forever?"
"The so-called opposition between the right and the demon is also a confrontation of ideas. People on both sides, because their living environment and concepts are too different, that is, the three views are not in line, so this situation can easily cause the love that desperately dissipated in the day and day of food, rice, oil and salt when they were young."
"This is reality. If you don't say it wishful thinking, you will definitely not be happy. And when you are in love, you may not be happy forever. It depends on whether relatives, friends and people around you will bless them. Generally speaking, the relationship that is not blessed is tragic."
You should know that relatives and friends will not object to you for no reason. Since you think you are not suitable, it means that you do have something that cannot be integrated into.
Although you can turn a blind eye to each other when you fall in love, as the disadvantages caused by "unmatched family and inconsistent relationships" gradually become apparent, when you are tortured by days when you are unable to see hope again and again, you will inevitably start to think about what you gave up for the other party.
If you didn’t choose the other person at the beginning, can you have a better life now? You may think it’s the other person’s fault... At this time, the other person’s shortcomings that you once felt could be tolerated will be infinitely magnified and become a burden that completely crushes you.
For ordinary people, they may not have the chance to experience a shocking love affair with good and demons. What more people may face is the difference between the lintel.
Someone shared his story in the barrage. She was originally a girl living in a metropolis and had a good family background. Later, she fell in love with a boy from a poor family. She had to bear all the expenses during dating. Every time she met, she had to pay for him out of her own pocket and went to see him in another place. The boy never mentioned reimbursing her travel expenses, and he never took the initiative to come to her city.
Friends who know these things all think that such a boy is unreliable. But at that time, she was still living at home and her financial expenses depended on her parents, so she didn't think it was a big deal.
Because she loved him, she eventually insisted on marrying her family despite the opposition of her relatives and friends.
The boy's family was so poor that he couldn't even afford the bride price. The only house was rented and a single-parent family. There was only an unemployed father in the family, but she didn't mind these things when she was in love and believed foolishly that "drinking water with love" was "full of love."
At first, she thought she had married love. Even when she came to a city where she was unfamiliar with her, everything had to start over, and she was full of confidence. But in just a few days of happy days, her husband began to become colder with her. He didn't care about her needs, and even turned a deaf ear to her discomfort. Only when she needed money, would he come to say a few good words to her.
What she couldn't stand the most was her husband's lack of motivation. Her husband had a low education and could only do a lower-level job, and her monthly salary was only enough to pay rent, water and electricity. She had advised her husband many times to try to study, but her husband just spoke perfunctorily and didn't want to work hard at all. Her father-in-law just carried a bottle of wine all day long, and she had to raise the two men of big and small ones.
At the same time, they often have disputes over financial problems. She wants her husband to save some because they can't afford to spend their situation, but her husband will lose his temper at her. He always slapped the fat man in the face. He obviously has no money, but he always has to fight for face to treat him at brothers' gatherings. They have quarreled for these things, and she has really experienced the feeling of "poor couples are sad for everything".
Later she became pregnant, and her husband was really happy for a moment. He also said he wanted to quit his current job and find a job with a higher salary. He did quit. She was so moved that she shed tears, thinking that her husband was really willing to change his past.
Unexpectedly, after her husband resigned, he never looked for a new job. He said that she was pregnant now and needed someone to take care of her, but he acted like he was not at all home. He went out all day long either to stay in a casino or to play games.
In order to cope with the lives of the three people, she could no longer stay at home to raise her baby. She could only continue to work with her big belly, and when she returned home, she continued to take care of her father-in-law and husband who were all-in-one. Every time she saw how her pregnant female colleague was cared for by her husband's family, she could only swallow her tears.
When she woke up after giving birth, the first thing she saw was her father-in-law who was smiling at her. She asked her husband where he was. Her father-in-law stammered and said that he couldn't come back for the time being. But her husband had no job, so what reason was there to prevent him from being with his wife who gave birth in time?
Later she realized that when she was lying in the delivery room and endured the torture, her husband was taking the salary she earned during her pregnancy and went to Qlou to have fun.
With an extra mouth at home, life became even more embarrassing. She also went from being a young girl who was once a wise man to being tortured by the pressure of life to a haggard woman with a vicissitudes of life. When she saw her former friends posting photos on micro-time and space, she couldn't help but feel sad when she saw that they were still young and beautiful. And her life is something she always finds difficult to talk about.
She began to understand why her husband was a single-parent family. Perhaps the stories of the older generation were exactly the same as them. Perhaps her father-in-law was handsome when she was young, which attracted a silly girl and gave birth to a child for him. Later, because she could not bear his laziness, her mother-in-law resolutely chose to divorce. After the divorce, her father-in-law still had no change and now she relies on her son's income to support her every day.
If one day I leave this family, perhaps the old and the young will choose to continue to support the next generation.
Her youthful love for her husband has long been exhausted by the miserable life. Now she continues to choose to stay because she can't run. She has also been assimilated by this family of drifters. She has lost all her dreams when she was young and her fighting spirit. Now she is just living together with a husband who is not worthy of her name.
Not long ago, she found out that she was pregnant with her second child again. When she thought of the arrival of this child, it would double the embarrassment of their already unbearable life. When she thought of the decades in the future, she would become more and more pessimistic day by day.
The continuous depression caused her to suffer from prenatal depression. She no longer knew how to go in the future. Sometimes she wanted to die with this child, and occasionally she had some extreme thoughts. She thought she might as well get some poison and let the whole family die together.
When they saw this story, many people sighed. Some silly girls in love seemed to see themselves in her. Their current relationship can be said to be completely "the same" boyfriend. But because of love, they are willing to believe that the future will be beautiful. But from this point of view, if they really marry hastily, the girl's experience will be their future! This is really terrible!
Many people left messages in the barrage to comfort her, encourage her to muster up the courage to divorce and stop the loss in time. While she is young, she will return to her city, and her parents and friends will help her, and her life will still have a chance to start over!
The girl did not give a clear answer, she just expressed her gratitude to these people, and she said she would think about it carefully.
Some people who have experienced it said that they may still be inseparable from her attitude. But what can I do? After all, it was her own choice. She chose this quagmire at the beginning, but now she is unwilling to choose to withdraw resolutely. Even if she is eventually swallowed up by the quagmire, others will be helpless.
What Qian Yan said next once again sounded the alarm for everyone.
"If we love each other with the polishing of time, if we cannot gradually become stronger feelings, we will be tired one day, and the ending will not be the end of a comedy reunion. Being a good match is really not feudal, sometimes it is more important than the so-called liking."
"To be more precise, people who are not suitable in reality will only lead to tragedy when they are together. Not suitable means not suitable. I don't want you to regret it in the future, how great it would be if you didn't fall in love at the beginning."
"So, I kindly remind you now that if you want to go with the person you love, you must fully consider what you will face in the future. Is it the objection and disgrace of everyone, or is it the lack of ability that cannot guarantee that your lover can be happy for the rest of your life? And can you, yourself, be sure that your love will not change?"
"If you can't make your lover happy for the rest of your life, then I'll give you a last word, if you really love her, please let her go. She deserves a better and more suitable person."
Qian Yan's words made many people in the spiritual world feel extremely touched.
Many people have been impulsive when they were young, and people around them have advised them, but they just don’t listen and insist on being with each other. Their unwilling relationship is exchanged for the relationship that gradually fades away due to the quarrels between the two parties after marriage due to trivial matters. What’s more, some big quarrels finally broke out and brutally killed each other!
After seeing this, some people think deeply about their own situation and their partner. Some people choose to break up peacefully and let each other go, and some people decide to improve their abilities and give their partner a lifetime of happiness.
Chapter completed!