If you ask a foreigner, why did you come to China?

He would probably answer because he likes China's long history, splendid culture, magnificent mountains and rivers, rapid development and huge changes.

But I tell you that, except for the very few foreigners who are stationed by the government, companies, and usually with families, most of them are related to the following two factors:

First, you don’t do well at home or you can’t make it at all;

Second, look for Chinese women.

One afternoon, my friend and a French lady came out for dinner. They were almost at the door of the unit and saw an old man collecting garbage coming from the opposite side, pushing a small cart in his hand. At this time, the French lady poked me, "Did you see?" "What did you see?" "I'm very strange." Right in front of you." Then I realized that the old man opposite was a foreigner, with a hunched back, and the only few of his hair was long, dirty and messy. No wonder I, who was a little myopic, mistakenly thought it was a garbage collecting garbage at first. The small cart in his hand was not a waste, but a mixed-race child. Beside him was a Chinese girl, a young, beautiful, tall Chinese girl.

The French lady laughed: "Why are you Chinese women?" The French lady laughed because we were talking about this issue when we were having dinner. In fact, I have seen and heard about stories about such foreign men and Chinese women. I have never thought about it before, but the contrast in front of me is too strong - a Chinese girl who is as beautiful as a flower and a foreign man who is old, ugly, dirty, short, bald, and shriveled, and their baby who is pushing a cart.

On the other hand, the French lady bent over her smile (I don’t know why she laughed like that). At that moment, as a Chinese, my self-esteem was deeply hurt.

A few days later, I made three decisions: First, I will tell you the truth about the ugly things I know about some foreign men. Second, I will mobilize Chinese people to stop Chinese women from revolving around foreign men. Third, and most importantly, as a Chinese scholar, I decided to temporarily interrupt my normal work and devote myself to a research that has never been done before, that is, to study the image of Chinese men in the eyes of foreign women, so that we can ultimately help Chinese men pursue foreign women.

My colleagues and I will first visit white women who live in China but have never had a Chinese boyfriend to investigate the reasons. We will also visit white women who have had Chinese boyfriends and married Chinese men, and ask them to tell us the advantages and disadvantages of Chinese men. I know that there are not many foreigners like this, but fortunately, I have met some.

We also need to conduct a large-scale questionnaire survey of female foreigners in China (all whites), using scientific measurement methods, and finally depict the image of Chinese men in their eyes and find out the top five most attractive Chinese men in their minds. All these studies will also answer the following questions:

Are foreign women interested in Chinese men? What do single foreign women in China want Chinese men to do to them the most? How do Chinese men improve their attractiveness to foreign women? What characteristics Chinese men are most favored by foreign women? Which foreign women prefer Chinese men? How do they meet foreign women? How do they chat with foreign women in public? When did China become a paradise for foreign men?

John is such an example. Not long ago, I met him on the street, a Chinese girl half a head taller than him holding his hand. He introduced that his Chinese girlfriend worked in a modeling company. In fact, if John hadn't called me on his own initiative, I wouldn't have recognized him because it was a huge difference from the last time I saw him.

John is an American, 42 years old, 1.67 meters tall. Because he did not graduate from university, he never found a regular job in the United States. After two years in Africa, he heard that many Americans came to Shanghai when they came to China. He just came to Shanghai for a long time without knowing the place, so he only got an English teacher in a school in a small town in Jiangsu.

John was unwilling to give up, so he worked in Jiangsu for a few months and came to Shanghai to find a job and stayed in a small hotel that cost 12 yuan a day. I knew him at that time. That day, I went to have dinner with a foreign friend of mine. When I saw them chatting together, I thought she knew John, so I called him. Later I found out that they were just a chance meeting.

When ordering, John ordered a more expensive dish. My friend asked in English, "The dish you ordered is more expensive, are you going to pay for it yourself?" John immediately rushed to return it like a child who did the wrong thing. Seeing his head shrinking, I first said to my friend in Chinese and then asked him to continue ordering in English.

Afterwards, due to work, I ran around and soon forgot John. When I saw him this time, he told me that he had found a job teaching English at a school in Shanghai. I didn't talk to John's girlfriend, but I could see that she had looked down on the Chinese. Looking at her back, I couldn't help but think that she must not know that her American John made a living by others. This is a story that looks too much like a statue of gods. It was clearly made by humans, and after it was made, I went to worship the film.

I was also on the bus in Shanghai and witnessed a typical American street gangster holding a Chinese girl. In broad daylight, I reached out my hand from under my clothes to touch her breasts. The Chinese girl obviously wanted to express the pleasure of being touched by foreigners. Unfortunately, she could only say at most two words in English at a time.

A taxi driver told me that once he received a black man on a famous bar street with a Chinese girl in his hands. He initially thought that such a woman was doing a special career from that kind of place, so he didn't care. It was not until later that they asked him to drive the car to the female graduate dormitory of a famous university that he was shocked.

It is reported that an AIDS patient was found in a hospital in Beijing. The American businessman admitted before his death that he had had sex with six Chinese women in just a few weeks in Beijing. The investigation found that most of them were senior intellectuals.

In China, there is a group of foreigners who cannot find jobs in their own country, and then rely on the advantages of foreigners to make money, drink and pick up girls easily in China. That's it. Their only hobby is to criticize China. What's more, some diplomats use their positions to play with Chinese women. Some even publicly say, "My signature can get any Chinese woman."

China, do you know? You gave foreigners too much, too much, so many that foreigners looked down on you. So much that even foreigners themselves couldn't stand them, and called them white garbage. I would also warn foreigners here not to be too proud, that you got the body of a Chinese woman, a body without a soul.

Recently, a joke about a foreigner asking for marriage in China was rumored online: a 47-year-old foreigner was asked for marriage at a Chinese marriage agency, but no one cared about it for a long time. Suddenly one day, a large number of marriage letters came, which surprised the foreigner. It was found that it was because of the carelessness of the staff of the marriage agency that he miswrited his age as 67.

A foreign-related marriage survey also confirmed that Chinese women do not marry foreign men for love. The survey found that the average marriage age difference between Chinese women and foreign grooms is 10.5 years, and 13% of the couples are two generations, with a total of 20 years apart. It is reported that in foreign-related marriages, the record was a sensational couple at that time, with a difference of 54 years. When they got married, the American groom was already an 82-year-old man, while the Chinese bride was only 28 years old.

By chance, I read a joke in an American magazine not long ago: An old man in his 80s accompanied his pregnant wife in his 20s to the hospital for examination. The doctor kindly reminded him if there was any other possibility. The old man refused, "No, I have always been able to create miracles. Last time, I went hunting with my wife and one of her boyfriends, and I pointed at a deer with an umbrella, and the deer was shot and killed."

I wonder if the Chinese bride will soon be reported to be pregnant so that everyone can truly appreciate the miracles on earth. You may have something to gain, but you have lost the most precious dignity.

It goes without saying that the initiator of the ugly foreign men was Chinese women. But most of these women have never been abroad and their minds are full of fantasies. So, today I want to use this opportunity to tell them the truth. If you find true love, I congratulate you and bless you. I personally think that as long as it is true love, it is worth pursuing no matter how long or short it lasts in the future.

Despite this, I still want to warn you. First of all, most Chinese women pursue a stable marriage, but with a few exceptions, the divorce rate in developed Western countries is mostly around 50%, while there are more factors in instability in international marriages.

Secondly, I also highly doubt whether foreign men today will give true love to Chinese women. Because the premise of true love is respect, and in the eyes of foreign men, the image of Chinese women has begun to be ruined by those few people, and has become: the most open, bold, ulterior motive, simple-minded, poor-knowledge-poor, utilitarian easy-girl (Easygirl). It is hard to imagine that a man would give true love to such women. There is only one exception, an American introduced that those foreigners who regard Asian wives as chefs, servants, and sex workers (adesirefora combinationmaid/cook/**worker).

Maybe you are just for money, I understand you, and I won’t stop you. But what I want to tell you is that you must make sure you have two things before devoting yourself: First, this foreigner is really rich. Because I know that many foreigners in China don’t have much money. Second, he is willing to marry you, because if he doesn’t get married, his property may have nothing to do with you.

Maybe you are going abroad, and I don’t stop you. But what I tell you is that you must ensure two things before devoting yourself: First, this foreigner is willing to return to China. Although foreigners are richer than us, they are by no means paradise. What’s so bad is that many foreigners in China are unwilling to return to China because they cannot find good jobs in China or even find jobs at all. They are absolutely unwilling to go back to live the humble and lonely life of the past. Second, they are willing to marry you. Because you don’t get married, you will not be able to obtain permanent residence in the other country.

My colleague's neighbor, my daughter married a farmer in the mountainous area of ​​Japan. The neighbor often said something like "We don't care about money now, 100,000, 200,000 small amounts." But, my neighbor, do you know that your woman is really happy in Japan? Chinese people want to save face and always report good news but not bad news. Several years ago, a Chinese TV station went to the rural areas of Japan to interview these Chinese brides. From the lively and prosperous big Shanghai to the remote and deserted small villages, all the Chinese brides I heard were disappointment, gap and helplessness.

Maybe you are for sex? A Ms. Shi in Australia wrote an article saying, "...I have a girlfriend who is already extremely open in China and has rich sexual experience. However, when she had sex with a Western man for the first time, she still felt a great impact. She told me on the phone that she was so impulsive that she wanted to marry the Westerner immediately. But I calmly advised her that Western men with wonderful sex were everywhere, at least eight out of ten were wonderful, two out of ten were so careless, and eight were so careless."

As soon as Ms. Shi's "28" was released, it immediately exploded, attracting many Chinese men to refute and defend. This topic lasted for several months in local Chinese newspapers, and the heated debate was said to have alarmed many internationally renowned media. It can be seen how lethal this is a topic that is to Chinese men.

It is unknown whether Ms. Shi’s “28th theory” is her own personal experience or the feelings of the sisters. I did a survey on whether Chinese men can do this.

What I investigated was not Chinese women who married Western men, but on the contrary, white women who married Chinese men or had Chinese boyfriends. I asked them a question bluntly, how are Chinese men performing in bed? They also answered bluntly, very well, some even commented as "perfect", and some people heard my question, and their first reaction was, "Do you Chinese men have no confidence in their performance in bed?"

The investigation is still continuing, and I will make all detailed research results public later.

I also want to tell you that the latest sexual research shows that the degree of satisfaction of women in bed does not depend mainly on men, but on women themselves. This study found that women's sexual feelings are low mainly due to various spiritual constraints. As long as women can get rid of these constraints, they will have the same reaction ability and intensity as men, and even their physiological requirements will exceed that of men. According to this study, the reason why Ms. Shi's friend felt the impact of having sex with Western men for the first time was mainly because when she faced Western men, she unconsciously got rid of the spiritual constraints that had previously affected her.

The latest research also found that the response patterns of men and women to sexual stimuli are actually similar. For example, it was thought that men were sensitive to visual stimuli and women were sensitive to atmosphere and mood stimuli, which was also used to explain why men like to watch *** movies. However, recently, British scientists discovered that *** movies can also make women sexually arouse, and many women can reach orgasm just by relying on the visual stimuli of the movies.

Of course, Chinese men are not completely unresponsible in this regard. But I can tell you that the problems of Chinese men are mainly not physiological, but psychological. What is the biggest problem of Chinese men? The lack of sexual skills. The eight wonderful things about Western men are their marriages, sexual counseling and treatment clinics throughout the city and rural areas, as well as their open attitude towards sex. Whenever there is a problem, they immediately seek professional help. For an inappropriate example, an old lady who cooks dishes for a lifetime is far less skilled than a young chef. It can be seen how important professional training is.

Calling for a complete action to eliminate ugly foreign men. Perhaps, some readers have begun to condemn those Chinese women when they see this. Let’s wait! I want to ask, are you, each of us, not a single responsibility?

The kind of woman who betrays herself in disguise for money is everywhere in the world. Americans call her Gold-digger. The difference is that such a woman is looked down upon in other parts of the world, and is only respected and envied in China. Is this social atmosphere of laughing at the poor but not at the prostitute?

An American female sinologist brought her husband to China with her extremely passionate love for Chinese history and Chinese culture. But not long after, she decided to return to China early. "Almost every day, many Chinese women revolve around my husband, and some even do not hide it in front of me. In order to protect my marriage, I think returning to the United States is the best choice." The female sinologist asked in confusion, "I read Chinese novels from the 1980s in the United States, and the plots are full of women and their lovers who accidentally get pregnant will commit suicide."

I don’t understand. It’s just twenty years since we are both Chinese, why is the gap between being a human being so big?

I also want to ask, are they the ones who give foreigners, especially Americans, who are the ones who treat them superior to national treatment? I can understand that the news of the US president's visit to China is on the headlines, but should we also put the news that the US president is about to visit China be on the headlines? Don't forget, the more you take the other party seriously, the more likely the other party will not take you seriously.

I am here to call for a movement to stop Chinese women from revolving around foreign men. Of course, I know that my personal power is small, so I want to mobilize everyone to act together: If you know some Chinese girls who have the opportunity to contact foreign men, please be sure to show them my article.

If you marry a foreigner, bravely stand up and tell your sisters: Your life abroad is actually lonely, lonely, painful, and homesick. If you are a parent, don’t show off everywhere that your daughter has tied up a wealthy man, became a third-breasted woman, and married a foreigner.

If you are a translation worker, don’t show mercy anymore. We Chinese people are absolutely the world’s best kung fu through translation and beautification of foreign countries. This is a subconscious expression of admiration for foreign countries: the pronunciation of the word America has nothing to do with "America", but it has to be translated into "America". Look at our neighbor, the japanese people - "America", how well the translation is! No matter how rich your imagination is, you will not associate "America" ​​into a "beautiful country" or "beautiful country", at most it is a grain production base. Marlboro, translated as "Wanbao Leak", if you are in poor health, no matter how much treasure you have, you will miss it.

If you work in the customs and foreign affairs department, don’t praise foreigners high, “Foreign affairs are not all major issues.” Be a little better towards your compatriots, foreigners come and leave. Don’t forget that the food you eat is cooked by Chinese people, the clothes you wear are made by Chinese people, and your salary is paid by Chinese people.

If you work in the sports world, don’t help Real Madrid make money from Chinese people. At least, don’t invite ** like Tyson to China.

If you work in an insurance company, don’t look at foreigners differently when making claims, and let them “same life and same price” as the Chinese.

If you hold an important position, you should be less corruption. Today's bad social atmosphere will be the main responsibility.

If you are an economist, don’t just think about how to protect vested interests, don’t just be the spokesperson of power, and say a few words to us ordinary people.

If you are the policymaker, don’t just think about ***. If the mountains are bald, the water is smelly, the air is dirty, the sandstorm is storm, morality is degraded, care is gone, harmony is lost, people leave this world in pain due to the torture of disease, what is the meaning of no matter how high *** is?

If you make a few money, do some good deeds and accumulate some virtue, maybe there will be a future life? Don’t let the rich people smell wine and meat smell bad, and the road is frozen to death repeat itself in today’s society.

If you are a doctor, you can save a life, maybe you can really be better than building a seventh-level pagoda? Don’t let the angels in white die at your hands.

If you are a legal worker, maintain the dignity of the law. Don’t let the wronged souls wander around.

If you are a film director, don’t spend so much money on just one steamed bun. Make a movie where Chinese women reject foreign men and Chinese men conquer foreign women.

If you work in the dental defense team, please recommend us a really good toothpaste. Today's Chinese people need to grit their teeth.

If you work in an advertising company, use less disgusting words such as emperor, noble, noble, successful, royal, high-level, and luxurious.

If you are a role model, please give our next generation a "shame-knowing" education class. When you were a child, your mother often warned us that clothes can be torn, but they cannot be clean; people can be poor, but they cannot be short of ambition. Wealth cannot be lustful, mighty cannot bend, and poverty cannot be moved; heads can be broken, blood can flow; life is precious, and love is more expensive. If it is for freedom, how can today's students not know about it?
Chapter completed!