The knowledge of flattery

Author: Chop wood and carry water

The knowledge of flattery

Sun Xiaobo is naturally a rough old man. He also felt that this matter had nothing to do with him, so he followed up and said: That's right, that's right, we girls are not only excellent in academic performance, but also good people.

I lent my notes to my classmates for study. The notes were organized just like handouts. It would definitely be no problem to help Wang Lina with her homework in the future.

Everyone couldn't help but laugh when they heard it. Sun Xiaobo thought that everyone didn't believe what he said, so he quickly showed up and said: What I said is true. I just don't go to class often. If I borrow their notes to review before the exam, I can get the first place in the grade.

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Everyone laughed even more. Yan Tingting became angry when she saw this guy with an invincible IQ and zero EQ. This is equivalent to the person copying your homework always getting better than you. Do you think that makes people angry?! So she said angrily: Sun Xiaobo, you

Are you praising us, or are you praising yourself?! Do you think everyone is like you, and you can still get first place in the exam without going to class? You are glorious and proud!

Sun Xiaobo finally understood what was going on and quickly explained: Tingting, I didn't mean that. Don't get me wrong. I just accidentally got a little better than you...

Are these words irritating to you? Yan Tingting said angrily: You’re not done yet, are you? What do you mean by being careless?! She became more and more enthusiastic as she spoke.

Everyone laughed, and Li Jian quickly came out to save the situation and said: Okay, today we will not discuss these class discipline matters. You female classmates should also talk about it. After all, you will spend more time with her in the future. Take a look.

What are your opinions?

Yan Tingting looked at Zhang Haiyan and Wang Xiaoling, who were also looking at each other. Zhang Haiyan couldn't help but jump out and said: Principal, put Wang Lina in our class. The dormitory is in our dormitory, and the people in our dormitory are very enthusiastic.

, they all have very good personalities. Take me as an example. I come from the countryside. I feel this kind of thing the most. I have never suffered any grievance or discrimination in this dormitory. Everyone has

They are so kind to me, they love each other like a family, especially when something happened to my family last time, everyone took the initiative to help me. Didn't you see that?

Li Jian smiled and said: Yes, I remember this. I also criticized you. It was you who brought them here to embolden you, right?

Zhang Haiyan quickly explained: Things are not what you think. They encouraged me to come to you to reason, and they wanted to accompany me to embolden me, otherwise I would be a little scared!

Li Jian smiled and said: Oh, really? I thought you were the one who invited me here!

Wang Xiaoling immediately flattered her and said: Principal Li, you may have misunderstood Haiyan. We all agree that you are a reasonable and good principal, so we forced Haiyan to come to you. I believe you can help her solve her difficulties.

Doing good deeds and being praised is the thinking mode of every normal person, and Li Jian is no exception. Hearing such compliments from students in public shows that he acts impartially and has a high prestige in the hearts of students. Naturally, he is very useful. He quickly smiled and said: "That's right."

Yes, it is right to find a school when you have difficulties. This is what we should do. It should be done. If you encounter any difficulties in the future, you must remember to come to me. Don't ponder in private. You must believe that there are things on the muddy ground.

The sky is blue!

Wang Xiaoling has always been smart about this kind of thing. She comes from an average family and has few resources. She is about to graduate and be assigned a job in two years. If the principal can put in a few nice words for her at that time, it will be of great help to her.

The big pie suddenly fell from the sky and hit her on the head. Why not seize this opportunity? So she immediately caught it and said: Really? Principal, then I will encounter trouble in the future.

I'm sorry, but I'm really here to find you. You have to remember me. My name is Wang Xiaoling.

Li Jian was in high spirits at this time. In front of everyone, especially these beautiful little girls, he naturally had to act amiable and enjoy himself with the people, and said cheerfully: Of course, of course,

I've heard your names, let's see if I can match them. I've seen your names Wang Xiaoling, Cao Yu, and Haiyan. This one must be Yan Tingting. That classmate should be Sun Xiaobo. Look.

Look, is what I said wrong?

There are a total of 5 students, two boys and three girls. Only three of them have never been seen before. One of them volunteered to show up, leaving only one boy and one girl. If Li Jian can't tell them apart, then what else can the principal do?

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Several students with superior IQs looked at each other, opened their mouths in surprise, and nodded repeatedly. Wang Xiaoling's expression was even more exaggerated: Principal, you are so awesome, have you memorized the names of all the teachers and students in the school?!

Li Jian waved his hands proudly and smiled modestly: How could I have that ability? I can only say that I have seen it and must have had an impression.

For those of us who are leaders here, it doesn’t matter whether things are clear or not. The main thing is to be able to recognize people. If you are blind, you will definitely not be a leader. So don’t go out all day and brag about your blindness. You can’t tell what is beautiful. Then

It's so hypocritical. Generally, the special skill of a big leader is to be able to remember you as a person. He can tell you your last name and who you are, where you have met, what you have talked about, what your phone number is, etc. You can remember these.

, I can hold your hand when we meet next time, chat about the past, laugh heartily, and appear particularly amiable and approachable. This is the legendary caring. This kind of atmosphere will make you feel more cordial and like a spring breeze.

Hun'er didn't even know where he flew to. He simply forgot that he was here to avenge his grievances, and all he could do was shed tears and have snot bubbles in his nose with excitement.

Li Jian's words made everyone burst into laughter, and the atmosphere suddenly became relaxed. Memory is the most essential difference between humans and animals. As a leader, his superior memory is a real skill. It is his pride. It makes him even more proud.

What is more important is his academic attainments. He claims that he came up through the ranks based on his ability. Unlike those who flatter others, this is his noble capital, unlike those shameful and shameful things.

Displaying knowledge in front of others can only make him feel honored. Director Wang of the Academic Affairs Office is naturally well aware of Principal Li's hobbies, so he took the opportunity to speak up and said: Our Principal Li has learned both Chinese and Western knowledge and has profound attainments, let alone you few.

He can pick up the names of the students and even those esoteric knowledge at his fingertips. He can never forget even the most difficult treatises. He can also explain the translation to others in a simple and profound way. If you have the opportunity to study as a graduate student of our President Li in the future,

, a doctoral student, can appreciate the profound and profound style of his old man.

Director Wang's compliments made people feel comfortable. Li Jian laughed and joked: Lao Wang, are you advertising recruitment for me?

Director Wang smiled piously and said: "You still need me to advertise. If I want to be your disciple, not just one playground every year, but at least several trucks. They are all from famous schools across the country."

You scholar, but you can only accept a few or two at most, and you can squeeze in only if you break your head, okay?

Li Jian smiled in acquiescence and said: It's not as evil as you said. The students in our school still have greater opportunities. I heard Director Wang say that you are all the best among the best, especially Sun Xiaobo. I have already had it.

Hear it!

Sun Xiaobo pretended to be in his signature emotional intelligence arrears manner, rubbed his nose and smiled naively: My family's conditions are average, and I want to go to work after graduation. You'd better leave the opportunity to people like Cao Yu and others.

At that time, you could find a good job after graduating from a bachelor's degree. Everyone wanted to go out and make money quickly, and no one had the intention to continue studying. Everyone knew in their hearts that Li Jian just fell in love with Sun Xiaobo, and so did everyone else.

To be polite, Cao Yu glanced at everyone and understood that they all meant the same thing, so he quickly waved his hand to Li Jian and said: Thank you for your kindness. None of us are as smart as Sun Xiaobo, so don't insult your reputation.

There are four levels of flattery: the lowest level is when the leader does not know, nor do the people around him. This kind of person has a strong desire for expression, and grabs the limelight everywhere in the unit. He thinks he is solving problems for the leader, but he always helps the leader when things are done.

Stirring up troubles is basically causing trouble everywhere, and you can't find fault at all. Neither the leaders nor the masses will treat you well. The second level is that the leaders don't know, but the people around them do. This is what the saying goes: flattering.

On the horse's hoof, good intentions lead to bad things.

These two levels are both unqualified in the world of flattery. In this realm of qualification, the first level is that the leader of the flatterer knows it, and the people around him also know that such people are often mouth traffickers. Now Bibi

All of them are, this is what people often call the so-called flattery who talks but does not practice.

In fact, this is nothing. The highest level is that the leaders know it, but the people around them don't. You must wonder whether such a person with unique skills really exists, and whether I just created this rank to make up for the numbers. In fact, this is exactly what it is.

This is the brilliance of people of this rank, because you are just an ordinary member of the public, not a leader, so it’s just right if you don’t know!

Although such people are not everywhere in real life, if you are careful, you can still spot them, because this kind of people will often hang out in front of you, talking serious nonsense, and they can pretend to be stupid.

The performance is so expressive and vivid that it even makes you wonder if he is really stupid. What is he trying to do to himself by making such a mistake?

In fact, this type of talent is the real veteran actor, just like the clown in the circus. They are the actors with both virtue and art! The characters they play are so stupid that they make you laugh, and you think they are acting.

To make you happy? Do you think his IQ is lower than yours? That's all a facade. In fact, he is just trying to make the circus owner happy for money. As an audience member, you sit there and have fun, which only shows your own intelligence.

Arrears.

This kind of person's IQ is not unusually high. He thinks very clearly. If he can't be a pig's foot, he should be a supporting role. If he can't be a supporting role, he should be a clown.

The reason why you would debase yourself in such a way to disgust others and please the leader is of course very obvious! It’s just that you, a walk-on and an audience member, can’t understand it.

Those are all divine beings with great wisdom. In the eyes of mortals like us, they are just fools who do "stupid things." Have I confused everyone by saying so much? It's hard to understand?

Do you still remember what I said before that being a treasure in the eyes of the leader is just a show off in the eyes of others? If you think about it now, do you have some impression?

None of these individuals are fuel-efficient lamps. If they flatter themselves to this extent, they are all human beings, and they are simply not comparable to ordinary people like us. This level of flattery is not very obvious in school. In the future, we will

This is a skill that you can rely on when you get a job. It is much more effective than those numbers, physics, and chemistry. It can be used in any job. It is directly related to whether you can prosper in the workplace in the future, so I won’t go into details.

, let’s all reflect on ourselves.

Of course, students like Cao Yu didn't understand these mysteries. Seeing that everyone didn't answer the question and had no interest in learning, Li Jian couldn't help but feel a little disappointed. He had to change the topic and said: Hey, why is this so far away? Let's

Let’s get down to business. You girls will have to get along with Wang Lina day and night in the future, so you need to fully express your opinions. However, let me first state that since classmate Wang Lina was injured, her temper has become very weird, and it is not easy to get along with her.

Yan Tingting has always had a chivalrous and righteous temperament. Since she became close to Cao Yu, her love has become even more overflowing. Her whole body is on fire and she feels uncomfortable. Now she wants to rush to melt the glaciers in the Arctic. How can a mere person like this be warm?

Come here, your appearance is ruined, just have plastic surgery, it’s just money, it’s easy to handle!

She felt that what Zhang Haiyan said was too verbose, so she stood up and said, "Principal, let me speak. I think we all will welcome her to live here, but we still need to discuss this matter with everyone in private before we can give a formal reply."

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Li Jian asked curiously: Oh, what does this mean?

Yan Tingting said frankly: Didn't you say that she is in a special situation? Now the five of us in the dormitory are already sisters. Wang Lina's arrival may have an impact on everyone's lives. This kind of thing cannot be forced. Everyone must be willing.

Just accept it. We need to discuss this before making a decision.

As she spoke, Cao Yu glanced at Cao Yu, who nodded understandingly. Yan Tingting solicited opinions one by one because she and Cao Yu had the experience of selling newspapers and conquering the newspaper sellers in the station square. They had to sit down for everything.

It's easy to talk and discuss, and I believe we can always find a solution.

As human civilization has progressed to this day, its understanding of matter has reached the particle level, and everything that needs to be invented has been invented at once, transforming the entire earth into a mess. Only this person's thinking mode is still unclear.

There has never been a good solution to the conflicts and disputes between people. They are either quarreling or fighting all day long. Disputes continue and wars continue. This is all because they view the world from different perspectives and stand on different sides.

It is difficult to reach an ideological consensus when considering issues from one's own standpoint.

Li Jian agreed very much with Yan Tingting's way of handling the problem and asked: How do you plan to solicit opinions?

Yan Tingting said: We still have two classmates in the dormitory. We need to find an empty room to make a phone call to discuss.

Li Jian readily agreed: Okay, Director Wang, take them next door to make a phone call. We will wait here for the outcome of your discussion.

Yan Tingting and the others followed Director Wang to the next door. Everyone was waiting in the conference room. Everyone sympathized with Wang Lina's situation, especially the girls, who are so loving in nature that they couldn't even see cats and dogs suffering, let alone help a classmate around them.

In addition, with Yan Tingting's money as a backing, it can also leave a good impression on the school, which may be beneficial in future graduation assignments. Who can say no to such a good thing?!
To be continued...