The changes in the situation are difficult to measure

Author: Chop wood and carry water

The changes in the situation are difficult to measure

Immediately, someone would rise up in response, rushing to help her carry her schoolbag, and then rush out like flying...

At that time, she would just eat and drink enough and stroll there to sit. She didn't have to think about whether someone would occupy her seat first! Even if someone occupied her seat, what would happen?

As long as she is willing, she can run over and say: Hey, I'm sorry! Excuse me, classmate, I seem to have occupied this seat first!

The boy would pretend to take a breath, as if he had been waiting for her to ask. Now he finally felt relieved, took a long breath, raised his hand to smooth his oily hair, and raised his head to look.

Look at her, then he will smile politely at her and say softly: Oh, really? I'm really sorry, this classmate, I will give it to you right away!

As he spoke, he would nimblely push the things on his desk to the side, and then help her clean the stool she had just sat on. Only then could he extend his hand to invite her to sit down, and watch her stretch out her hand to hold up her skirt and twist it.

Sit down on your butt...

Then he solemnly raised his hand to adjust his glasses, and then he tidied up the things on his desk with half interest. His eyes seemed to be very focused, but from time to time he would look down at her from top to bottom.

After a while, he looked around again, seemingly looking for a seat, but in fact he was still looking there intentionally or unintentionally. Then he swallowed with unfinished thoughts and went to find a seat nearby and sit down first...

I began to think secretly in my mind: How should I further strike up a conversation with her next?

She may not be able to clearly understand these small details, but if someone can help her blow the dust so that she can sit where she wants to sit effortlessly, then she will naturally feel good! So, again,

When someone comes to strike up a conversation, she will deal with it with a cheerful face. She won't be like now, where she gets upset just looking at him and can't say anything. She can only feel aggrieved in her stomach!

You see, just because you say less words, how much trouble will it cause you? How many more things will happen? Normal people will never think of it, because everyone thinks that as long as they don't let themselves encounter it, then

It's not a problem if you don't call it! But the problem is that if you really wait until the world doesn't want you, then the problem will be big! Trouble will follow! ...

As long as a huge disaster doesn't happen to you, it doesn't matter. We can laugh it off. But what if it happens to you? No matter how small a trouble is, it will become a huge problem. We can

They will cry and make trouble! This kind of person is called a lack of empathy! If your relative is chained by others, worse than a dog, can you still turn a blind eye and laugh it off? If you can, then you can

not human!

Desire itself is good and bad, and it is not a derogatory term. If you keep thinking about how to become an immortal, that is definitely not a good thing! If everyone always thinks about how to be a normal person, then the world will be

There is hope, there is salvation! The world will never progress naturally, it needs everyone to work together to promote it! If we don't speak up, it will always be the same old thing you hate!

Therefore, our desire should be to have more people have the desire to speak out for those miseries and sufferings. Only in this way can we push the world to get better day by day and become what you want to see! Instead of closing down

Close your eyes, pretend you can't see, and leave the suffering and misery to our descendants, letting them question whether we are still human or not? Have we really lived once in this world?

Wang Lina was abandoned by everyone, so no one cared about her! By ignoring her existence, her demands and wishes, dignity and face were deprived of her! So just go to the library to find some peace and quiet.

Her extravagant hope was met, because there were usually too many people, and Wu Yang Wu Yang could not occupy a seat at all. Unless you asked him to ask, she had no intention of picking up Pu Xin Nan now...

She was originally a very shy little girl, but now she is even more scared! She has always wondered why boys can be so powerful? She may look ordinary, but she is always full of confidence in her heart! In front of so many people

They dared to strike up a conversation with her, and they were not ashamed even if they were rejected. They still had the nerve to continue chatting with her shamelessly. How could they be so shameless? She was really envious...

If she had met a boy like this in the past, she would have given him a sweet smile first, and then greeted him politely: Hello! I really want to understand where your confidence comes from.

Are you here? Can you tell me?

After she has a boyfriend, she will laugh it off because in her heart, she is still happy for someone to strike up a conversation. This is actually a certification test, which shows that she is still beautiful and charming...

But now, she is really afraid! She is afraid of meeting a common man like this, and even more afraid of meeting a handsome boy like Cao Yu! Because the former will only annoy people, and the latter may arouse

The anger that she had already suppressed would make her feel even more angry! Everyone knows that anger is bad for people's health, so she should try to be as less angry as possible!...

Another reason is that there is no one to help her reserve a seat in the library now. She is the kind of girl who likes to rely on others. Especially after having a boyfriend, many of her innate skills have been lost.

And became dependent on boys! This is the law of bad men: you know that he is bad, but you can’t quit! In summary, she can only hide in the dormitory and never go out...

To say that she doesn't like any boys now is for sure! But to say that she doesn't want a female companion is really not true! At least at some point she still hopes that someone can help her, for example, you can beat her

Water, go to the library to occupy a seat or something like that! Especially occupying a seat, she needs it even more! It would be best to accompany her to read a book, or to help her out of the way when she encounters a common man...

Ordinarily, this request is not high, nor can it be said to be an extravagant wish! But it cannot be satisfied, because she is no longer needed. A person who is no longer needed, naturally no one will satisfy her needs! Don't

Look at how simple the need is, and it is clearly there, but everyone just pretends that they can't see it, and even say they don't know what she wants to do! Do you think it's possible?

It is impossible to think about it, but it is actually happening in reality! Everyone knows that by meeting her needs, they can get closer to her! Everyone understands the truth, but why don't they understand it? In the end,

One of the important reasons is: no one paid attention to her, and no one put themselves in her shoes! Including Yan Tingting and Zhang Haiyan, let alone others!

So, being attentive is very important! Although everyone knows that everything you do requires you to be attentive, this is very important! But what exactly should you put your thoughts on? It becomes a variety of things: Some people use all their thoughts on themselves.

Someone has been calling on others to think about everyone! Very few people will put their thoughts on the other person and put themselves in her shoes and think more about her...

If a chain was tied around the neck of your mother, your sister, or your daughter, what would you think? And what would you do? Depending on the position you are in, your focus will be different, and the things you should do will be different.

.Because what everyone wants is never the same result. You just need to understand one thing: Is it easier to reincarnate? Or is it more likely that you will suddenly be remembered as a sap halfway through?

You should know what to do now, right? Those who think reincarnation is easy will never think about what I should do if I get a sap! And you, a bricklayer,

If you have to go and chat with the sheep every day, it’s not surprising that you get slapped! After all, the mountain road is slippery and people’s hearts are unpredictable! How can we relieve our worries? Of course, the only one is: a leek box!…

This is the same person but different destiny! Some people are born to enjoy happiness, and some people can only suffer from birth to death! Whether it is suffering or enjoying happiness, some people are relieved and some are unwilling. This is all understandable. But you insist on riding on someone's neck

You can only enjoy happiness if you are on the chain. If you have to put a chain on someone to feel at ease, then you can’t call yourself a human being, right?!

What's even more frightening is that you are also a sufferer, and you are only one step away from being taken advantage of by others, but you are still unaware of it. Others are suffering, and you stand by and watch the fun without saying anything.

What's the point of still laughing, calling people stupid, and going to bully them with those bad guys? If people want to live like animals and don't know how to empathize, then are they still human?...

Am I still a human being? After all, what kind of human being am I? Both of these are good questions! When you have nothing to do, you should ask yourself more often. As you ask, you will find that this is still a human being.

Not necessarily!

Therefore, in order to verify, I suggest you go to someone on the street and ask: Am I a human?

I guess the answer is probably the same: It looks similar! At least you look like a human being. Why do you ask that?

Now you ask the second question: What kind of person do you think I am?

The answers at this time will probably be surprisingly consistent: I'm sorry, I don't know you! I can't make an evaluation!

You see, this is what you look like in everyone's mind. Don't think that you can look like a human being just by putting on clothes. It's just like a human being. Everyone actually has doubts about whether you are a human being.

I don’t even know what kind of person you are! Therefore, it is actually quite difficult to make people believe that you are a human being. They would rather believe that you are a lunatic, so that they can treat you as a human being!

But if you ask your family, relatives and friends who are very familiar with you, the answers will probably be varied, and no one can explain clearly! But you have to ask yourself again: can you explain clearly? See people suffering.

Are you smiling? Are you standing by and watching, or are you turning a blind eye? Are those who always bully others as fools still human beings? Is it a matter of seeing people and seeing their wisdom?

There are also people like Yan Tingting and Zhang Haiyan. They not only know how to be attentive, but also know how to think about her! But why can't they understand what she needs? How to approach her? I think

, this is mainly due to personality reasons and the difference in the growing environment! Therefore, it is difficult to get everyone to empathize with her, and it is simply impossible to do in reality!

Mainly because of Yan Tingting's personality, and because of her natural hostility towards her, it's difficult to get into the role and think about her!

Zhang Haiyan, on the other hand, has been very independent since she was a child and has never had a boyfriend, so she doesn’t even know that she needs help in occupying seats...

So everyone thought she just liked being alone in the dormitory! She didn’t think about it at all!…

So, just persuading others to do good is basically abominable! Because you have not thought about others at all! Think about what others think and worry about what others are worried about! How about it? Sounds good, right? Like this

Slogans are basically lies! Remember, just listen to the words that your boss often talks about, and don’t take them seriously! In fact, he also knows that you can’t do it, so he uses words to stimulate you.

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So I would say that all the conflicts in the world come from people’s mutual incomprehension. No one will object to this, right? Some people may say that it may be all because of some small misunderstandings between each other. I also agree with this. But in the final analysis

Who deepened these misunderstandings and made the world more divided? I'm afraid it's a matter of opinion, right? But I have to say that it's all the fault of those who tried to stop the fight! It's just a small matter to watch the excitement!

Can you understand this? Imagine this scene. Everyone is watching a person. She has a chain around her neck and is half-clothed. She is hiding in a corner and shivering. She looks at you in horror, or her eyes are dull, and her expression has already changed.

It is beyond life and death. Now if you ask her anything, she will not say anything. Then you ask those onlookers: What happened to her? Why do you need to put a chain on her?...

They will tell you with a smile: That is a lunatic...

Then he went to touch her again, and after being resisted, he accused her and said: Look, if you don’t take her with you, she will hit you, and if you do, you will bite her! . . .

Now let me ask you again: Who is the worst? The one who put the chain on her, or the onlookers who called her crazy?

You deliberately exclude someone from the group just so that you can bully her casually without having to find a reason! This is group evil, even worse than that bad guy with a chain! If everyone sees such a situation, everyone can scream

Huh, instead of finding an excuse for sin, then I believe no one would dare to put chains on others anymore, right? Don’t we all look like humans to each other?

The world does not need cowards who like to see people in trouble, let alone those who make noises, and persuading fights should not be just to calm things down. It does not mean that you don’t need someone to reason with you, but it means that following the rules is more important than being reasonable!

Because the truth is related to your perspective and knowledge, and the rules are more like a ruler. Why does one meter have to be that long? Then maybe there is really no truth to it, right?

But it allows you to have something that you can really rely on when you need to measure. With it, you can measure the whole world. Even if it is a rope, it becomes a ruler with a scale. It cannot measure.

The only thing that matters is the human heart, because everyone has their own ruler in their hearts, but the scales are all different. If we use them to measure each other, how can we get a clear understanding? The more we measure, the more upset we will become!

I feel that most of the chaos in the world comes from this. Everyone has to use the ruler in their own hearts to measure others, and there will be questions like "Why is my meter different from what you measure?"

A world-wide problem! As you talk, you become impatient, and you roll up your sleeves when measuring. Disputes arise from this. If you don’t understand, you are all making excuses for the ruler in your heart!
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