Chapter 119 Talk about everything and understand the toss and turns

Author: Biantang Wushi

Chapter 119 Talk about everything and understand the toss and turns

In the days that followed, we were always so cold and cold. Once, I thought it might be because our horoscopes were not in line, which is what we usually say was in conflict with each other. Why do we say that? Because no matter how I please him and frequently handed him olive branches, he always didn't accept it. He just couldn't stand me with a word. This made me feel at a loss. I thought about it before I left, and I didn't know where I did something wrong, and what made him disgusted, and of course I didn't know how to accommodate him. If I wanted to establish a good relationship, I naturally had no way to talk about it!

Of course, if I have no problem at all, it is absolutely impossible. There is no love for no reason in this world, and of course there is no hatred for no reason. My problem lies in the pride, shrewdness and stubbornness of me. Although I have always suppressed these, I can still clearly see when it should be expressed. But these things are engraved in my bones and will overflow from time to time. Of course, I have never thought of looking down on others, calculating others, and showing off in front of others, but it is inevitable that some people who are inadvertently exposed will be uncomfortable, which will make some people with inferiority or slimness uncomfortable.

However, as I gradually matured, I realized that the most important question of whether two people can get along well is whether their values ​​are close. For example, Norman usually speaks so sarcastic and mean, and the so-called "dogs can't spit out ivory". I think this sentence is tailor-made for Norman. Whether he is familiar or unfamiliar, his words are full of thorns. Those who are familiar are just jokes about you, it doesn't matter, but what do people who are unfamiliar will think of it? And you have been like this again and again, how many people can accept it? And the education we have received since childhood is to be virtuous and be kind, which is completely the opposite.

Furthermore, this guy is stingy and can't help but catch a toad and can pick up a drop of urine for it. To say that he has never seen such a stingy person, he is obviously lying, but those people are old and hard-working people. Their life experience forces them to do this, but you are different from Norman. You are a young man in the new era. You look like this, how to make friends and how to deal with things. This is incompatible with my principles of dealing with people. Although I have been poor, I have never been stingy with friends and family. My parents have warned us since childhood that we must not be petty and not be too stingy. How do you treat others?

In this way, there is an insurmountable mountain between me and Norman. Some people may also say that Norman may not be mean, it may be humor, but you just haven't gotten to that point, right? Maybe, but what I want to say is that being mean and being humor is two different things, being unrestrained and being frank are two different things, being uneducated and being casual are two different things, being indifferent to being serious and being honest are two different things, I can still distinguish the difference between the two.

If I were in normal times, I wouldn’t have made it boring, but today was my first day of joining the company. When I encountered such a small difficulty, I would give up? This is not my style. A good start is equivalent to half of success! It will definitely be of great help to stay in the company with everyone. This reminds me of a poem by Liang Qichao, "The ambition is high and the ambition is high, and the ambition is loud and the clouds are resounding throughout the nine heavens. The energy is soaring up and running through the rainbow, and the unyielding twist of the world." Isn’t this just a chance to temper myself? If I can cross the mountains, why should I be afraid of the hills?

Thinking of this, I quickly pretended to be nothing, took out a flattering smile and tried to continue chatting with Norman without saying a word. I clapped and praised him when I saw the wonderful things, and took the opportunity to comment. I laughed loudly when I saw him. Even if I didn’t find it interesting, I laughed happily with me to help others liven up, at least not a bad thing!

My hair was dry, and I looked at the TV. It was 10:10, so it was very boring. Why not go to bed and get up tomorrow! Just as I was about to get up, I heard the sound of the door opening, I quickly got up. Pete came in with a bag of fruit, and then threw a banana over. I quickly reached out to catch it, then put it on the table, and said with a smile, Pete, why don’t you call at the company?

Oh, I didn’t call today, but my girl called me. Who knew that my phone was out of battery, and I was eating, what to do on the table?

Oh, I said! I've brushed my teeth.

What are you afraid of after brushing your teeth? What do you think? Do you still feel sorry for the money for toothpaste? Pete took out a bunch of grapes and two peaches from the bag, put them on the table, and said, "Eat some, fruits don't take up your stomach."

No, thank you, I rarely eat at night! It’s so late, your daughter hasn’t slept yet?

No, my girl asked me to call her every other day to report the situation. If I can't do it, she said, Dad, I'll have you good fruits when you come back.

Hahaha, it's amazing, it has the style of a boss!

That's absolutely true, in our family, she said it well. I am completely oppressed and ranked fifth in the family.

Hahaha, OK, it’s ranked! You can’t be greedy!

To O, Arthur, what you said makes sense! Alas, Norman, do you still have some shame? That's for Arthur, so you can't get it yourself? Pete shouted, and Norman said with a smile, "He doesn't eat it, I'll help you eliminate it, don't thank me?"

Pete shook his head repeatedly, Norman, Norman, when will I eat what you bought? Norman carried the bunch of grapes and left. Don't worry, I'll be able to do it soon! I'll go take a shower

I also laughed and asked, "How old is the little guy? What's his name?"

My girl was born in March 1992, and she is 6 and a half years old. She is named Chen Yihan and Sima Yi's Yi.

Hahaha, this one is hard to write, there are too many strokes, there are more than twenty paintings, right?

Hahaha, yes, 22 paintings. When my girl first went to kindergarten, the teacher taught her to write a name. This guy was so worried that other children would write it soon, especially a little boy named Ding Yi, who had only three paintings in total.

Ding Yi? Haha, this name is really amazing!

No, my girl came back from school and cried and asked me, "Who asked you to give me so many strokes, and my mother and I were so slandering that we could coax it."

Hahaha, it’s really difficult for a kindergarten kid! By the way, your uncles and aunts must be in Shenzhen, otherwise why are you ranked fifth?

No, my parents are in the Northeast, and usually they only come to Shenzhen to stay for a few months in winter. The heating fee saved is just enough for round-trip tickets.

Oh, that's right, as the old man, when he gets older, he's afraid of the cold. It's really a good choice to come here to spend the winter.

Yes, the main thing is that we can only go back once a year. Generally, we have to take advantage of the Chinese New Year. It is best for them to come here, and it saves us trouble. When you get married and have children in the future, you will know that it is too painful to take your children for a long distance!

Yes, yes! Children don’t look like adults after all!

In our family, my girl must be the eldest, the second is my wife, the third is our Doudou, the fourth is the nanny, and the fifth is me.

You are definitely a rich man. By the way, Pete, you gave up such a good job at home. You might not have come to Shenzhen to avoid family planning, right? These two children, Chen Yihan and Doudou, are they under a lot of pressure. Doudou is her younger brother?

Don’t talk about it anymore. What’s the younger brother? Doudou is Teddy raised by my girl.

Ah? Teddy Dog? Hahahaha, then your status is indeed a bit low!

That's not the case. My girl would rather not drink milk by herself than leave it for Doudou to drink. I was so envious that I would never give it to me.

It doesn’t matter. I’m still young now and I don’t know how to feel sorry for my father. It’s fine when I go to school.

Oh, who knows. As long as I touch Doudou’s things, my girl’s little mouth can tell for a day, and it will make me die of noise. It’s not okay to admit my mistakes. I have to write a written inspection. There are a stack of inspections in our drawer.

Hahaha, then you must be a master of writing inspection.

That's absolutely true, I'm going to take it! I have a lot of attainments!

Haha, at least it must be at the professor level!

As we were chatting, we accidentally looked up and watched TV. It was 11:40, so we pretended to yawn long, stood up, and said, "Peter, I got up a little early this morning. I won't talk to you anymore. I'll go to bed first. Pete, what time do you usually go to bed?

I'm almost there too. When Norman comes out, I take a shower and go to bed. You go to bed first and have a good dream.

Thank you, and I wish you good night!

After saying that, I walked into the house and lay on the bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep, and felt very uneasy. This Lindao company seems to be very deep. From Lisa to Pete today, they are not a good person! Especially Lisa and Norman, these two people have their eyes almost grown on their foreheads, and they are not very easy to deal with!

However, the two inspectors Emma and Lucy were quite easy to talk to. At least, they did not have any discriminatory attitude to each other, which made people feel very warm. Peter is old, experienced and capable. Although he looks very enthusiastic, he can see that he has a very good relationship with Norman. I don’t know if Norman’s attitude towards me will affect him?

I am still humble and cautious when talking about one thousand or ten thousand. This job is brand new to me. Whether it is salary, accommodation, or office conditions, it is difficult to encounter. All I have to do is to be familiar with the work process as soon as possible, and try my best to pass the probation period as soon as possible.

Although new jobs, new colleagues, and new difficulties are inevitable, we should deal with everyone with full sincerity. No matter how others treat us, we should not reject others from our hearts, nor show them from our faces, nor have preconceived views on anyone. If we set our character first, it will be difficult to open up and be friends with others. Moreover, maybe they are slow-tempered.

Besides, Lisa and Norman have been in the company for so long, so there must be something extraordinary.
Chapter completed!