and respect the audience and live slowly

Author: Biantang Wushi

and respect the audience and live slowly

What we Chinese people pay more attention to is to hide deeply and not show ourselves casually. Instead, we should show ourselves at critical moments. Otherwise, people will think that you are unstable and unreliable. This is related to the level of character. Think about it, who dares to act rashly?

There is also the third point here, which is a big deal. Everyone knows that our Chinese culture is profound and profound. As a line of huge tributaries, wine culture has its unique status and role. Some common sayings on the wine table seem popular, but they are easy to catch but feel boring, but actually contain the principles of being a human being and the principles of our work.

Although this era is developing rapidly, people's ideas are gradually no longer bound by some ancient etiquette, and some cultures seem to no longer apply to today's society, but we cannot deny their value and artistic quality. For example, the saying "father and son are different from tables, uncle and nephew are not drinking the same" is interesting if you study it carefully.

Uncle Tiedan knew exactly how much each of them could drink at the table today. So if the other party could drink 3 taels but he was only willing to drink 2 taels, then we would definitely not agree. Someone asked, "If you ask him to drink as much as you want, you can just let him drink as much as you want. Isn't it a beauty for adults? Why bother tugging and whining there?

Haha, you don’t know this. They keep the amount as they say. They don’t want to go back to work later. In this winter, it’s cold and cold. What’s the work to do, nonsense, and what else to ride a bike back later. We also know where you live and how far you are. There is absolutely no problem with it.

This means they are polite to us. If you don’t understand why, they will fall into a donkey, and the result is that they are not drinking well. Then you blame you. People who have good things will speak out when chatting in the future, saying that they come to the wedding wine from all over the place, but they are half full and have no fun, making it seem as if you are so stingy that you are reluctant to give it to others.

If such a thing happens, then our master will really lose his face. The gazes of the neighbors alone will embarrass you. They are not your problem or others' problems, but it is your problem anyway. As far as I know, this kind of thing has happened before, and even has a big fuss and tear it apart. After all, everyone cares about their own face. The master is thinking about my delicious and delicious treat. What's the point of giving me this trick? I feel wronged.

So everyone made a promise that they would rather let the other party get drunk or even push and shovate, and almost forced them to get drunk. Then they would never let the other party not have fun. Such large-scale movements and loud noises are even more so that everyone in front, behind and around can see and hear, everyone, look, listen, I have done this well, because he really doesn't want to drink anymore. If there is anything to say in the future, you are all witnesses.

Therefore, at the beginning, there is absolutely no problem for the guests to ask for a slap in the wine. I promise you, but if you ask for a slap in the second or third time, I'm sorry, we can't agree to you again.

At this time, Uncle Tiedan would wink me and signal me not to worry about him, just hold it up, stop there, and no longer put it on the tray. Generally, in this case, the other party knows that it is the heat and can no longer be frustrated, so he will drink it happily. As long as the first cup passes the first cup, then good things will be in pairs next. However, this second cup depends on your alcohol level, what you can drink, and the third cup, which cannot be drunk. The second cup is actually a symbolic click.

These more than 30 tables were toasted one by one, and it took more than an hour to pass. It was slower at the beginning because they were all old relatives, most of them were older, so they had to give enough face, enough time, give enough etiquette, and fill the wine glass with full.

After this group of people, the rest are tables with women and children, which are mostly women and children, and they are also going there. It is not as you imagined. Women don’t drink. Most of them don’t drink, but there are also a few who drink, and they are very good at drinking. If we don’t toast from a discriminatory perspective, then you will be muttered behind you, and the long tongue of a woman is even more terrifying. For example, the ones that show off and drink the most are Yuan Xiaoqin. She took off her coat, rolled up her sleeves, and even punched the young man who came to find her to drink. Although the woman next to her looked disdainful, she didn’t care. She was so happy and proud.

When we passed their table, Yuan Xiaoqin's face turned red. She grabbed Zitong's hand and her sister screamed in a short voice. Zitong didn't know her background. Of course, even if she knew, she couldn't ignore her. After a few chats, Yuan Xiaoqin became even more excited and insisted on taking Zitong down to eat some food. In the end, she was stopped by a sister-in-law and said that they should go over to the next table quickly, and they were still waiting.

After we walked around the tables of the female family, the majority of the remaining ones were young, either of the same generation or the same generation. Naturally, there was no need to pay too much attention to etiquette. No matter whether you can drink or not, you must drink. At halfway through, Zitong was a little unable to hold on. Zewei quickly called his sister to help Zitong back and asked his cousin Zexuan to get a few dishes for him, and the girls would eat first.

I stayed in the wedding booth and continued to toast with Uncle Tiedan. At this time, Uncle Tiedan was an absolute elder. How much wine did he pour? Those guys didn't even dare to put one of them, so they had to drink it. Of course, there were also some troublemakers who bargained with us while they were drunk. Uncle Tiedan often glared at his eyes, waved his hand, and forced them to drink it with his old age. If it really didn't work, let the people next to him and Zewei go up and pour it in one time. No, twice, hahahaha

Zewei is not young and has a lot of vision. He has secretly brought me a pair of chopsticks and asked me to take advantage of the young people's fight and take a few bites to cushion my stomach.

At the beginning of the 21st century, the countryside was still slow to live, unlike the fast pace after several years. At this time, everyone could often sit there and eat for three or four hours without any haste. The reason why they can eat for so long is that these old relatives rarely gather together. Every family has difficult sutras, and they are worried about their own acres of three-point land every day. They are not in the mood to visit relatives. Today, they just took this opportunity to sit together, so of course they have to have a few good sips.

Secondly, it is not that the Chinese New Year is approaching. During the Chinese New Year in the countryside, it is a matter of eating and drinking. You have to drink some wine, talk about family matters, and have no farm work to be busy, so you should drink it slowly and carefully, so it is common to have a few hours of work.

But this situation did not last for a few years. Soon, it would only take half an hour to have a banquet in the countryside. Because everyone is busy and has to work and make money, the money you earn in a day can be placed on a table. As long as you have money, wouldn’t you eat whatever you want and drink whatever you want? Then why waste time for a few pieces of meat and a few sips of wine for you?

Now sitting at the table, I often sigh that although the quality of life of everyone has improved, I always feel that there is a lack of a feeling. Whether it is the natural affection between relatives or the leisurely enjoyment when drinking, they are all gone. Few people are addicted to alcohol, Few people see their elbows and their eyes are shining, and Few people can sit with you for several hours

After a long journey, I finally finished my tribute. Before I could finish it, I went to the classmates' tables again. The dishes on the table were full and almost couldn't be put down. The dishes were already stacked. The meal at noon was a regular meal. There were 8 cold dishes, 8 stir-fry dishes, 8 cooking dishes, and 8 stews. The 16 dishes at the back were all served on those big and deep dishes, commonly known as large plates, which are truly hard dishes. In addition, I didn't specifically tell Jiaolong to entertain my classmates, and there were many people on the table, so the chef added a few more dishes to them.
Chapter completed!