Chapter 1211 Tangle
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Author: Loeva
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What Qin Hanzhen found hard to say was that the day before yesterday, Qin Hanzhu accompanied Qin Jinrong and went back to the Xu family with the Xu family. When he paid homage to his ancestors, he found that the Xu family had intentionally allowed Xu Rong to accompany Qin Jinrong for a long time, and that Xu Rong had spoken to her in both words and deeds.
Qin Jinrong is obviously very gentle and considerate.
Qin Jinrong herself didn't think anything was wrong, but Qin Hanzhu had doubts. She also felt that her little cousin was making too much fuss. Xu Rong had been coaxing her like this since she was a child. Now she is just more gentle and considerate. It's not surprising at all. She still
It was quite useful. She felt that her second cousin Xu was very kind to her, unlike her parents, brothers and sisters who never got close to her.
She has always been straightforward, so when she had such an idea, she said it in front of the elders. After hearing this, Mr. Xu and Mr. Xu's family all showed subtle and satisfied smiles. Although Mrs. Xu looked more like a sneer, she also
She didn't say anything. But on the way home, Mrs. Xu told Qin Jinrong that she could go to the Xu family to play more when she had free time. The elders of the Xu family all liked her.
Qin Jinrong had a good time at the Xu family and agreed casually. But Qin Hanzhu felt something was wrong. The Xu family was still in the period of mourning. Why did Qin Jinrong go to the Xu family to play? There was a reason why he left today. There was no reason.
Wouldn't it be unlucky to run to the bereaved house?
Qin Hanzhu didn't dare to say anything in front of Mrs. Xu, but she talked to Qin Hanzhen in private when she got home. She suspected that Mrs. Xu planned to marry her granddaughter back to the Xu family. Xu Rong did not follow Qin Jinhua's idea and changed her mind.
He has a crush on Qin Jinrong, who is five years younger than him!
Qin Hanzhen was shocked at the time. After thinking about it, there was indeed such a sign. No wonder Qin Jinchun said it last time... But wasn't Xu's idea too exaggerated? How committed was she to another Qin-Xu marriage?
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In fact, Qin Jinrong's temperament is really hard to say. He has been awkward since he was a child. Now that he is older, and after Xu's careful training and training, he seems to have improved a bit. He will not show his true nature easily in front of outsiders, but in front of his own family,
You still do whatever you want, and you can quarrel whenever you want, even if your parents don't give you face.
In fact, the Qin family is secretly worried about her. How can she get married with such a personality? Her husband's family will not be as considerate and tolerant of her as her mother's family. She is obviously not someone who is willing to tolerate. She will quarrel every now and then.
She was afraid that her parents-in-law and sisters-in-law would have objections, and her husband might break up with her. No matter who he was, he would not be able to get along with such an awkward and bad-tempered person for many years. She would talk back to her every day without getting angry.
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Therefore, the original plan of Qin Shutao and Min, two parents, was to marry her back to the Min family. The Min family has many children, and they grew up playing together with Qin Jinrong since childhood, even if they were not doting on her.
, after all, they are childhood sweethearts, and they know her personality well and are very tolerant of her. Her maternal grandparents also love her a bit, and her uncles and aunts are all kind people. As long as she is more sensible, she will be more tolerant when she grows up.
She has a better temper and has successfully given birth to children. She has established a firm foothold in the Min family. Even if something goes wrong with her future husband, no one will bully her too much due to their blood ties.
If she is ruthless, the elders of the Min family will also make the decision for her.
Mrs. Min has never been close to her daughter. In her early years, she even thought about trying to regain her child's temperament, but later she became cold-hearted and didn't bother to make any more efforts. It was not easy for her to consider this level for her daughter.
You must know that all the children of the Min family have grown up under strict discipline. Many of them have studied hard since childhood and are quite promising. No matter which one they are, with the lintel of the Min family and their own excellence, they have no worries about not marrying the right match.
There are some good daughters-in-law, and there are a few who have taken advantage of the trend of marrying off daughters from high families a few days ago and talked about the marriage of all the ladies. Apart from family background and love, Qin Jinrong has nothing
She couldn't do anything about it. Marrying any of her cousins would be suspected of ruining their family. If the relationship between the couple didn't go well in the future, Min might even attract complaints from her brother and sister-in-law. But she still bit the bullet and begged her parents to marry her.
Brothers and sisters-in-law. No matter what, Qin Jinrong will always be a piece of meat in her belly. If she doesn't get close to her, she will never leave her daughter alone.
The Min family already has a tacit consent, but the candidate has not yet been decided. Even if they feel sorry for their married daughter and granddaughter, they also feel sorry for their grandchildren. After careful observation for two years, the Min family
There were three candidates selected over there. They all get along relatively well with Qin Jinrong, at least they won't quarrel when they meet, and their tempers are relatively mild, and they can
The kind who tolerates Qin Jinrong's petty temper. Of course, there are no particularly outstanding children among them. If they are outstanding children, they can get better marriages and there is no need to suffer injustice in marriage. Even if he doesn't care, his parents
She was also reluctant. Mrs. Min hoped that her family would protect her daughter throughout her life, and of course she didn't want to have any grudges with her relatives, so she accepted her family's suggestion.
It's just that Qin Shutao felt a little reluctant to let go.
Among the three candidates proposed by the Min family, one is a concubine born from the second wife of a decent family. He has good martial arts skills and a promising future. However, he is different from the concubine and his status does not seem to be enough.
One is a young son with a gentle and good temper, but his health is not good and he cannot join the army. He can only be an idler at home. He may help his family with some household chores in the future. His future is definitely limited. At most, he will just donate a false title in the future.
Just an official.
This third one is a direct descendant and has a little ability, so he can't achieve great things. He can still do a good job as a military attache. He seems to be a good match and has a good temperament and popularity. Unfortunately, he looks very ordinary, and can even be said to be a bit clown.
, people are not very smart either, hours
He had been tricked by his brothers and sisters countless times when he was young, and he would fall for the same trap again and again. Qin Jinrong would never quarrel with him, and he would often let him play with him when he was a child, but he once joked with his father about this cousin secretly.
Brother, I've seen him several times, obviously he doesn't like him very much.
No matter how he looked at it, Qin Shutao felt that these three people were not worthy of his daughter, but those who he thought were worthy, in the eyes of the Min family, his daughter was not worthy. He himself did not have this intention, and the parents were not happy to get married.
It is not a grudge, there is absolutely no reason to force it. Qin Shutao, who dotes on his daughter, hesitates again and again, still hesitating, and has been unable to decide on a candidate.
The Min family didn't push it. Qin Jinrong was still young anyway, and the three candidates were all a few years older than her, so they were in no rush to get married. Besides, these three candidates each had their own merits, and the Min family was very sincere. A bastard with a future, no
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Cheng Dan, the younger son with a good temper, and Qian Cheng, the legitimate son with a good temper but a bit lacking in looks and resourcefulness, no matter which one is paired with Qin Jinrong, they can get along with her. It depends on what kind of life the Qin family wants for their daughter.
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Min himself preferred the third person, while Qin Shutao could not make up his mind. He once discussed this matter with his brother Qin Zhonghai, and the latter's suggestion was also to choose the third person. There is a difference between a legitimate concubine and a legitimate daughter married to a concubine.
, the child feels a little wronged. But if the son-in-law cannot be an official in the future, he will have to be a white man for the rest of his life, and the daughter's face will not look good. The third candidate is the most appropriate, and he can always tolerate Qin Jinrong, and the other party's parents are both decent people.
With a soft temper and a wealthy family, Qin Jinrong can ensure that Qin Jinrong will live a carefree life in the future.
After Qin Zhonghai said this and the Min family had this intention, Qin Shutao finally made up his mind and formally discussed marriage with the Min family as soon as his daughter was two years older.
Who would have thought that this year, Mrs. Xu would suddenly take Qin Jinrong with her to teach her, and I don’t know what she said to her granddaughter. Qin Jinrong seemed to have a closeness to the Xu family in her heart, and she often thought of playing with her when she was a child.
Xu’s second cousin, she left aside the silly cousin Min who was always being played by others. Her cousin Min has now begun to enter the army to gain experience. How can he have time to accompany her? In addition, she already dislikes her.
The other party was stupid, so she naturally didn't take her father's explicit hints to heart. The last time she went back to Min's house to visit her maternal grandparents, she wouldfully failed to give face to cousin Min's mother, which made people a little embarrassed. So she had something else in her heart.
Qin Shutao and Min, who were planning the plan, were also put off by their daughter.
How can one say "kiss" to someone like this?
Mrs. Min still cared about her natal family in her heart, and would not sacrifice her natal brothers, sisters-in-law, nephews, etc. for her daughter. After realizing Mrs. Xu's plan, she said to her husband Qin Shutao: "It seems that Madam has already had some concerns about the marriage of the fifth girl.
We don’t have to worry about finding out the case. Whatever the wife wants to do, she must do it. If she can’t do it, she will have to worry endlessly. If the child feels sorry for us, understands filial piety, but is reluctant, we will stand up for the child.
That's all. Now that the fifth girl doesn't take us seriously, but instead believes in Madam's words, we're afraid that our worries will be in vain and we won't end up well."
What he said made Qin Shutao feel a little discouraged.
He is the second son, and his brother always takes care of things at home. He just needs to follow his brother and doesn't need to worry about anything. He is also aware of the discord between his brother and his mother, although he is more on his brother's side.
, but he didn’t want to fall out with his mother, and he didn’t have enough confidence in his heart to resist her. Now that Xu is ignoring the five-year age difference between Qin Jinrong and Xu Rong and wants to make them a couple, what does it matter if he objects?
What's the use? Anyway, it's not easy for a daughter to get married. Where can she find a family that can tolerate her temper and be kind to her? The Min family is already very rare, and there is no reason to sacrifice their outstanding children for her. But Xu
The Xu family will always look forward to the Qin family. As long as the Qin family remains invincible, the Xu family will not dare to treat Qin Jinrong badly.
Xu Rong and Xu Zheng are not quite the same. Xu Zheng himself is outstanding, talented, knowledgeable, and has a high regard for himself. The Xu family also has high expectations for him, so they are somewhat picky when it comes to marriage. Xu Rong has been used to being indulged since he was a child, even if
Now it is said that he has started to study seriously. There is still a long way to go before he can catch up with Xu Zheng. He will definitely depend on the Qin family in the future and will never let down the daughter of the Qin family. He has also been used to it since he was a child.
In order to be a lowly person and make his cousins happy, at worst, he will continue to coax Qin Jinrong for the rest of his life. Qin Jinrong is somewhat close to him, maybe he is really willing to marry him?
Now, the Xu family is deliberately indulging and conniving, Qin Shutao remains silent and confused, the Min family looks on coldly, and Qin Jinrong is unaware... Anyway, this marriage seems to have been acquiesced. But in Qin Hanzhen's view, this age difference is really too big
Big, this combination is too beyond her three views. She really can't accept it. It's just that the matter has nothing to do with her and the parties involved have no opinions. What position does she have to express her opinions?
After Zhao Mo found out, he thought about it and said, "It's not impossible. Third cousin has actually considered it carefully. If the Xu family is divided again, this marriage will be more appropriate."
Qin Hanzhen looked at him in horror: "What did you say?!"
Chapter completed!