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Chapter 1221 Relatives and Friends

Author: Loeva

Of course it's impossible to go to escape the heat or anything like that.

Not to mention that Mrs. Xu is now ill at home and cannot do without the care of her juniors. Just because the family is busy with Qin Jian's wedding, she cannot do without people at all. Mrs. Yao is not willing to take care of what she has on hand.

The affairs were left to my sister-in-law, Mrs. Min, who had to do it herself to give her precious son a perfect wedding. Therefore, she just casually talked about how to escape the summer heat.

Mrs. Min knew this very well, so she just sat there smiling and saying nothing. Mrs. Yao wanted to belittle the second wife of the Xu family, but she didn't take it seriously. Mrs. Yao had a long-standing conflict with Mrs. Xu's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and she vented her anger on the Xu family.

It is human nature, and she has long been used to it. Her daughter Qin Jinrong's marriage was not chosen by her mother herself. Since it was Xu's decision, Qin Jinrong herself agreed, completely ignoring her parents' persuasion, so Xu

Whether the second wife of the family is good or bad, and whether the daughter will live well after she gets married, it is up to the daughter to bear her own responsibility.

As a mother, she can only guarantee that she can support her daughter when she is wronged; if her daughter really can't survive in her husband's family, then she can take her back to her parents' home to live. This will always ensure that Qin Jinrong has a

She just needs a place to stay. Apart from that, she really can't help with anything else, and there is nothing to help. Anyway, Qin Shutao will think about it, and Min just needs to let her husband do what she wants. Her motherly heart has been

There was not much left. She felt that she had nothing to do against her daughter, and she felt quite at ease.

In fact, Mrs. Yao just wanted to gloat about her mother-in-law Mrs. Xu's misfortune in front of her sisters-in-law, elders, and juniors. She couldn't express this clearly, so she had to scold the Xu family in the name of caring about her mother-in-law and fighting for her mother-in-law.

Everyone present actually knew what she was thinking. After hearing the information they wanted to inquire about, they lost interest in continuing the conversation with her. Yao didn't know if she noticed it, but she still had a smile on her face.

, they naturally started chatting about home affairs. Niu answered her casually and stood up to leave. Cai Shengnan and Qin Hanzhen naturally followed.

After returning home, Qin Hanzhen had been holding it in for a long time, and finally he could express his feelings freely: "The second uncle's gloating was too obvious. She said it directly outside Songfeng Hall without lowering her voice.

. I think my eldest uncle and grandma can definitely hear it in the house, and her mood will definitely not get better, and maybe her condition will get worse! Doesn’t the second uncle know? He didn’t even try to persuade her? "

Cai Shengnan smiled and poured her a cup of tea: "It's really hard for us, we are really sisters. We were holding it back so hard just now, right? It doesn't really matter. They are all our elders. You can just talk and laugh as usual, just like at home.

Who can stop you?"

Qin Hanzhen waved his hand: "I'm afraid that when I open my mouth, I can't help but push the second uncle back, or say something that makes the eldest uncle uncomfortable. So let's forget it. The elders are all here, and I am a granddaughter.

My dear, there is no need to speak."

Niu sighed: "My eldest sister-in-law just can't think about it. The Xu family has gone too far. Forget about the second wife of the Xu family, if they still want to marry Dongfu, they will definitely continue to support them. The fifth girl is so young,

It will take at least three years before you can marry into the Xu family. During these three years, the marriage contract may change at any time, so the second wife of the Xu family naturally has to be cautious. The people in their family are originally more diplomatic than the first wife of the Xu family.

More worldly. I just didn't expect that Xu's parents would turn against each other. Logically speaking, the eldest sister-in-law really has nothing to do with them. There is also Xu Zheng in their family who is counting on Dongfu's support, but he is so negligent to his aunt.

, isn’t it good? Is it possible that Grandma Xu has lost her mind? She is actually a confused person. Before the Xu family was separated, Master Xu called his daughter-in-law the head of the family and argued with the elders of the second wife and his sister-in-law all day long.

, it’s already wrong. Now she is still allowed to put on airs in front of her in-laws? Is it true that a sister-in-law has no temper?!"

Qin Hanzhen said disapprovingly: "So what if the eldest aunt has a temper? How many times have Mrs. Xu and the eldest aunt argued over Xu Zheng's marriage? They almost fell out. But the eldest aunt still does everything for the Xu family.

Even the youngest fifth sister has made up her mind. My eldest uncle and grandma have dedicated their lives to their mother's family. Look, even if everyone in Xu's family room wants to drive her out with big sticks, she will still cry and make troubles to Xu.

The parents' room arranges the marriages of the younger generation according to her wishes. Once Xu Xiu, Xu Lan, and Xu Rong's marriages have been arranged, it will probably be Xu Zheng's children's turn, right? As long as the eldest aunt is alive, she will take care of the Xu family.

Heart, don't expect her to leave the Xu family alone." The Xu family has some understanding in other matters, but when it comes to the Xu family, she is an M. Over the years, Qin Hanzhen has long understood.

Cai Shengnan sighed: "Actually, why is this necessary? Unless there are only weak girls in the natal family, which prosperous family expects the married woman to support and support them for decades to support the family? The Xu family

I heard that I used to be from a well-known scholarly family, with high-ranking officials, and generations of children who have studied and become officials. Why is it that my behavior is not like a family of scholars, but like a nouveau riche with no foundation? Who else can do this except the nouveau riche?

Do you expect your family to prosper based on the nepotism of your in-laws? No matter how good your in-laws are, it is better than trying to live up to your own expectations. Since the Xu family has young talents, they should let these young talents support the family. Counting on the support of in-laws in everything, this is

It’s not the rules that a serious person should have.”

Qin Hanzhen said with a smile: "I heard that during the fight for the right to inherit the legitimate rights, the old man of the Xu family was on the wrong side and almost suffered disaster for the whole family. He relied on reconnecting with the in-laws who had abandoned him early and asked his daughter to marry his great uncle as his stepmother.

They have saved their family. Since they have been rich and wealthy for decades through good in-laws, they naturally regard marriage as a way to maintain wealth and climb up. Even if they are from a scholarly family, once the head of the family gets into it,

It is equally difficult for future generations to get out of the corner of a bull's horn. In fact, our Qin family is not on the wrong team? It's just that after being unlucky, we were lucky enough to make a comeback. But even if our Qin family has the royal family members, we still can't.

I didn’t forget to strive for my own success. My eldest cousin worked hard and studied hard. My second uncle, third uncle and my father also performed their duties conscientiously. No one expected that a good marriage would make our family rich and prosperous for hundreds of years.

I don’t know what the Xu family thought. Even if the eldest aunt and grandmother were paranoid, they actually accepted all the benefits of the Qin family calmly and did not reflect on themselves. The dignity and integrity of a well-known scholarly family must have been long ago.

Have they forgotten about it?"

Cai Shengnan shook his head and said seriously: "It can be seen that even if people in the world become rich, they must not forget their original intentions. They must always remember who they are and must not forget their roots. I remember the sage said, I will examine myself three times every day.

.This makes sense. When you are rich and powerful, you should always reflect on yourself and not be blinded. Otherwise, you will easily do foolish things."

Qin Hanzhen stopped laughing, stood up and said seriously: "Mother is right."

Similar conversations also took place in the homes of other relatives and friends of the Qin family who heard about Xu's experience. Xu herself may feel that her reputation is still very virtuous and her external image is good. In fact, because the Xu family's family once married the Qin family

Undecided on the matter, Grandma Xu let go of rumors among relatives and friends, saying that Qin Jinhua had been betrothed to Xu Zheng a long time ago, but Xu Zheng later settled on a girl from her grandmother's natal family, which was a slap in the face, so the outside world started to comment on the behavior of the Xu family.

It has never been less. And there are many more people who know that Xu prefers her mother's family than she thought.

Mrs. Xu is now older and pampered. After her husband Qin Song was rejected by the royal family, in order to avoid some embarrassing scenes, she went out to socialize much less, so she had less contact with the outside world. Basically, she still maintained a daily routine with her.

Those who communicate with each other are relatives and friends who have been friends for many years. They usually give her face and will not say anything unpleasant to her face to face. But when talking in private, they are not so polite. If the Xu family is up to date, they will know how to be grateful.

, knowing how to repay the Qin family, Xu's behavior can be regarded as a good story. After all, many female relatives sometimes favor their natal family. However, once the Xu family becomes supercilious, Xu will be made into a joke.

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I don’t know how many people use Mrs. Xu as a negative example to teach their daughters or daughters-in-law. Forget about teaching daughters-in-law, those teaching daughters are not to teach their daughters not to take care of their parents’ families after they get married, but to teach their daughters to take care of their parents’ families too.

It should be noted that eating farewell is too ugly, and it will make your own children, relatives and grandchildren feel disgusted. This is not helping your natal family, but harming your natal family. It is obvious that the natal family has promising academic talents, but Xu still wants to take advantage of her brothers and nephews.

The grandnephews and grandnephews treat her like a three-year-old child, watching and supporting her everywhere, wishing that her biological children would devote their entire lives to the younger generations of their mother's family. This is not the principle of mutual support between in-laws, this is using the blood of the mother-in-law's family to provide blood to the mother's family.

Whoever brings back such a daughter-in-law is really in trouble!

For a time, the ladies and grandmothers who had sons who were preparing to marry were very wary. Daughters of the Xu family would never dare to marry, and other families with a similar style to the Xu family should also be careful!

Just as relatives and friends were talking about it, Qin Youzhen, who had just returned to Changlu, returned to the capital again. This time, she brought her eldest son Lu Chuming. Lu Chuming's so-called illness seemed to have recovered, and his whole body was in high spirits.

He has grown a lot and has returned to the handsome young man he was last year.

The Lu and Qin families lived next to each other. Qin Youzhen had just arrived home when she heard the news that Mrs. Xu was ill. However, she did not go to say hello immediately. Instead, she asked her two sons to go to the Marquis Chengen's Mansion to say hello first and take care of herself.

Excuse me. She was already suffering from a bitter summer, and the journey was hard. She caught a cold during the heavy rain on the way, and she was still taking medicine. Since Mrs. Xu was sick, she had better not go there.

, if the illness is over, wouldn’t it affect my aunt?

So, the sick Mrs. Xu saw brothers Lu Chuming and Lu Chuliang who came to pay their respects through the screen, and her mood relaxed a little. She smiled and asked Lu Chuming: "Are you here to enjoy your third cousin's wedding wine? Brother Jian

Your son's marriage is within the year, so why bother traveling between places? Why not simply stay in Beijing for a longer time? You can also ask the imperial doctor to take care of your health. If you don't understand anything about your homework, you can also ask your third uncle for advice.

.Our family has just gotten married to Uncle Shoushan. If you take the article and go to Uncle Shoushan's house to ask for advice, he will definitely not refuse you thousands of miles away."

She tried her best to say good things to lure Lu Chuming to stay. She had not forgotten that Xu Xiu's marriage had not yet been settled. Although her niece and nephew had disappointed her, her grandniece was still sensible and she could not abandon her child.

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