463: Man's attitude
463: Men’s attitude was actually such a society in ancient times. The backyard was the world of women. Even if the male master was a big mistake, he would not interfere with his wife’s decisions. Similarly, a wife could not interfere with the outside. The matter in the outer courtyard was the world of men, and the division of labor inside and outside was clear. This is how the male master came from outside, and the female master came from inside.
As the mistress of the family and Wei Mingzhu's legitimate mother-in-law, Hai's mother-in-law wanted to show off her mother-in-law's majesty and let her daughter-in-law set rules, and no one could make mistakes. If Changjie talked back to her mother because of this, she would not let him go if she was the first one.
But Hai's approach is really... his eyelids are a little shallow, and before he gets married, he stuffed a pretty colored room. This is fine. The young master of a wealthy family does not have one or two room to teach people. But there is one thing that people who are really disciplined will dismiss the room before getting married, which is to give face to their future daughter-in-law.
Here I have to say that Bimo was not sent out. First, she was not yet in a relationship, and second, Hai did not agree.
It would be fine if it wasn't sent out, but it became a kiss but such a little girl sowed the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law. No wonder the old lady was angry about such a stupid thing.
In fact, what Zi Jin was speechless was that it was nothing to get a house with Hai. At this time, the mistress of the family would do things. If Wei Mingzhu couldn't even control a housekeeper, she would not be a housekeeper in the future. The problem lies in the person selected by Hai. If it was really for the sake of his son's goodness, the person he chose should be honest and steady, without any scheming, and had to keep his duties. This is the blessing of the family. Look at who Hai chose, Zi Jin still had some impression of that Bi Mo, and when he looked at those eyes, he knew that he was restless.
Therefore, if there is such an irreconcilable conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it depends on which side the son and husband are on. The daughter-in-law must be wronged when standing by my mother. Standing by my daughter-in-law and scolding you for being unfilial is light. Such housework is the most tangled. The mother-in-law has reason and the daughter-in-law has reason. The most difficult thing is to distinguish right from wrong. It is easy to not fall in love with both sides. In the end, they feel that they are wronged.
Wei Mingzhu heard Zi Jin's question and said awkwardly: "My husband didn't touch that girl, but he didn't say anything about driving the person away..."
Zi Jin looked up at the sky, rolled her eyes, and saw that Wei Mingzhu was a little disappointed, and hurriedly persuaded: "Brother is already very considerate to my sister-in-law if she doesn't touch that girl."
"I know." Wei Mingzhu sighed, "If I had changed to a honest and honest room, I wouldn't have been angry with my mother-in-law like this. But this Bimo really couldn't keep it. It was the root of a mess. I haven't crawled yet... I'm so arrogant when I got into bed. If I had a son and a half daughter in the future, I would probably be able to make trouble than that one, and that would be fatal."
Wei Mingzhu pointed to Aunt Mo's yard, her pretty face full of sorrow.
Zi Jin's eyes were rumbling, thinking in her heart that Yao Changjie should not be such a timid and cowardly man. She is extremely filial to her own mother, but she is not blindly following her. What is the purpose of dragging on this matter?
Zi Jin smelled a conspiracy and a big smile appeared on the corner of her mouth. She looked at Wei Mingzhu and smiled: "Sister-in-law, as far as I know, this Bi Mo entered the elder brother's yard to serve before you entered the door. This girl is pretty and can be said to be good at it. If she were moved, she would have been moved long ago."
Wei Mingzhu looked at Zi Jin for a moment and couldn't figure it out. What does this have to do with being moved?
Looking at Wei Mingzhu's confused eyes, Zi Jin suddenly felt Yao Changjie's sorrow. It turned out that his elder brother must have been moved by Wei Mingzhu, but because of the unpleasant encounters with Yao Changjie several times before, the beautiful woman probably still had no sincerity with his elder brother. Maybe this Bi Mo was his elder brother's love stone. Touching her chin, Zi Jin felt that it would be better not to break his elder brother's plan.
However, Zi Jin is still very comfortable in fanning the flames and adding fuel to the fire, so it is still a very happy thing to add some adjustments to the couple.
Thinking of this, he narrowed his eyes and said slowly: "Sister-in-law, think about it, the eldest brother didn't send this girl away, why did he do such a thing according to his elder brother's character?"
Wei Mingzhu followed Zi Jin's words and thought that Yao Changjie is a very self-disciplined person. He doesn't have much preference for women and respects her, his wife... He is also determined to be firm and upright, and he speaks like a mountain. He cannot tolerate breaking the rules in everything... He can still tolerate Bimo...
Wei Mingzhu felt uncomfortable and looked at Zi Jin and asked tentatively: "What do you mean is your elder brother actually interesting to that girl?"
Zi Jin coughed lightly and said concealedly: "I didn't say that. It's hard to make a conclusion if I didn't meet this kind of thing in person. But this girl hasn't been dismissed for a long time, maybe there is something wrong with her."
Wei Mingzhu frowned, "What can I say? Could it be..." As she said that, she pursed her lips and turned darker.
Zi Jin wanted to laugh, but said, "Sister-in-law, anyone who can be a husband and wife is responsible for fate. Some are a lover, and some are a complaint. In fact, no matter which one is, I think that in marriage, we should trust each other, protect each other, and respect each other. If we like someone, we should say it. If we don't say it, how can others know what you are thinking? It is not cost-effective if there is a misunderstanding just because of this."
Wei Mingzhu remained silent. Zi Jin didn't say much when he saw this, so he used the excuse to see Mrs. Yao and avoided her.
Wei Mingzhu was silently thinking about Zi Jin's words, and she liked it. She really liked that big stone that was as dark as a man and was so angry that it was not worth the life. But since she became a couple, she should live a good life. Who would keep this on her lips all day long... If this is spread, would she still be a human being?
Wei Mingzhu shook her head, her expression was gloomy and sunny. She told a nerd man who didn't understand the charm. Can Zi Jin guarantee that her elder brother would not throw her out?
Wei Mingzhu was still struggling. Zi Jin had already talked with Mrs. Yao. The old lady didn't ask why Zi Jin came back, and Zi Jin didn't say it either. The two of them never revolved around this. As they said that, they turned to Bi Mo. The old lady had an indescribable indifference on her face, "...Your wife's approach is a bit inappropriate, but she felt sorry for her parents in the world. She also hoped that Brother Jie could live a comfortable life and prosper her descendants. There was nothing wrong with this."
"Yes, my mother has always been kind-hearted." Zi Jin responded with a smile, adding a half sentence in her heart, good intentions always do bad things!
"Your sister-in-law is also a good person, but she is still young and has not experienced many things. She is a little more young and energetic. Whoever has no stumbling in life in a family? You will understand the truth when you are stumbling. You don't have to worry about it. Be a good person and have a lively and cute baby. It is important to have a healthy child." The old lady sighed at Zi Jin's slightly thin face, reached out to pat Zi Jin's hand, and leaned on the soft pillow and said slowly: "People are always unable to think about it. When they are young, they fight for it. In fact, they are not allowed to live again in their old age and live a light and happy life. Sometimes they don't know how to cherish and compete for those useless things. When they lose them, they will complain about the world. It is a real incompetent mentality."
Zi Jin thinks that the old lady's words make sense. People always pursue what you can't get in their lives, but they regard what you get as a waste. In fact, what you get in the end may not be what you really want. People often know what you really want in the end, but when they understand it at that time, they have no youth to squander.
After coming out of the old lady's house, Zi Jin went to see Aunt Wu again. Aunt Wu was in good spirits and was busy making clothes for the dolls in Zi Jin's belly all day long. There were boys and girls. Zi Jin was dazzled and told Aunt Wu not to break her eyes. When she was fine during the day, she was not in a hurry to wear it... Aunt Wu naturally responded one by one. The mother and daughter whispered for a while before they separated.
When Zi Jin arrived at the yard, he heard Hai complaining to her about Wei Mingzhu being jealous and could not even tolerate a girl. Zi Jin had to patiently persuade: "The newly married couple let a girl mess around in the middle. No matter who is it, no one will be angry. I have seen that Bi Mo once or twice, he is a fool and Rao Rao restless, and no wonder his sister-in-law."
Hai Shi pointed to Zi Jin's nose and said, "You are unscrupulous, and you are turning your elbows out. Do you think it's easy for me to be a mother? If you find someone like Jingbo, you may not be able to enjoy it even if you are still in your elder brother's yard for twenty years. Didn't I see that he is too naive and too unspeakable, so I found a elves who speaks clearly and talk a lot, and they didn't look for me to find a supplement. They all regard me as the cruel mother-in-law. Do you know your elder brother's temperament? Is it easy for me..."
It was indeed not easy for Zi Jin to look up at the sky. Yao Changjie had to find someone who likes to talk and laugh... Hai was so thoughtful, after all, he was kind-hearted.
Women in this era do not have the concept of monogamy. Even if they think so in their hearts, they will never say it out loud. Therefore, Zi Jin is right to listen to this and that, and she is also confused by it.
When she heard the news that Yao Changjie was going home, she hurriedly took off and went to Yao Changjie's yard. She still had some serious things to do. As soon as she entered the Yao family, she was trapped in these trivial matters, one head and two big ones.
After entering Yao Changjie's yard, Zi Jin asked them to go home to see their family. The yard was quiet. Zi Jin walked in and was about to walk to the study when he heard a low voice from the wing room next to him, "Shameless fox charm, you are rushing to stick it up as the young master comes back. Why haven't the young grandma come yet?"
Chapter completed!