Forty-eight, knowledge changes destiny (Part 2)
Xu Shengzhou was also speechless.
The influence of the original family on a person is really great, even for a lifetime. As others have said, those children who are born in bad original families are like walking alone in the dark night, even if they try their best to make
After choosing the most correct choice, due to the obstruction and involvement of the family, you may eventually return to the origin of struggle. And the trauma caused by the original family may require the rest of your life to repair.
Su Shanyue took a deep breath: "But then I gave all the salary I had saved for several years, nearly 200,000, to my parents, and asked them to marry my brother a wife. I read so many books, and I
It’s fair to think that many famous people have never married, including Plato, Kant, Leonardo da Vinci, Newton, and Academician Lin Qiaozhen, which does not affect their greatness at all. There are so many people in our country, and the throne of our family is not mine. It seems that I am unmarried and infertile.
It has no impact. On the contrary, without the burden of a family, I can better devote myself to teaching."
Xu Shengzhou couldn't help but praise her secretly.
"The first few classes of students I taught had outstanding results. Their average scores were at least the top five among the twenty or thirty classes in the school. In one class, two students entered the top 100 in the province's college entrance examination. I also won the municipal award.
Excellent educators at the level. They all say that 'there are many famous people, right and wrong', which is generally true." Su Shanyue's face began to look sad, "I just think that because this class of students has done a good job, many people rely on their connections.
Put your own children into my class, hoping that I can turn stones into gold and educate their children well. Principal Xu, you were also born in a normal university. You should know that our teachers are also ordinary people. At most, they can only educate and influence, not Daluo Jinxian.
, one click can make those problem students wake up and turn back! And because of my experience in studying in the past, I can't stand those children who can obviously learn, but are willing to learn if they have the conditions. Whenever this time, I
I can't help but criticize those students severely, and even punish them appropriately. As time goes by, all kinds of dirty words will come to me. It's better to say that I only care about grades and ignore students, ignore quality education, and only cultivate small town students.
The author of the question: To be more disgusting, he directly said that my not getting married was due to lifestyle issues, mental distortion, and psychological defects. Some parents not only refused to cooperate with the education, but also complained to the school and the education department. I was still fearless at the beginning.
After a long time, I became exhausted both physically and mentally, and in the end I just felt discouraged. If your child has a problem and you don't let the teacher educate him, it's obvious that you don't want him to improve, so why should I just sit back and worry about it?
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Perhaps, this is also the mental journey of many primary and secondary school teachers?
In fact, every young person who first devotes himself to education is full of lofty ideals and enthusiasm. However, if he does not get positive feedback from schools, parents and students, his blood will gradually cool down. And education has always been about candied dates and big students.
You can achieve good results by using both a stick and a ruler. Just like planting a tree, if you only focus on fertilizing it, watering it, weeding and loosening the soil, will it grow well? Maybe a few can, but most must go through constant efforts.
Only by straightening, pruning and deleting can one become useful. Now that you have taken away the stick and ruler from the teacher's hands, and still expect the teacher to cultivate him into a talented person, isn't it a bit difficult?
Xu Shengzhou ordered another cappuccino for Su Shanyue.
After thanking Su Shanyue, he continued: "I am more or less a responsible person. Since I was frustrated, I didn't want to delay the students. At the same time, I also wanted to figure out what went wrong, so I applied for Ji.
I got a doctorate in higher education from Mengmen Normal University. I was somewhat lucky. Although I only took more than half a year to prepare, I was lucky enough to pass the exam and have been studying until now. Unexpectedly, I resigned from two jobs that year because of the twists of fate.
Teaching position, but now I want to find a teaching position but can’t get it!”
Xu Shengzhou was a little confused: "Isn't it difficult to find a job? These days are our school's campus recruitment sessions. As a bystander, I feel that PhDs in education are quite popular."
Su Shanyue raised three fingers: "This issue needs to be looked at from three aspects. First of all, the education doctorate from Beijing Normal University may indeed be very popular, but it has little to do with the employment of the education doctorate at Jimen Normal University.
.After all, Beijing Normal University is 985, a holy land for teachers. Naturally, the emperor’s daughter will not have to worry about getting married. And what about Jimen Normal University? It’s just an ordinary municipal university. And now many units recruit based on academic qualifications. People like me have a bachelor’s degree.
Ph.D. students are from ordinary local colleges and universities, and you will be PASSed when you submit your resume!
"Secondly, even if jobs with PhDs in education are popular this year, it doesn't have much to do with me. I paid attention to the recruitment brochures of various schools last year and this year, and all the better units have a saying, 'In principle, the age should not exceed 35 years old.' This is hard.
The conditions just turned me away.
"Third, it's not that it's hard to find a job, it's that good jobs are hard to find. Some undergraduate colleges in third- and fourth-tier small cities, or colleges and universities in first- and second-tier cities, can appropriately relax the age limit to 40 years old, or even
I am 45 years old. But I am so old, and I still have to compete with young people in their 20s and 30s. Then I will start from the "green pepper" and evaluate papers and projects every year. Maybe the salary will not be as high as when I used to teach in a middle school.
In the future, I will be a fourth-level professor at most. It is difficult for me to accept this."
When she said this, Xu Shengzhou understood.
The other party’s meaning was very clear. It’s not that I can’t find a job. After all, I published 4 core journals during my Ph.D. and my academic results are very good. It’s quite safe to find a public college or higher vocational college in a first- or second-tier city. The reason why I can find a job today.
I came here for an interview. Firstly, I was attracted by the generous salary offered by Shenzhou Vocational College of Science and Technology. Secondly, I was attracted by the fact that private colleges and universities did not have assessment requirements for papers and projects. Thirdly, I was attracted by Xu Shengzhou's promise that he could be directly appointed to the middle level of the school after the assessment period.
In short, it means more money, fewer things, and a higher position.
When people reach middle age, they will gradually become realistic and begin to need worldly things to prove and comfort themselves, so that they can live more courageously. Xu Shengzhou expressed his understanding here: "I believe that before Mr. Su came, he also had a deep understanding of us at China Technology
The vocational college has done some research. As you know, the school is terrible, but it is very rich. It is currently building a new campus, and I also have the idea of making the school better. I sincerely invite and eagerly look forward to all kinds of talents to join.
I have already told you about the salary via private message. There are only so many things to do in private universities. As long as you pass the probation period, you can choose deputy positions in the Principal's Office, Development Planning Office, and Social Sciences Office. How about that?"
Su Shanyue raised the coffee cup in her hand, as if she was using coffee instead of wine: "Thank you, Principal Xu! But I still have a question. Young talents like you, Principal Xu, published so many high-quality articles during your college years.
He wrote an academic paper and was accepted as a disciple by an academician. It can be said that the future is limitless. I dare not say anything else. In the future, "excellent youth" and "distinguished youth" can still be expected. They can definitely carve out a world in the academic world. Why would they think of buying it?
China Science and Technology Vocational College, and then become the principal yourself?"
"Would you rather be a chicken head than a phoenix tail?" Xu Shengzhou gave an ambiguous explanation, "I once read an incisive discussion about the workplace, saying why leaders like to work overtime and are not afraid of overtime? Because they can control their own time.
You can be busy or you can be idle; you can leave early or leave late. And what about your subordinates? Whether they work overtime or for how long is uncontrollable. When you are busy, you are exhausted, and when you are free, you are worried. You don’t know.
When will a bunch of things happen to me again? This feeling of being uncontrollable is the most tiring. So, maybe I want to live a more relaxed life?"
Xu Shengzhou thought for a while and then continued: "Sometimes I also wonder, what will happen to me if I graduate with a doctorate in the future and choose to stay in a better public university? If nothing else, I will be just an insignificant person on such a big campus.
As a member of the Communist Party of China, they are the ones to be managed, supervised, and assessed. Everything they do must abide by the rules and follow past practices. Even if they are 'outstanding youths' or 'distinguished youths', they are no exception. If you don't abide by them, I will
Disruptors are unpopular people! - Teacher Su, you study higher education. You know why so many famous scholars leave the academic institution where they have been trained for many years in anger and rejoin an unfamiliar university.
School?"
Su Shanyue said: "Generally, there are four factors: personnel, economy, emotion, and development."
"As expected, he is an expert, and he can sum up everything deeply. But as people with emotions, sometimes they are irrational. If you always stay in the same place, always eat the same dish, always stay under the same roof with the same beautiful woman, all the gods will do it.
A person with an ordinary mind, let alone an individual? I have been a student for so many years, and I also want to change roles. 'The world is so big, I want to see it', but for me, 'There are so many schools, and I want to be the principal.'"
Xu Shengzhou changed the subject again, "Moreover, didn't you want to see why there were so many children who could learn and had the conditions to learn, but just refused to study hard? The people in our private colleges are all these scumbag students.
Su, you can do an in-depth analysis from the perspective of a school administrator to find out what went wrong."
"Well, please take care of Principal Xu in the future!"
After seeing off Su Shanyue, Xu Shengzhou returned to the Wendao Cafe and sat down. The words just now were naturally nonsense and were meant to deceive Su Shanyue, but Su Shanyue's experience and her belief in "knowledge changes destiny"
"The motto made him unable to calm down for a long time.
Su March's life in the first thirty to forty years was full of legend. To be fair, for a girl born in a poor rural family, her life path was actually quite smooth, and almost every step was her best at the time.
With her choice, any goal she wanted to achieve was finally achieved. However, even if she took every step correctly and worked hard, her life was still stumbling and could not be called happiness at all. So, what did knowledge change?
?Is it getting better or worse? Will Su Shanyue regret these changes?
Perhaps, doing the right thing at the right age is the biggest mistake in life, and you will not regret it.
Just like me now, studying for a postgraduate degree and a Ph.D. is the right thing to do, and it is the biggest mistake in life. If you go to study for a postgraduate Ph.D. when you are thirty or forty years old, Su Shanyue showed her own experience and proved that doing the same thing at an inappropriate age
How wrong could things be! Perhaps because of this, no matter whether Mr. Cheng comes to persuade you to study for a Ph.D. or does campus recruitment recently, that damn system has been pretending to be dead and has never jumped out to increase its sense of presence.
His previous destiny has been changed by knowledge.
His future destiny is being changed by knowledge.
Chapter completed!