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Chapter 353 Theoretical basis for building a better world (3)

 "You...the East Asian Republic...don't have any laws to punish parents?" Adolf asked in confusion.

"Take Aub as an example. If the father and mother of a family are determined to be unqualified to support their offspring, the law will deprive them of their custody rights."

"No." Ma Ningze responded simply.

"In other words, there is, but it is difficult to implement."

"Aubu is a country of immigrants. In terms of cultural integration, Aubu is not the same as the Atlantic Federation of the last century. It has done a very good job."

"In East Asia, where the traditional culture of respecting the ancients is prevalent, children and teenagers do not have individual will, whether it is a legal or moral level." Ma Ningze said calmly.

"Most of the time, they cannot be separated from their guardians at the social level."

"Even blaming parents is, at a subconscious level, forbidden by people in East Asian republics."

"Just like church believers in Western Europe, blaming God is the ultimate rebellion. It is unimaginable and treasonous."

"This is exactly what East Asian culture is like - they don't even dare to think about accusing their parents of doing something bad. Because in their culture, parents are a flawless incarnation, almost equivalent to Western Gods.

]." Ma Ningze said coldly.

"You can't resist or question. Because they are sacred and selfless."

"They raised you up, and of course they are a huge favor to you."

"They are born with absolutely overwhelming moral advantages."

Ma Ningze gave an example.

"This advantage, in ancient times, was that even if they wanted to kill you with a knife, you couldn't say anything bad about them."

"You must also be filial and respectful."

Adolf's eyes widened.

"And, unlike God who is invisible and intangible, parents are visible and tangible." Ma Ningze added.

"This kind of separation has led to nearly 90% of East Asians having some psychological problems."

"Among them, the most common one is the put-upon type, which is me: dependent depression."

"The characteristic of these people is that they pursue moderation, and they like to be in harmony with what is unpleasant."

"Women may like domineering CEOs and the like, while men may like...well, Nian Shang."

"Nian...what?" Adolf was suddenly stunned as he listened.

"Ahem. It's nothing." Ma Ningze blushed for the first time.

"The other type is the pursuit of perfection to the extreme. It's called: internalized depression."

Ma Ningze began to recall...

"They will like to pursue perfection, criticize themselves, and always ask themselves, why are they not doing well enough?"

"As long as I work harder...and I am better...my parents won't...treat me badly."

"They will take all the responsibility on themselves."

"The performance of this kind of person is that he likes to be strict with himself, but he will also be strict with others." Ma Ningze said.

"The closer someone is to him/her, the stricter he/she is."

"When you live with this kind of person, you will feel a lot of pressure."

"Once something goes wrong, they will feel very frustrated."

"Hiss..." As a professional psychology expert, Adolf finally realized how serious what Ma Ningze said was.

"So you will see that under this kind of thinking, the youth suicide rate in East Asian republics ranks first in the world." Ma Ningze shrugged.

"Among them, the Japanese province is the largest, followed by the Chao province, the Central Plains province, and the Taiwan province."

"Since the world is not wrong and my parents are not wrong, then it must be me who is wrong."

"Similarly, among their mental illnesses, the proportion of psychological problems caused by non-congenital and addictive drugs is also the first in the world."

"..." Adolf slowly stopped the notes in his hand and looked at Ma Ningze blankly.

"So, you must also know what the two types of depression might look like in this environment?" Ma Ningze looked at Adolf with a smile.

"Dependent depression... symptoms are: either overeating... or going on hunger strike, often feeling extremely lonely and giving up on yourself..." Adolf said subconsciously.

"The internal type is obsessive-compulsive, restless, and pursues perfection."

"The most typical thought is: I'm not good enough. I have flaws, and I'm responsible for them. I'm a sin."

"Both types of depression, serious ones can lead to self-harm, mania, schizophrenia..."

Ma Ningze smiled and nodded.

"There is also a self-destructive tendency, either eager to pursue extreme perfection...or like to mess up."

"..." Adolf was silent.

Ma Ningze is not a person related to psychology, but if he is so aware of this specific psychological symptom and rules out that other people around him will suffer from this disease, then the only possibility is...

That is, he himself was once a patient.

"But fortunately, I am lucky. The domestic violence I encountered was not serious..."

Ma Ningze thought for a while and seemed to...remember some things.

"At least it's not that serious, so I can get out of this pain." Ma Ningze smiled and finally said.

"But...how did you get out?" Adolf asked urgently.

At least, as a psychologist, he couldn't figure out how Ma Ningze could get out of this kind of psychological trauma if he had been so serious?

"It's very simple." Ma Ningze said calmly.

"Sever ties with parents..."

"..." Adolf was silent again.

"Of course, in fact, this is a very bad idea." Ma Ningze said this, shaking his head with a wry smile.

"This kind of behavior is just going from one extreme to another."

"To some extent, it may even worsen your condition."

"This does not fundamentally solve the problem in my heart."

"This problem continued until I found a job in this society that accepted me. I was surrounded by friendly colleagues and a group of young people who could work together to create the future. My psychological problems were rooted in the root.

Gradually relieved." Ma Ningze said with a smile.

"When someone is willing to recognize my contribution...when there is a person, or a group of people, who tells me that I am an indispensable person for a certain project or an organization..."

"Only then can I say goodbye to my past self in a true sense."

"Actually, objectively speaking, my evaluation of my parents is biased." Ma Ningze said calmly.

"My parents have paid a lot for me. If they had not paid for me, I would certainly not be alive today. After all, you can't expect a newborn child to make a living on his own."

"It's just that when I was growing up, they unknowingly and unknowingly bound me tightly and constantly abused my spirit, which made my childhood and life extremely painful." Ma Ningze
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