Chapter 83: Leave in joy and return with all the joy
“Crown and I are not business.”
When Panda Jing heard this, all the original small bumps in his heart disappeared.
Yes, it is a deeper relationship, not a business. It is not a problem, so naturally it will not be confused. Panda Jing also knew that he was biased just now, so she didn't ask more questions.
Wang Taika saw Panda Jing's crampage and smiled and said, "There is a saying in our country that is 'Rely on parents at home and rely on friends when going out'. They all like to make friends. When they are alone, they like the most.
Meeting fellow villagers and old classmates, so there are all kinds of class associations and fellow villagers' associations everywhere in China. Nowadays, connection management has become a course. Dale Carnegie, a famous American master of interpersonal relationships and success, once said
Speaking of which, 'Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% rely on interpersonal relationships and skills in dealing with the world.' This has simply hit the souls of most people in the Celestial Empire."
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Panda Jing said: "Actually, the same is true in Korea."
"Yes, the Korean hierarchy is still more serious." Wang Taika smiled and said, "So, all kinds of people are seeking to build and accumulate their own connections to achieve success in life. But
...Sometimes I think of one thing."
Panda Jing didn't interrupt, but listened carefully.
Wang Taika said: "What I think is...why? Why do others become your network resources, or why do they want to make friends with you? So I think making friends becomes
Doing business is the biggest failure in dealing with people. The so-called connections are essentially connected, integrated, and then gaining profits through the resources of each person. Therefore, the connotation of connections is a business. Making friends is not making connections, and it cannot be used to do business.
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Panda Jing said: "Oba actually said that you can't care about gains and losses when making friends? After all, business depends on profit, right?"
"Yes, that's about that." Wang Taika smiled and said, "The most important thing about the relationship between people is "truth", and "truth" is the pure motivation that comes from people's thoughts. Therefore,
Whether it is feelings or sincerity, there must be a "true" in front of it. Sincerity, true feelings, true meaning... I am taking Chinese characters as an example."
Panda nodded to express understanding.
Wang Taika said: "Of course, I am not a pedantic master, so why do you say the lies of "preserving the laws of nature and destroying human desires". But humans are emotional animals after all. Although interests are important, the difference between humans and animals lies in their spirits.
The pursuit, and if there is no true love, the relationship between people will inevitably be distorted, short-lived, dangerous. There is wine, meat and friends, no money, no profit, no wine and meat, and friends who make friends for the sake of profit will sooner or later be competed for
Become enemies with attacks."
Panda Jing suddenly fell lonely and said, "Then the group formed for profit will be like this, right?"
Wang Taika knew that Panda Jing was talking about the Crown. Hua Ying joined the Crown at that time, and it was originally an expansion plan set by B.K. However, the Crown people were already very stable, but Hua Ying entered the Crown. Although everyone was a little worried.
I was temporarily unacceptable, but I also made a default. After all, I had no choice and wanted to make the combination better.
But at that time, the Crown and the others were not so tightly united, and they had more ideas for the sake of interests. It is natural for human nature, there is nothing to be criticized about this.
But no one expected that Hua Ying would not suffer any loss at all, and she planted the seeds of division from the beginning.
There was nothing in this world for no reason, there must be a cause behind it. Some causes may even be ridiculous and insignificant, but that was the beginning of a butterfly effect.
Panda Jing is a little lonely. He has been so dismal about the situation in Crown since it has been so good. In fact, the few people at Crown are in a bad mood. Even now, they still have shortcomings. However, the reason for the benefits this time is not the main reason, the main thing is
Can't swallow that breath.
It's obvious that you can do better, but you fail.
Wang Taika advised: "Think about it. In fact, the origin of the idol group is not the same? In order to make a profit, the company launches a group. No one has ever cared about the relationship between the few people in this group. According to me,
As we know, there are many combinations that appear to be as close as a family, but actually look and be separated from one's own. "
Panda Jing nodded: "Oba is right. But sometimes, when you hear fans calling their names over and over again, you really feel that this is a group. But when you see each other, you will
I know, I'm not a member of the road."
Wang Taika smiled and said, "Don't think too much. At least after experiencing hardships, the current crown is not that superficial relationship, isn't it?"
Panda Jing was happy when she heard this: "Oba, you are really amazing. When you say this, I almost feel that experiencing these things seems to be a good thing. After removing the inappropriate people, the sisters are left behind.
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"That's how things are, it's not a good thing, but after all, the road knows the power of horsepower, and people's hearts will be seen over time." Wang Taika said: "Back to the original topic. No matter what happens now, it's useless. Is it useful?
Using the screening criteria. In the lively social events, people actually take care of the food, and useful people will get a better attitude. Crown should have a deep feeling when he experienced such a heaven and hell."
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Panda Jing nodded: "Yes, when you are looked down upon, you don't even give me a chair. But Oppa doesn't even mention me. From VJ to president, I don't believe you haven't experienced it."
Wang Taika laughed: "So I understand that connections are just the manifestation of one's career energy, and one's the foundation. Everything else is dependence. If you fantasize about digging gold in your connections, it is undoubtedly a matter of seeking fish from your relationship.
Go away from the near and far. Never think about begging for alms among friends. Don’t think that a lot of friends is a blessing. If you get blessings from friends, then what do you mean?"
Panda Jing frowned slightly when she heard this: "Oba, are you too pessimistic? But speaking of it, I feel that Opba seems to have less talked about the people I met in Korea before."
"It is because I understand this principle that I have eliminated the useless social interactions in life."
"I never intended to ask anyone to do anything, nor did I plan to help others, and I don't like others to ask me for trouble."
Wang Taika smiled and said, "So I have no friends. I am alone and quiet. Life is about finding the truth through falsehood, working hard in adversity, and pretending calmly in good times.
Very good!"
"It's so good. It's a pity that I can't be as free and easy as Oppa in my life." Enjing felt a little lost, looked at Wang Taika and asked, "What about now? Oppa still doesn't have friends?"
Wang Taika smiled and said, "I do have many friends now, but friends are not forever. Maybe if there is something, maybe there is no topic, the relationship will end. Just like you, you and I are friends now,
But when you get married one day in the future, no matter what aspect, we should not contact each other frequently. This is respect for each other. Isn’t it?”
Panda Jing nodded sadly when she heard this: "Yes. But I will feel regretful, will Oppa feel regretful?"
Wang Taika laughed: "No, there is nothing to regret."
Panda Jing looked at Wang Taika in confusion and resentment: "Oba is very ruthless."
Chapter completed!