She was originally the one who climbed high, but if she didn't even have the ability to solve problems, then if she married into the Xiao family... she would be like a sheep in a tiger's mouth, and she would never look back.

But do you really want to give up?

No!

Lin Sanmei can't do it.

Maybe she didn't love Young Master Xiao that deeply, but her heartbeat was her heartbeat, and she couldn't deny it. This was one of the reasons.

The second reason is the reason she just mentioned - she missed Mr. Xiao, and she is afraid she will never meet such a good man again.

Originally, she and Lin Simei came to Pushou City to "climb high". Now that they finally met one, how could she give up so easily?

Lin Sanmei bit her lip: "I know, but I still ask my aunt to teach me. I know I'm stupid and I'm not as smart as my fourth sister, but I'm not afraid. Even if one day I can't fight them and I'm tricked to death by them, as long as

I worked hard and I won’t regret it.”

Lin Simei tightened her hand on the handkerchief, feeling slightly worried.

But Lin Simei did not speak, because she knew that this was the path her third sister had to take, and she could not help her.

It would be better if she could marry to Pushou City together, but if her fate is not here, they are thousands of miles apart, and if the third sister doesn't stand up on her own...

Ye Yuran smiled softly, reached out and touched the top of Lin Sanmei's hair, and said: "You... ok, aunt knows that you have ambitions. It's not scary to have ambitions. What's scary is that you only have ambitions but don't have any."

Strength that matches your ambition. Compared with Fourth Sister, you are indeed not as smart as Fourth Sister, but you also have your own advantages."

Lin Sanmei's eyes suddenly lit up: "Then what are my advantages?"

"Be able to listen to other people's opinions." Ye Yuran looked at her and said, "This thing you have seems to be difficult to handle, but it is actually not as difficult as you think. You just need to remember that if others dare to plot against you, they will either

You are blocking other people's way, or you have someone else's benefit. Then tell me, why is Gongsun Lei using you and Fourth Sister?"

Seeing that her aunt was willing to teach her, Lin Sanmei felt relieved, and she also thought seriously: "Both. The third aunt also said just now that Gongsun Lei deliberately approached me and fourth sister because she wanted to

By using us to become famous, this is the 'profit' she wants to gain from me and my fourth sister."

"Yes! It's true. Fame also has its own benefits. The so-called benefits are nothing more than these types of benefits. Fame, wealth and wealth. I'm not sure which one it is. Just use one kind at a time. You can always find it. Then there is another kind.

Woolen cloth?"

"The other is that I blocked Gongsun Lei's way. If the third sister-in-law's guess is true, whether the Gongsun family wants to marry the Xiao family, or Gongsun Lei herself likes Young Master Xiao, obviously, my engagement with Young Master Xiao

Blocking her way."

"Yeah! Yes, since you have both, Gongsun Lei wants to take action against you and move you away. What should you do to prevent her from moving you?"

"Uh..." Lin Sanmei looked a little embarrassed. She wanted to say that as long as she didn't agree, there was nothing Gongsun Lei could do.

But she also knew that this was not a question of whether she could answer or not, but whether she could escape Gongsun Lei's "plan".

Ye Yuran was not in a hurry and said with a smile: "Someone wants to deal with you. If you can't solve it yourself, you can find allies? Who do you think your allies are?"

Lin Sanmei's eyes lit up and she said, "My aunt, my third sister-in-law, my fourth sister... the entire Zhu family is my ally."

"No, there is more."

"Anything else?" Lin Sanmei was confused. Apart from these, is there anyone else?

She shook her head and said she couldn't guess.

Ye Yuran smiled and said: "And your future husband."

"Ah?!" Lin Sanmei's eyes widened, but she quickly realized that what her aunt said was right. Husband and wife are one body. Even though she and Young Master Xiao have not yet gotten married, they are engaged.

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Now that they are engaged, someone wants to break their engagement. Isn't that their enemy?

"Of course, whether your husband is your ally depends on the specific situation, but the marriage contract between you and Young Master Xiao was chosen by him, and the Xiao family also agreed, which means that he is your ally." Ye Yuran

Said, "You can find him. Maybe he can not only help you solve this problem, but also help you find more allies."

Lin Sanmei was a little surprised. She wanted to jump up and go find Mr. Xiao immediately, but she was afraid that she would turn a good thing into a bad thing, so she asked cautiously: "Auntie, should I go find him now?"

"Don't worry, you can wait until we finish talking. I just said that he is your ally now, so under what circumstances might he not be your ally?"

"Can you still be my ally?"

"When your interests conflict with his, you need to pay attention to whether he is giving up your interests for his own sake, or whether he is giving up his interests for you. Different people will make different choices."

…

Ye Yuran was teaching Lin Sanmei seriously. She not only told Lin Sanmei how to judge friends and foes, but also told Lin Sanmei how to solve such problems when she encountered them.

There are no problems in this world that cannot be solved, only unclear interests and people's hearts.

Perhaps, now that she and Mr. Xiao are on the same front, Mr. Xiao will solve Gongsun Lei's problem for her, but people's hearts are fickle, and no one knows what it will be like in the future.

Therefore, Lin Sanmei needs to know clearly who she is, what she wants, and what she can do to keep what she wants.

A person will encounter many choices in his life, but only by grabbing what he wants most will he not regret every choice.

When she marries into the Xiao family in the future, Lin Sanmei will soon discover that not everyone has the same interests as her, and someone will definitely take action against her. What she needs to do then is what Ye Yuran wants to emphasize.

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"Husband and wife are natural allies. When there is no impulse for profit, you can rely on Mr. Xiao, but you cannot rely on him forever."

"If he has a concubine in the future and the concubine has a child, then the future concubine and the angry child born from the concubine will be your enemy. No matter how much you try to avoid it, the legitimate wife will never be able to live in harmony with the concubine, because

Your identities are destined to have conflicts of interest. At this time, no one knows which side Mr. Xiao will be on."

"After all, your child is his flesh and blood, and the child born from my concubine is also his flesh and blood. For him, the palms and backs of his hands are all flesh. No matter how he helps, it is wrong, and no matter how he doesn't help, it is also wrong..."

…

Ye Yuran bloodyly tore apart the various problems that Lin Sanmei might encounter after marrying into the Xiao family.

In particular, the Xiao family in Luanzhou does not have the rule of the Zhu family that "a man can only take a concubine if he is forty years old and has no children." Even if the eldest son Xiao is clean around him now, no one can guarantee that he will not be a concubine if he becomes an official in the future.

He had three wives and four concubines.

Ye Yuran had never dealt with this problem, and she didn't know how to teach Lin Sanmei how to deal with this problem. She just told her nakedly that some conflicts of interest were inevitable and could not be avoided.

The reason why she set up such rules for the Zhu family was to prevent "backyard disputes".
Chapter completed!