Chapter 1262 The honor and disgrace rest with you
Zhu San: "...Aren't you happy?"
He was shocked, could it be that Xu Yujin was unhappy without him noticing?!
"happy!"
Ye Yuran was very sure, and Zhu San breathed a sigh of relief.
However, the next second, he heard his mother say: "She is indeed happy, but her happiness has a prerequisite, that is, the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious and her husband's family does not make things difficult for her."
She asked Zhu San, if one day he didn't want to be nice to Xu Yujin, or if Xu Yujin didn't like her as a mother-in-law and kept making trouble for Xu Yujin, would Xu Yujin still be happy?
Zhu San: "..."
How could he treat Xu Yujin badly when he didn't understand what his mother was talking about at all?
He married her not only because he really liked her, but also because of her family background. The combination of the two made this marriage possible.
If her family background is worse and she is still a laggard, then that is not necessarily the case, because there are more things besides feelings.
To put it bluntly, his feelings for her were not enough for him to take such a big risk.
"Before she gets married, her parents make the decision in her life; after she gets married, whether she is happy or not, and even her wealth and life will all depend on you."
"You are my son, and I understand you. With your character, even if one day you no longer love her, you will respect her and fulfill your responsibilities as a husband and father."
"But how can you guarantee that your future brother-in-law will treat your eighth sister the same way you do?"
Zhu San wanted to open his mouth and say that he would find a way to stand high enough in the future and not give anyone a chance to bully his eighth sister.
However, before he could speak, Ye Yuran continued: "I know what you want to say, you are the third brother of Bamei, and you will definitely stand by Bamei and will not let others bully him. But..."
"But as her mother, I want to give her more protection."
The expression on Ye Yuran's face became more serious and determined, "Except for you, her other brothers, and the Zhu family, I want my eighth sister to control her own destiny. Even if one day her husband is not good to her,
Well, even if one day you are busy with your own little family and have no time to take care of her, she can still endure the pain and cut her flesh, scrape her bones and heal her wounds, start over, and choose the life she wants..."
"She lives in this world not because of whose sister she is or whose wife she is, but because she is Zhu Shujing."
"As long as the words 'Zhu Shujing' are mentioned, she is an indestructible mountain that no one can knock down."
…
Zhu San looked shocked.
He had no idea that the life his mother planned for Zhu Bamei would actually be like that?!
"But... Bamei is a girl, mother. If you want Bamei to become that kind of person, do you know how much price she has to pay?"
"She can obviously live an easier life. Like the third sister and the fourth sister, she is loved by others at home and pampered by her husband after she gets married..."
"What's wrong with living like this?"
Zhu San is also a person who likes to make long-term rules. Otherwise, when Xu Yujin had the idea to marry Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei to Pushou City, he would not have acquiesced to this matter.
He acquiesced because he knew that once Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei successfully broke into Pushou City, it would definitely be a good thing for the Zhu family, and it would also be a great help to him.
It was only at this time that he realized that the reason why his mother was so generous in letting Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei, and even the three girls from the Lu family stay in the Zhu family was probably already planning this matter...
He expressed his admiration in his heart and felt that his mother was far-sighted and someone he could learn from.
Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei can marry so well. Zhu San believes that in the near future, as the Zhu family's fortunes rise, Zhu Bamei will be able to marry even better.
But now, Ye Yuran told him that Zhu Bamei had another life.
Ye Yuran: "What good is it to place your life's honor and disgrace on others? If it were really that good, I should have accepted my fate when your father couldn't support the family, and you wouldn't be like this..."
Ye Yuran directly exposed this cruel fact. She used her own destiny to tell Zhu San that if she really trusted others with her life's honor and shame and hid behind Old Man Zhu all her life, their brothers would have died of hunger long ago.
Why does she want to support them as a woman at the risk of being disgraced by the world and being called an "old godly woman"?
Isn’t it because you want them to live a better life?
She was devoted to planning and foresight, and she did things that many women would not dare to do.
Dare he say that all the things she did were wrong?
Zhu Sandun was there, unable to refute.
Because he knew that his mother was right. If it hadn't been for his mother who pressured his father to get ahead, reformed new farming methods, and faced huge pressure, she sent Zhu Qi to study, and even chose the family home.
The labor force, that is, he goes to accompany him to study, then...
Then, it is impossible to have the Zhu family now.
Now when people in the village mention their family, who doesn't say that Old Man Zhu is lucky and has a good wife?
If old man Zhu hadn't married his mother, how could the Zhu family be today?
"I once placed my honor and disgrace on others, so when I was sold by my family to work as a maid in a wealthy family, I didn't complain at all. I worked hard to achieve wealth."
"To put it shamelessly, I even dare to climb into the young master's bed."
In order to make her words appear true, Ye Yuran shamelessly exposed her own shortcomings. She said expressionlessly, "But what if it crawls? I thought I could make the young master's child crawl out of my belly.
Change my child's destiny and make him a master..."
"But what's the result?"
"As soon as the new lady came in, I was kicked out."
"I married your father, and I placed all my honor and disgrace on him, hoping that he would work hard, support the family, and find a future for you."
"But what's the result?"
"How hungry are you all after eating one meal? Even the sixth child was so angry that I kicked him out of the house..."
"I was forced to be like that, who says I'm better?"
"No!"
"No one said anything good about me. I even became an 'old godly woman' who was hated and reviled by others."
"Do you really think I am willing to bear such a reputation? Isn't it forced? At that time, your father could raise his head. He raised his head, but our family was crushed to death. Who could see our family?
People don’t dislike it?”
"Later, I had no choice but to bite the bullet and do it myself."
…
"Then look at it now, when I have the whole family's livelihood in my hands and make everyone listen to the orders of an old woman like me," Ye Yuran stared at him closely and asked, "What has become of the Zhu family?"
Already?"
Zhu San couldn't help but take a step back, feeling like he was back to the time when he couldn't read a single Chinese character and all the children in the family were forced by his mother to learn how to read.
Ye Yuran: "At this time, do you still want to tell me that I will let your eighth sister go the same way I did and suffer again?"
"Mom, the situation is different now..."
"What's the difference? Can you guarantee that the person your eighth sister marries in the future will treat her well for the rest of her life? Can he never take concubines, stay in the same house, keep himself clean, and make your eighth sister happy for the rest of his life?" Ye Yu
Ran said, "It's just you, can you guarantee that you can make Xu Yujin happy for a lifetime?"
Zhu San: "..."
Want to cry.
His mother is so fierce.
Chapter completed!