This is the key point. If Zhu Bamei really likes Mr. Li, how far can she "sacrifice" for her?

As soon as Ye Yuran asked, Zhu Bamei turned off the engine.

She said: "I don't think I can do that."

"Yes, I admit, I am moved, but I don't want to live in that kind of rules and regulations all my life."

"I like to do business and I like to show off. If I can't do it because I marry him, I will definitely not be happy."

"I can tolerate being unhappy for a while, but after a day or two, I don't know if I won't be able to bear it anymore and vent all my grievances on him."

…

Ye Yuran listened quietly.

In fact, after hearing this, she almost knew Zhu Bamei's "choice".

How could a girl who was raised by herself not know this?

She could do everything from setting up a female household to recruiting a new wife, but what else couldn't Zhu Bamei do?

If she could really find a man to marry casually and endure the cowardice all her life, she wouldn't be picky and picky until now.

In the final analysis, Zhu Bamei still doesn't "love" deeply enough.

If she really wanted to give her a chance to develop a relationship with Mr. Li, love her to death and do anything for him, then these wouldn't be a problem.

The fact that Zhu Bamei was able to pick out so many issues and analyze them soberly was enough to prove that Young Master Li had indeed moved her heart, but not so much that she had to "sacrifice" him.

"So sometimes I think, it would be great if Young Master Li could reconcile with Young Master Rong Qi. If Young Master Rong Qi also had those qualities of his, it would be perfect." Zhu Bamei said with some regret, "Rong Qi

The young master is good at everything, but he seems out of place at first glance, and he is not the choice in other people's minds."

If it is said that the seventh young master Rong is not good-looking, that is not the case.

If Rong You can be chosen as a slave and is served by his master, he must have a decent face.

Otherwise, it would be too ugly. Who could stand standing in front of the master every day?

It's just that Mr. Li is a serious scholar, so his elegant and timeless demeanor has naturally formed, and he has the appearance of an elegant and noble prince.

But the Seventh Young Master is different. His ancestors were born as "Royal Servants". After several generations of hard work, the family background is still not as good as those of these "old-established families (it may also be to keep a low profile and not attract attention)". The Young Master who was raised

It's not that "glamorous" anymore.

The Rong family gives people the impression that they are "honest and honest" and they are people who do practical things.

Young Master Rong Qi is a bit more out of the ordinary, looking spoiled and a bit naive. He seems to be born into a rich family, but he is not so rich as to be rimmed with gold.

What Zhu Bamei wants is that Mr. Li’s magnanimity accommodates the ambition of the seventh Mr. Li, and that would be perfect.

Ye Yuran looked like "I understand".

Which young person has never had such a sweet dream?

There are all kinds of beauties, each with his or her own merits. For a moment, I was dazzled by the choice and wished I could all fall under the pomegranate skirt.

If not, it would be good to combine them into one person.

"Marriage is about living a good life. What kind of husband you like should be gradually cultivated. Just like if he likes wealth and wealth in the world, you will also dress up to please him. This is the interest between husband and wife. As for the interest between husband and wife.

..." Ye Yuran paused and continued, "The him in your mind, are you sure you are seeing the real him? He doesn't need to eat, drink, poop, fart or pick his teeth, or be unkempt.

, showing the most miserable side? He is not a god who drinks wind and dew. He is a mortal who must have three meals a day and three emergencies in a mortal fetus..."

To put it bluntly, it is to let Zhu Bamei clearly distinguish what is a dream and what is reality.

Even if Mr. Li fits Zhu Bamei's fantasy, won't he eat whole grains and defecate in the latrine?

When we woke up in the morning, everyone had eye irritation, but what Zhu Bamei saw was Mr. Li who had tidied up.

If she really likes that look, then she can make her future husband look like that for her eyesight.

As a couple, only by fulfilling each other's hobbies can they last long.

Zhu Bamei blushed a little after being "educated".

No way, some of Ye Yuran's topics were too naked, such as the interest between husband and wife, she was still a young girl who was not engaged.

But what Ye Yuran said made her couldn't help but be curious - is that really what a husband and wife are like?

Ye Yuran directly skinned several of his sons, Zhu Da, Zhu Er, Zhu Si, and Zhu Wu. Forget it. In the past, the family was poor and they had no chance to take care of themselves, but wasn't it obvious that Zhu San and Zhu Qi were doing it?

If Zhu San hadn't behaved like a dog in front of Xu Yujin, how could he have married such a dignified young lady?

If Zhu Qi didn't look good and manage himself well, how could he fall in Princess Yaoyue's eyes?

"The word "love" must be based on the face at the beginning. If you don't even have a face, you probably don't want to take a second look."

"As for what's left after this glance, it depends on everyone's fate."

…

Ye Yuran took a sip of tea and said that Mr. Rong Qi's appearance was not bad, but he was not Zhu Bamei's ideal type.

But, does he have a chance to become Zhu Bamei's ideal type?

"Since you can't make those 'sacrifice' for Mr. Li, there's nothing to say. You don't even want to live that kind of life yourself. No matter how much you say, it's useless. No matter how good Mr. Li is, can you endure it for the rest of your life?"

"No." Zhu Bamei was very honest.

In order for Zhu Bamei to make a decisive decision, Ye Yuran also came up with a unique trick - to conduct different tests on the two men respectively.

The test for Mr. Li is to see if he can "step back" and win for Zhu Bamei the life she wants.

The test for Young Master Rong Qi is to see if he can make himself look like Zhu Bamei likes and make some concessions and sacrifices.

In the end, Ye Yuran still looked serious: "I'm not asking you to choose between them, but testing whether they can give you the life you want. No matter who it is, as long as he fails the test, then we

I won’t choose.”

"Although I really don't want you to take that path, if you really have no choice, I can only support you in choosing that path."

The "way" Ye Yuran mentioned was to let Zhu Bamei establish a female household.

To establish a female household, one has to give birth and find a husband. I don’t know what kind of husband she can attract.

Whether it's true or false, Zhu Bamei's chances of finding a good husband will probably be even less.

Zhu Bamei was startled and her eyes turned red.

She thought she had to choose between them, but...

Is it still her mother who quit?

She knew Ye Yuran's ambivalence and hoped that she could live a "normal married life", like all the girls in the world, choose a husband, have children, and live an ordinary and happy life.

But he was also afraid that she would not be able to marry a man and her wishes would not be fulfilled, so he thought of letting her set up a female household.

But it's easy for female households to say that, but they have to face many difficulties.

When she was a daughter, she was protected by Ye Yuran and her brothers, and she could do everything smoothly. Even if she went out of her way, she was still a girl. Once she established a female household, she would become a vulnerable group that was "easily bullied" in the eyes of others.

Legally, a female householder is equal to a man, but in the eyes of the world, she is still a "weak woman".
Chapter completed!