Chapter 802 Do you understand self-rescue?
While having dinner and the whole family was there, Ye Yuran taught everyone a lesson.
Tell them that some things should not only be judged by how much money is spent and how much money is recovered, but also what it will become in the future.
She asked them: "What did people say about me in the past?"
Zhu Da, Zhu Er, Zhu San, Zhu Si, Zhu Wu and others did not dare to speak: "What did you say before? I used to call her an old godly woman."
"I know even if you don't tell me, old godly woman, they all say that I am a tigress and a fierce woman. Your father has been suffering from me for so many years. Even your brothers and sisters have been sympathized with me." Ye Yu
Ran calmed down and said, "But if you look at it now, how can they say that? Yes, I have a bad reputation, but will everyone still speak ill of me now?"
Ye Yuran asked them if they had noticed the difference. It was also "fierce". In the past, everyone was afraid of her, but at the same time they also hated her; but what about now?
"They are afraid of me, but it's not all 'disgust'. There's also 'awe', 'authority' and 'prestige' hidden in it. In other words, whatever I do now, their first reaction is not that I've done something bad.
Instead, I start to think - why did I do that? Is it profitable? Then can I drink the soup?"
Ye Yuran asked them if they would think the same way when she told them what to do.
Almost no one in the room denied it.
Even Old Man Zhu couldn't "refute".
Before, the old woman wanted to make a bet with him about farming, and he thought she was wasting land and food. But the "compost pit" and "nursery nursery" she built suddenly made him realize that this old woman was messing around. She was clearly
I have a clue in my heart.
Although she has never farmed, are all the things she learned from books really unusable? If not, where did the compost pit come from? Where did the nursery come from?
"Why is your first reaction no longer 'doubting' me? Because you believe in me and you think I have this ability." Ye Yuran continued, "Can these things be bought with money?"
The sons and daughters-in-law of the Zhu family shook their heads.
"Tomorrow is New Year's Eve. Go to bed early tonight and think about what I just said. Maybe it will be of some use to you." Seeing that it was getting late, Ye Yuran stopped talking nonsense and asked his daughters-in-law to hurry up.
After cleaning up the main room, everyone went back to their houses to rest.
And she herself needs to think carefully about next year.
"Mom," at this moment, Zhu Bamei, who thought she had fallen asleep long ago, suddenly spoke up. She turned over and faced Ye Yuran and said, "Tomorrow is the Chinese New Year. What do you think about Third Sister and Fourth Sister?
Will I be bullied if I go back?"
Ye Yuran was stunned for a moment: "What's wrong? Did they say anything?"
"No, they really want to go back. After all, their parents are there. But I'm a little worried, mother, you don't know what life they lived at home before."
It turned out that Zhu Bamei had already played with Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei when they stayed at Zhu's house for so many months.
Although at first, she felt that the two sisters were here to compete with her for favor, they lived in the shabbiest house, did the most work, made the least money, and often took care of her.
After a long time, Zhu Bamei felt: Actually it seems good to have a sister.
Although there are girls about her age in the village, most people are not willing to take her to play because she and her mother have a bad reputation.
So until now, she doesn't even have a handkerchief to whom she can express her true feelings.
"You never said that before." Ye Yuran was a little surprised when he heard Zhu Bamei say this.
Because in the memory of the original owner, Zhu Bamei was not only very favored at home, she also did well outside, and no one dared to bully her daughter.
"What should I say? My mother didn't like me playing with them before. She always said that they were stupid and not from the same group as me..." Zhu Bamei's tone was a little more lonely.
Ye Yuran hugged her.
The shortcomings of childhood cannot be made up for with a few words. After she traveled to this world, she was busy solving the family's livelihood all day long. She only saw Zhu Bamei's "shortcomings", but did not notice that she would become
She's like this because she has some flaws in her heart.
"Mom," Zhu Bamei's voice was muffled, "I don't blame you, I'm just a little worried about the third sister and the fourth sister. They are the best friends I have made so far. I'm afraid they will be bullied when they go back."
Hearing her repeatedly emphasizing this matter, Ye Yuran was a little helpless. She could only hold her daughter's face and said seriously: "Bamei, I know your worries, but there are some things that they need to face on their own.
Mother can only help them for a while, but cannot help them for a lifetime. They have a father and a mother. I am just their second sister’s mother-in-law, and it’s already a big deal for me to get involved. Which mother-in-law can take care of her daughter-in-law’s natal family?
Something?"
Zhu Bamei said nothing.
"You are still young and don't understand, but you can assume that if you grow up and get married, and your husband's family keeps meddling in the Zhu family's affairs, do you think your mother will be happy? What do you think about your uncle and aunt in the next room?
Will you be happy? Will your brothers and sisters be happy? A married daughter throws away the water. Once you marry someone, you will be under the control of your husband's family. You can take care of your mother's family's affairs as a daughter, but what qualifications does your husband's family have?
Do you care about your mother’s family’s affairs?”
Indeed, Ye Yuran felt that her hand was a little too broad.
Logically speaking, as daughters, Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei should return to their parents' home before the Chinese New Year.
But there was no one sent to pick her up, and it was impossible for her to let the two and a half-year-old girls go on their own. She could only ask someone to bring a message - if they didn't come to pick her up, the two girls would have to wait for the Lin family to return to their parents' home.
Went back together.
According to the tradition here, a married woman cannot return to her natal family on the first day of the Lunar New Year, otherwise she will make her natal family poor. In other words, Ms. Lin cannot return to her natal family until at least the second day of the Lunar New Year.
And she was marrying Zhu Wu. There were eldest sister-in-law, second sister-in-law, and fourth sister-in-law in front of her. She had to wait three days no matter what, and it was her turn on the sixth day of the lunar month.
Two unmarried girls, the one did not go home for the Chinese New Year, and ended up waiting until the sixth day of the Lunar New Year to follow her married sister back to her parents' home. What is this?
It is a trivial matter for others to call Ye Yuran an "old godly woman", but it may affect the reputation of Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei, and even affect their marriage talks.
Ye Yuran had reason to suspect: Could this be a "bad idea" thought up by that old lady Lin?
Anyway, she didn't like this house. She wanted to sell Lin Sanmei, but Lin Simei failed. This time she couldn't sell the two sisters? As long as the two of them couldn't get married, wouldn't they end up in the hands of Mrs. Lin?
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Ye Yuran was able to take care of it at first because of the "matter" of the fourth daughter-in-law, but now that everything has passed and it is the Chinese New Year, she really has no reason to interfere - the Chinese New Year is almost here, you can't help but let your daughter
Aren't you going back?
But Ye Yuran didn't know what he would encounter when he went back.
Even though she knew that the road ahead was unpredictable, Ye Yuran had no choice. New Year's Eve was Lin Sanmei's and Lin Simei's last chance. No matter whether anyone came to pick her up on this day, she had to find a way first.
Get the two sisters back, otherwise this "reputation" will really be ruined.
Chapter completed!