Chapter 1102 Life is Prosperous
"I knew that's what mother meant." Zhu Wu said with a smile, "No, I will do whatever mother said just now, and I will be very cooperative. I also said hello to the fourth brother and the others and asked them to cooperate... Mother, we
Your acting skills are pretty good, right?”
"Mr. Lin, are there people watching?" Ye Yuran had a hint of disgust on the corner of his mouth and did not answer her words.
Zhu Wu nodded: "I asked my eighth sister to help me keep an eye on it."
"Yeah!" Ye Yuran nodded, "Keep an eye on Ms. Lin's place. If anything goes wrong, help her smooth things over. After all, she is also your wife, and you two will have to deal with it in the future.
Take your time. You can still make changes while you are still young, and everything that needs to be adjusted has been adjusted. In the future, when the child is born, you will not have to worry about it again, and it will be boring by then..."
"I know what mother means. Don't worry, I will definitely pay attention to my methods in the future, communicate more and use less violence." Zhu Wu did not expect that he would only attack Lin a few times before his mother would kill him.
Saw it.
On the surface, his mother didn't say anything, but in private, she still reminded him a few words - she is your wife now, and will be the mother of your children in the future. Do you think your children in the future will be happy to see their mother being treated by you?
Did dad hit him?
It directly asked him to imagine the scene of Old Man Zhu doing something to her.
Zhu Wu: "..."
He couldn't imagine it because his father didn't have the courage at all.
Don't say there is no, even if there is, if his father dares to take action, they, as sons, can secretly "take care of" his father.
Zhu Da and Zhu Er may be afraid of Old Zhu's "father" status, worry about filial piety, and be more polite to Old Zhu, but after he and his fourth brother knew that Old Zhu had "external attachments", they immediately lost the ability to be "respectful"
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There are so many people in the family, and all these years have been supported by his mother. After finally getting better, his father has an "external heart". Isn't this "ungrateful"?
Such a father looks like a coward and is looking for trouble, so don’t bother him!
"Actually, Ms. Lin's problem is not that she likes to interfere in her family's affairs, but that she is too dependent on others. I will grow old in the future, and you will have to be busy outside. She can interfere if she wants. As long as she has the ability, she can take care of the family.
It's no problem if someone outside can take it all down and help you sort it out." Ye Yuran expressed her opinion, "As long as she can revitalize the whole family, that's what she is capable of, but she doesn't.
If you have this ability and still want to interfere, that’s wrong.”
She directly gave a few examples, one was the story of a good old man.
It is said that there once was a man who worked as a policeman in a government office. With a stable salary, it stands to reason that he married a wife and had children, and his life should be very good, right?
However, as soon as he got his salary, he lent it to others without covering it up.
He is indeed very enthusiastic. Whenever someone calls out to his neighbors, he will immediately run to help others. Sometimes he is so busy that he cannot even take care of his home.
"Do you think such a person is a good person? Should he be blessed?"
Zhu Wu pinched his nose. He didn't think his mother gave this example to persuade him to do more good deeds. He said: "Although I don't know what is wrong, but my mother actually said it, there must be something wrong somewhere."
"Of course there is a problem." Ye Yuran said with a cold face, "He is enthusiastic and has done good things. He gave his salary and time to outsiders, but what about his family members?"
She asked Zhu Wu to imagine that when his roof leaked and he needed someone to fix it, he was outside helping others; when he ran out of water at home and had to carry a load of water, he was still outside helping others.
Help; when his wife found that there was no rice in the rice vat and wanted to take money to buy rice, he lent all the money to others; when the child was sick and others were not around, there was no money...
"You are obviously married to a man who works as a police officer, but you live as if you don't have a man. How is this life different from that of a widow in the village? No, I'm afraid it's even worse. At least no one in the widow's family will take the things from the house and supplement them.
Outsiders; but this woman who is married to a policeman has to guard against thieves, guarding against the policeman taking the things in the house and giving them to outsiders, how can she still live like this?"
Zhu Wu: "...Mom, is this a bit too exaggerated?"
The expression on his face was a bit unbearable.
Is that what normal people can do?
Others are just grabbing things from the house, but in the example his mother gave, the policeman took all the things from the house to outsiders. This is "only going out but not getting in". It's strange that he can live a good life.
"It's a bit exaggerated, but don't you think Mrs. Lin has this tendency? She can figure out other things clearly, but when it comes to her parents' affairs, she wants to help without saying a word or considering her own situation.
A handful...all she can think about is that they are her natal family and relatives, others are not as good as her, and they need help. If things continue like this, won't you become the woman who married the policeman in the story?"
"Impossible." Zhu Wu immediately denied, "Mom, I'm not stupid. If Ms. Lin really dares to keep moving things in the house to outsiders, I will definitely take care of her."
"The human heart is full of flesh. When everyone is in trouble, it is human nature to help each other, but helping others depends on your own ability. Only when you are capable will you help others beyond your ability, but you must
It's not okay to sacrifice yourself or even your family's interests." Ye Yuran said, "You must have a scale in your heart. Not only must you have it, but you must also let Mrs. Lin have it and teach her to distinguish between inside and outside."
Ye Yuran was very determined about this matter and would not intervene directly, leaving Lin to "fiddle with it" on his own.
With her watching behind the scenes and Zhu Wu watching from the side, Lin must not only realize the difficulty of "helping" others, but also solve the matter as perfectly as possible.
To be honest, Ye Yuran also sympathized with Lu Daya, Lu Erya, and Lu Sanya, but she had to be the first "level".
Not only to level the bowl of water, but also to make Mrs. Lin and Mrs. Lin’s family realize that if the Zhu family is willing to help you, that’s out of love; if they don’t want to help you, that’s their duty.
What's more, they need to realize what exactly Lin "sacrificed" for them.
There are not so many things that are taken for granted in this world. Only the harder things are to get, the more people will cherish them.
The mother and son discussed it in the room for a long time.
Li ran in and out and delivered water twice before finally finishing the conversation.
She was sleeping particularly well today. Looking at Ye Yuran's expressionless face, she was very worried that the fire would "burn" her.
As a "popular person" in front of my mother-in-law, I also have to bear huge "risks".
As soon as she went out, Madam Liu came over and said, "How are you? What's your expression like now?"
Ms. Li shook her head: "I think this time, the fifth brother and sister are really in trouble. She has really made my mother anxious. The two times I went in, my mother's expression was not very good and she didn't want to see anyone at all."
Chapter completed!