I am a psychological counselor. An ordinary kind of person. I use my meager salary to support myself and do psychological evaluation work for the local procuratorate. I would like to thank the public for giving me money. I am not a counselor like what is rumored on the Internet.

It's so glamorous. If you rely on a team, you will lose your original intention. If you work alone, you will hinder your growth. It's very contradictory, isn't it?

Therefore, all I can do is try my best to treat every visitor who comes by fate seriously. Although, I don’t know whether I met them or they came to me.

More than ten years of consulting career have made me an uncle, with more calmness and calmness, and less high-spiritedness. It is extremely difficult to escape from the scourge of the world. But my original intention is eternal. Helping others and helping themselves is of great importance.

For me, it is not an empty word, but a belief.

I don’t know the reason. Maybe it’s due to my long-term persistence in meditation, or the cultivation of my ability to empathize. I awakened my ability and fell into a dream. I found that I could enter other people’s dreams and use dreams as a medium.

, invading other people’s spiritual world, thus creating

In the world, you can find out the past events that even they have forgotten; the source of the trauma; the culprit that caused the owner endless pain. You can also understand the other person's true self to prove whether your projection is consistent with the truth.

Consistent. I can do better! Oh, that's another story.

What surprised me was that I accepted this fact very calmly. If it were applied to myself in the past, I would have been panicked but unstoppable all day long. This is growth.

Yue'er (pseudonym) is a slightly pretty lady, with slightly dark skin that comes from the marks of the sun. A few freckles are the result of lack of maintenance, and a few strands of messy hair indicate an uneasy life.

The reason why she came to me was because of the low fees. Perhaps, if it weren't for the pain, she wouldn't be willing to "waste" money on a psychological counselor.

Her main complaint was that she was suffering from her relationship with her husband and was anxious about whether to divorce.

As a foreigner who married locally and was once envied by most of her sisters, she gave up a lot, invested a lot, and paid a lot. And everyone always has different pursuits. She too, she longed to be able to use 35

She travels in a BMW worth 10,000 yuan. She also longs for her husband to take her with her and go on casual trips from time to time. However, her husband cannot satisfy her desire.

Her husband was a homebody and lacked the ability to make money. He had to receive support from his parents-in-law from time to time. However, the parents-in-law, who were not physically strong, could not shoulder the heavy responsibility of taking care of the children. Therefore, the husband took over the responsibility of taking care of the children.

Task. As for Yue'er, she has a lively mind and started a street stall economy to generate income.

Yes, but it is bitter and tiring. Due to her husband’s homebody nature, it is normal for him to go out without taking the children. This also leads to the fact that the woman is the master of the outside world and the man is the master of the house. The parents-in-law are often gesticulating, which is especially the case for Yue’er.

Unacceptable. As a result, resentment began to accumulate and ferment, becoming a fatal "poison" that pollutes the soul.

"I thought he would make some progress after having children."

"I feel like I'm their free nanny."

"Other people's children are raised by their grandparents."

"I'm like a porter." Yue'er burst into tears, and I felt pity for her. So, I felt pity for her, and silently handed her a tissue to wipe away the traces of sadness.

"What I feel confused now is whether I will be laughed at if I get divorced. Then, my mother will think that I am too pretentious. After all, this man has not committed domestic violence or cheating." Coming from a single-parent family with many children.

Yue'er's face was filled with sadness.

The purpose of the first consultation was to collect information, listen, empathize, and initially establish a relationship. Therefore, I faithfully fulfilled my identity as an emotional trash can, expressed my understanding of her situation, and allowed her to vent her stress by expressing her sadness. Finally, I

, the initial suggestion is to let Yue'er and her husband stay apart for a period of time so that both parties can think calmly. Well, this operation is very routine.

Psychological counseling cannot be accomplished overnight. It is a long-term process.

Late at night, the hustle and bustle of the city gradually turns to silence, as if the hustle and bustle during the day has exhausted all the energy. On the street, there are occasional roars of speed racing parties, telling the unwillingness to end the hustle and bustle.

I leaned against the edge of the bed, twisted my body, and adjusted myself to a comfortable position, preparing to fall asleep.

"Mirror." I called softly.

The virtual figure outlined her appearance in front of me. I looked at the figure kneeling in front of me, holding the same virtual mirror, and closed my eyes.

Staring at the mirror that appeared in my consciousness, my consciousness, which can make the dreamer forget the appearance, burst into the mirror, and disappeared with the feeling of pulling. My consciousness opened my eyes. Yes, behind the mirror, there was

It is Ms. Yue'er's dream, and successfully entering the dream means that Ms. Yue'er is immersed in sleep. There are no people who don't dream, only people who forget their dreams.

[Author's digression]: Part of the content of this book is adapted from dreams provided by volunteers in real life.

The characters in the article are all pseudonyms, and any similarity is purely coincidental.

As for some of the cases in this article, art comes from life.
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