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Tears are poison, so it's normal for a man to detox...

"Infertility?!" I almost fell out of breath with my phone. Xiao Tete (pseudonym) Xiao Tete (the head of a public welfare organization, a bridge between a psychological counselor and a public security, procuratorial and judicial institutions). Are you playing with me? Infertility, shouldn't you go to the hospital?

"Have you been?" I was a little embarrassed that I was slapped in the face immediately. The expression of laughter and crying on my face also turned into seriousness and caution.

"That is, biological factors have been ruled out?" I confirmed again.

"Yes, and the hospital's psychiatric department has also done a screening. The hospital's psychological counselor who was in the hospital couldn't find anything. So, I have to bother the teacher." Xiao Tete's tone was always a little shy, I like it~ Wait! This is not the point!

"Okay, then when is the time for the other party to be more convenient?" I know why Xiao Tete found me, except for my excellent level of consultation. Compared to a private grassroots psychological counselor like me, a hospital-based psychological counselor who is mainly academic, does not have enough patience and time. In most cases, it is just to do scales. Is there any problem? Get the medicine well.

To be honest, they have enough knowledge accumulation and precipitation, but they are limited by the system and business volume. The flow of patients is too terrible.

"Tomorrow is 2:30 pm, I wonder if the teacher is convenient?" Xiao Tete, Xiao Tete.

"Yes." I recalled tomorrow's itinerary and agreed.

At 2:30 p.m. the next afternoon, Ms. Han, introduced by Xiao Tete, Ms. Han, accompanied by her husband, appeared in the consultation room on time. I accidentally glanced at my phone. It was really very punctual.

"Mr. Chen, please wait outside the consultation." I politely said to Ms. Han's husband. Psychological consultation is mostly conducted in one-to-one form. Because it is difficult for close people to pour out the secrets hidden in your heart. If you cannot open your heart, then the consultation will lose its meaning.

"Okay, Xiao Han, I'm outside." Mr. Chen agreed, patted his wife's hand, and signaled her to rest assured. Then, he nodded politely to me, got up and left the consultation room.

Consultation, officially begin.

However, I am not just straightforward because it involves childbirth matters. If the words are too straightforward, it will cause women to be shy and impedance. Although I am a psychological counselor, I am also a man.

I started by watching TV series and slowly provoked the unique gossip spirit of women. Ms. Han, who was a little uncomfortable at first, slowly came to my heart. I deliberately shared some news about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I also asked Ms. Han to share some places for producing delicious food and some good travel options for spending time on holidays. In this way, I judged whether Ms. Han was financially struggling.

Anyway, I chose to save the country in a curve.

Infertility caused by the heart element is roughly the following possibilities.

1. Out of financial constraints.

2. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law or the relationship between husband and wife.

3. I had experience of being sexually accustomed to the early years.

4. If it is a second marriage, there are traumatic experiences related to the relationship between the two genders in the first marriage.

5. Early traumatic experiences from the original family.

6. Habitual miscarriage caused by lack of sexual knowledge and arbitrary behavior.

Wait and wait.

However, Ms. Han’s situation was a bit like a hedgehog full of thorns, which made me unable to start.

The measurement results of each list show that everything is normal.

The relationship between husband and wife is very harmonious. It can be reflected by the details of asking Ms. Han’s husband to consult the details of waiting outdoors. Ms. Han is full of attachment and trust for her husband. Mr. Chen is considerate and caring for Ms. Han.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious. It is different from the chaos of other families. Ms. Han’s mother-in-law has a love for Ms. Han that is no less than that of her daughter. The latter has respect and filial piety for the former. Is there a harmonious family?

And the reason for today's consultation was that Ms. Han was responsible for it. Because she wanted to give birth to the crystallization of love for her husband.

Sister-in-law relationship? Mr. Chen, who does not exist, is the only child.

Economic conditions? Very rich income. Judging from Ms. Han’s ingenious evaluation of food and her sharp evaluation of popular tourist attractions, I’m short of money? Do I know it?

If there is a breakthrough point, it is that Ms. Han is the second marriage. Mr. Chen is the first marriage. Ms. Han has experienced domestic violence in her first marriage. Do you think you can start from this and dig deep and analyze to find the root cause? Wrong! Because there is still a lot of it! (It's so annoying!)

However! Mr. Chen's family is extremely inclusive and open-minded! And because Ms. Han has experienced being hurt, the Chen family really cares about Ms. Han like a pearl! It is not artificial, nor is it false! Harmonious and natural!

So what about Ms. Han’s original family? It’s also great, with a mother with a stable mood and a father who is willing to play with her children. A good economic income Peppa’s family’s sense of déjà vu, but without George.

What about Ms. Han herself? This is a quiet and gentle woman. It can be summarized in two words, with a gentle face, and a good manners. She calmly disgusted herself with the ex-husband who hurt her. However, the other party cannot pester herself. Because the other party is no longer alive. After divorced Ms. Han, Ms. Han's ex-husband died of cancer.

She also admitted that she had had miscarriage, she had not concealed it, nor had she had passionate emotions. She showed regret, but within the normal range. What's more important is that I did not see the traces of psychological trauma from her words and deeds. Well, it was a headache.

After the consultation, I informed Ms. Han about the long-term nature of psychological counseling, and on the premise of getting the other party's approval, I made an appointment with her for the next consultation.

"Then teacher, let's go first." The polite couple.

"Well, goodbye." I nodded. Actually, I have already thought of a countermeasure. Although long-term psychological counseling may dig out the roots, it is only possible! But I am not going to waste other people and myself precious time. Do you have to understand who I am? I am a unique man. So, I decided to fall asleep and use this as a medium to enter Ms. Han's inner world and dig out the roots.

That day, night.

"Mirror~" After acting cute, I stood up from the soft and buzzing knee pillow. Looking at the girl with a cute smile, I am grateful for her excessive tolerance for me, and also ashamed of my childishness and invisibility. After relaxing, it is time to do serious things.
Chapter completed!
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