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In the face of the woman you like, you must hide your advanced stage of secondary illness...

"Tatta.tsk!" The sound of nails hitting the tabletop was messy and disorderly. The weak and strong force reflected the fluctuations in the mood of the person who hit the attack. The sound of tsk blurting out is the most powerful factual evidence. The sunshine sprinkled on the floor seemed to heat up and help the flames in my heart. So, I chose to get up, pace, and loosen the collar.

The reason why I was a little anxious in the consultation room was due to the lateness of the visitor and my strong desire to control. A counselor is a profession, but it has nothing to do with gods. So is there a psychological counselor with complete mental health? The answer is naturally no. The biggest key to being a qualified counselor is whether to accept yourself and whether you can clearly understand your strengths and weaknesses. Therefore, there is a concept of whether the two parties in the consultation match.

After a long time, the knock on the door sounded, eased my emotions. I began to quickly switch personality masks through my heart anchor, put on my professional mask and psychological counselor mask.

""I looked at the strong man who blocked the door calmly, but I was still extremely shocked. O'Neal's sense of déjà. Yes, the Chinese version is slightly insufficient, but it can also be described in three words.

"Sorry, teacher, I felt a little sleepy in the afternoon and fell asleep accidentally. I was going to adjust the alarm clock, but, um, this, I don't know why, just." Mr. Ao (pseudonym) was hunched with a humble tone. The tall man forced himself to "short" a few heads. While I expressed my understanding, I secretly estimated the height difference between myself and the other party, and burst into tears in my heart. But I never expected that in reality, there were people who were really crying. Of course, that person was not me.

In the imagination of a considerable number of people, they always feel that a strong man is so funny and stupid. It seems that the huge contrast forms a very funny picture. However, I can tell you with certainty that you are not there. If you still feel laughing when you are there, then you need to go to a local formal consulting agency for an inquiry, which is the heartfelt word.

"I, I, I, I don't, know, what to say, me." Mr. Ao, who hadn't said anything, covered his face and cried silently. Yes, I'm not wrong. He covered his face tightly, with blue veins on his back, and sobbing in a low voice. He whispered to a near silent. If it weren't for the body that twitched from time to time, and the water traces winding down his wrist, you would hardly think he was crying.

The feeling of depression hit my face, making my chest feel a little heavy. At this moment, silent companionship is better than thousands of words. I rejected the idea of ​​handing out the tissue because it would interrupt his catharsis.

Carefree, collecting information, empathy, and establishing relationships are important tasks in the early stage of consultation.

However, what I didn't expect was that I did not collect enough information for Mr. Ao's first consultation, because Mr. Ao's emotional catharsis lasted a little long, and it took a long time to implement the entire consultation time.

I extended the time appropriately, but could not make the breakthrough too exaggerated. So, under the influence of reason, I kindly informed Mr. Ao about the end of the consultation.

Mr. Ao was in a hurry, but he carefully handled the traces of crying on his face. Mr. Ao apologized to me in fear and fear, and Mr. Ao looked at me with great care. However, my expression was as usual. Pity or enthusiasm, or the slightest negative emotions revealed would cause negative reinforcement to the other party.

"Me, can I come back in the future?" Weinuo's tone.

"Of course, it's OK." I nodded with a smile. I knew that the initial relationship was established and it was completed.

Mr. Ao became my consultant. The consultation room became a special place for him to cry. He always came late from time to time, and always sobbed in extreme depression during consultation without revealing any information. All this seems to have caused the consultation to be in trouble and become a joke. However, I don’t think so. For psychological counseling, everything that happens is meaningful and an important point worth discussing and analyzing in the future.

Besides, Mr. Ao must have a very high interpersonal sensitivity. He is tempting and observing because he is afraid of being hurt again. Therefore, I choose to be tolerant, accompany, and wait.

As the number of consultations increases.

Mr. Ao began to cry, although it was still almost inaudible, but at least some slight sound.

Mr. Ao began to cry out.

Mr. Ao began to cry.

Mr. Ao began to speak.

Mr. Ao began to provide me with my own information intermittently.

So, what I insist on is worth it.

Mr. Ao was born in a family that is not poor or wealthy. His parents were conscientious front-line employees in the factory. Life was a little tight, but he still lived a good life.

However, Mr. Ao's birth made the family tighter. Because of childbirth, the mother lost her job. Perhaps it was the heavy financial pressure, the generation gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the poor mood before and after childbirth, and the lack of enough companionship with her husband. Mr. Ao's mother was mentally broken and hysterical. The diagnosis given by the hospital was schizophrenia.

As a result, a mother with extremely unstable emotions and a father who cannot give her wife and children enough to maintain family expenses. Due to poor health and lack of spare capacity to support a small family, the grandparents who have many children and families have become all Mr. Ao's growth.

Objectively speaking, Mr. Ao's birth was indeed a turning point. But is this his fault? It is not. Is it the fault of society? It is not entirely true. It can only be said that this is a time of cao, the best era, and the most difficult era. The wealth distribution of the inverted pyramid structure throughout the entire world is the original sin.

Therefore, Mr. Ao's growth is destined to be difficult.

Dirty dress.

Mocking from children of the same age.

Bullying on campus.

Not high education.

The beating of society.

Boredom and numbness on the assembly line.

The best choice for venting people in the team and taking the blame.

Everything is most directly related to the despicable nature of bullying the weak and despicable nature in human nature.
Chapter completed!
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