Chapter 2353 see through the essence
The highest requirement?
Xue Ling laughed and said, "Your mother is not wrong. Under the influence of the concept of material and money first, it is actually very difficult and difficult for those young people who want to find a real love to live a marriage."
"My mother said the same." Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "Luoluo's academic performance is average, her unit is average, and her appearance is barely OK. She has a house and the car she offers is about to expire, so she has a house and a car. The material conditions are average, but she only requires one, and she must be the person she likes. There is only one condition, and she didn't expect it would be so difficult!"
Xue Ling smiled and said, "You are lucky than Luoluo and find your beloved earlier than her. In fact, the other half you found during your study period is probably the purest relationship. Instead, you have stepped out of society and entered the marriage market. It is becoming more and more difficult to find true love and get married."
"Yes!" Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "She used to be very well-behaved. When she was studying, there were boys chasing her, but she refused them all. She always felt that she had to study hard when she was studying, and that love and marriage could only be arranged in the back. Moreover, most people had no success in love during school. She saw it and was secretly afraid, so she didn't dare to talk about it."
Xue Ling was embarrassed to comment too much and underestimated: "Analysis of the specific situation. If Luo Luo wants to find a suitable one in the blind date market, then he has to follow the market rules."
"It's too difficult!" Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "The guys are slightly better, they have various requirements and are disgusted with Luo Luo's age, and are worried that they will not be able to take children in the future. Forty-year-olds, they want to find someone in their thirties, and they want to find someone in their twenties. Men all look for young people, and they look down on me like my sister."
Xue Ling chuckled: "To put it bluntly, who doesn't love young people? Have you ever heard of it - no matter which age a man, he only loves eighteen-year-old girls."
"Haha!" Wang Xiaoxiao nodded: "I've heard it! It's too realistic and cruel! Who has never been younger and who has not been eighteen years old, right? My sister is no longer anxious now, saying that if she can't find her, she will be single for the rest of her life. She would rather be insignificant than to get married for the sake of marriage."
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows: "Really? Do your parents support me?"
"Of course I don't support it!" Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "They said, let her look for it slowly, and sooner or later, I will find it. My sister said that many of her classmates and colleagues around her had to find a man with similar conditions to get married because they were at the age of marriage. Most of the people who got married because of their family trivialities eventually divorced. My sister was annoyed and felt that it would be better not to get married early in the morning than to end the divorce in the future."
Xue Ling thought for a while and said, "That won't be. Marriage is like a person knowing the temperature and heat of water. The key is still to depend on the individual."
"Maybe there are too many people who divorce now, which is too common among younger generations." Wang Xiaoxiao said: "There are different reasons. In addition, there are too many people who betray marriages now, which has made many people distrust their marriages and discouraged those who are not married."
"Yes." Xue Ling also agreed with this and said: "The main reason is that information communication is too convenient now and the information is open. When you throw it on the Internet, people all over the world can see it. Click on your phone to see it, and click on the web page to see it, thus forming an intuition - it seems that there are too many such examples. In fact, most people are just ordinary people, living a life of working and working, supporting their families, and not having too many bloody or weird lives."
Wang Xiaoxiao disagreed: "It must be more than before!"
"It should be." Xue Ling did not deny this point, "The new generation prefers egoism and advocates refined egoism. They pay more attention to themselves. Anyway, I live a good life, and it doesn't matter anything else. In the past, the older generation did not have any "Buddhism" or "lying flat" ideas. They all have a very responsible sense of responsibility, not only responsible for their own careers, but also for their own lives and families, but also hope to be a useful person to society and also for our society. Of course, I say it is highly likely that not everyone is like this. There are scumbags in any era, and there are scumbags at any time. This is determined by human nature."
"Yes, yes." Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "It seems like this is all. There are still a lot of strange spiritual chicken soup on the Internet now - as long as I live well, it doesn't matter if I ruin the world, I would rather let the world down than let the people in the world down. In short, the young people's ideas are getting more and more self-centered."
"Haha!" Xue Ling smiled and sighed: "It's ruined the world, where did the 'me' come from? The world is gone, how can I live a good life after the nest is destroyed? Well? There are billions of people in the world, and they can bear it one by one? Dozens of steps out of the door, how many people on the street know you? Who would be bored and 'betray you'? Haha! How can it be so funny!"
Wang Xiaoxiao pursed her lips and laughed.
Xue Ling patted her arm lightly and said warmly: "Just listen. Nowadays, those short videos, toxic chicken soup, and live broadcasts can do whatever they want to do for traffic, and they can use all kinds of gimmicks or blood to attract attention, and there is even no lower limit. Once there is a topic, various media follow the trend, each sticking to their own opinions and saying a way, just to get the first wave of traffic faster. After all, interests are still at the forefront."
"Oh..." Wang Xiaoxiao couldn't help but sigh: "It's so terrifying! I feel like everything is controlled by interests."
"It's all like this." Xue Ling smiled: "This is the truth at any time and anywhere, but it's just that you can see through it and see through the truth that you can't tell it."
Wang Xiaoxiao covered the stewing pot and said, "Thank you, mom, I'm done."
"Yeah." Xue Ling reminded softly: "When I returned to Xinyuan, remember to tell Xiao Li that she would stew you twice a week to warm your stomach fish glue. Will your stomach problems still occur?"
"It's rare." Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "I participated in training when I was very young and grew up eating in various canteens and stalls. Later, I arrived at the national team and the food improved, but I got used to eating cold and cold, and I unknowingly became a stomach problem. Fortunately, it's not serious, so it's okay not to eat too raw and cold. Over the years, you have been very cured by taking supplements for me to keep healthy and nourishing stomach from time to time."
"You have to continue to take care of it." Xue Ling reminded: "Stomach diseases mainly rely on care of themselves and self-discipline. You are still young, and your body is the capital of life, so you must not be careless."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled and said, "I understand, thank you mom."
At this time, Xue Ling's cell phone rang!
She took it out and glanced at it - it turned out to be Xiao Tong!
Wang Xiaoxiao picked up the stewing pot and said, "Mom, I'll just send it to the kitchen, you're busy with yours."
Chapter completed!