Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly: "It's Afang's bad."

He still knows his own sister very well. He has almost no requirements for himself, but he has very high requirements for the people around him.

Everything you do is a whim, sometimes wind and sometimes rain. As your pockets become more and more bulging, your temper becomes more and more frustrating, and it is becoming more and more disappointing.

"She needs a good environment and various books to influence the fox's tail, otherwise the fox's tail will be exposed."

Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "She has been out of school for so many years, and I don't know how long it took for her to get the book. It's not easy!"

Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a low voice: "I've said she has replied countless times, but she just didn't listen to it. She is a person who will not turn back completely unless she is in a state of burning her boat."

As the saying goes, it is easy to change the country and nature is hard to change.

Her bad shortcomings are deeply rooted. Unless the environment is really difficult, she will still know where the mistake is and where it needs to be changed.

Xue Ling shook her head: "Forget it, I have advised Aheng to try my best to take into account my aunt's feelings. He also paid tens of thousands of yuan from me, intending to secretly give it to my aunt and Uncle Zhilan for the New Year. He felt spiritually

There are some benefits to the trauma and proper financial comfort. In addition, I also gave him a trick to buy two elderly insurance for my aunt and Uncle Zhilan.”

"Insurance?" Cheng Tianyuan asked: "Old man's?"

"Yes." Xue Ling whispered: "The elderly have very few insurances. This type of insurance is mainly for the elderly who fall or get injured. I bought it for several of our parents, just the ID number.

.I asked him to show his filial piety to my aunt and Uncle Zhilan."

Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "It is not easy for Ah Heng to be sandwiched in the middle."

"There's no way." Xue Ling shrugged: "He loved his wife and married him. Fortunately, Uncle Zhilan and aunt have a good attitude and have always been very tolerant of younger generations."

Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "It's all Afang..."

"It's not that much because of her personality." Xue Ling comforted her in turn and said, "Maybe if the environment changes in the future, she may not necessarily change it."

Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Unless she is letting her go all the way, it will be completely miserable, otherwise it will be too difficult."

Xue Ling was eating vegetables and couldn't help but smile bitterly to explain Xiao Jiaxue's sorrow.

"Jusheng just left, Jiaxue came and headed straight to my office. Her eyes turned red with anger. Before I could speak, she wiped her tears and cried and told her husband that there were too many bad things..."

"Impossible?" Cheng Tianyuan said: "Didn't that foreigner fall in love with her?"

"Yes." Xue Ling explained: "But life is not love. When you are in love, it is better to have a relationship. But marriage is different from love! Marriage is a lot of troubles every day. Foreigners' outlook on life and

The consumption concept is much different from ours. Jiaxue can't stand it, so she talks to me."

Cheng Tianyuan was curious and pricked up his ears.

Xue Ling had to continue: "Foreigners pay more attention to themselves in their lives, and pay more attention to freedom and personal space. They should have their own space and interests and various entertainment every day, but Jiaxue doesn't agree much, and advises him from time to time not to waste time and just care about it.

But he always feels that Jiaxue is too involved in his personal thoughts and things, and he is very upset. So Jiaxue is dissatisfied with him and he is also dissatisfied with Jiaxue. In addition, foreigners’ consumption concepts are different from ours. We are all young people.

The surname is used to living a savings life. If you earn 2,000 yuan, you can't save 800 yuan, and you have to try to save 500 yuan. But foreigners don't think so. They like to have wine and get drunk today. The money they earn is to get

There is a way to enjoy it. So when he makes money, he immediately spends it. Jiaxue got angry and said that the family cannot have no savings, so he has to save some, so he needs to use it to buy a house and a car in the future. In the future, the elderly will grow old, if there is one

Children are all very expensive.”

Cheng Tianyuan blinked and asked, "Who has no parents? Has he passed away?"

"No." Xue Ling replied: "Foreigners' parents are all in their hometown. After he was eighteen, he went out to school and rented a house independently. He would occasionally visit his parents during holidays. He usually just kept in touch and rarely met.

He thinks that parents are in charge of themselves, and he is in charge of themselves."

Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "If the parents are sick, will he not care?"

"I guess I'll still take care of it." Xue Ling explained: "But their insurance system is relatively complete, almost everyone buys insurance, and rich families don't have to pay a few insurances. Even if they are sick, they don't have to pay for it.

It's a lot of money. But the intimacy of their families is not very similar to ours. There are very few families like ours who live together for generations, and their relatives don't move so frequently."

Cheng Tianyuan nodded slowly: "So they are relatively indifferent to each other?"

"You can't say that," Xue Ling said: "It's different lifestyles, and the family view is naturally different. Xiao Jiaxue is particularly unbearable to the foreigner's concept of "wine and drunk today". She pursues a more beautiful villa area.

, pursue a better car, but all these require savings to buy. The foreigner's income is not low, but he spent all the money after getting it. Only some basic living expenses are left, and the rest are all squandered. Jiaxue was very angry and had arguing with him.

It's been several times, but as always, he even blames her for interfering in his financial control."

The biggest obstacle between husband and wife is distrust and inability to tolerate, blindly wanting the other party to accept their own ideas and then achieve unity.

Xiao Jiaxue tried to change her husband, hoping that he could have the same ideas as her, so that the family could be more harmonious and the long-term development of the family would be better.

But her husband was very irritable and was "littled by this and that" all day long. He didn't think it was a sweet burden, but felt it was a shackle and imprisonment, and all kinds of disrespect imposed on others.

So, the couple quarreled and were bothered almost every day.

After getting upset, I quickly forgot how the two of them were as close as possible, how romantic and beautiful, leaving only all kinds of anger and depression.

Cheng Tianyuan thought about it and asked back: "Jiaxue is also a foreign language major. She should still understand the consumption concept of foreigners, right? Why can't she be more tolerant when she reaches her own heart?"

Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "Understanding is one thing, but the actual situation is another. She has her own pursuit and her own dream. She wants her husband to be in line with her so that she can work together and realize it earlier.

Pursue."

Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "I'm afraid this is too difficult..."

"Yes!" Xue Ling said: "I said that to her too. But she thought they were not living abroad and their ideas could not be the same as those of foreigners. She also advised her husband to integrate into our society,

The concept must be consistent with her. The foreigner naturally refused, so he quarreled with her, and recently he even slept in separate rooms."

Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a low voice: "You should advise her to stop properly and not to go too far. Didn't she like his exotic style and exotic culture at the beginning? Foreigners didn't dislike her fat either, so there was no need for her to dislike her ideas."

"It's not that you dislike it, you should respect each other." Xue Ling explained: "I told her to retreat appropriately and not force it too much. It is already a kind of respect for him not to ask her to agree with him. On the contrary, she forced it to ask.

He, trying to change him, is really not very practical—it's too difficult."
Chapter completed!