Xue Huan couldn't help laughing: "Who stipulates it? It must be evenly matched? How is that possible!"

Cheng Huanran sighed softly and replied: "Xiao Qiao always says she is under a lot of pressure and wants to surpass me in terms of professional titles and scientific research projects, and does not want to be too affected by my family background."

Xue Huan finally understood and said, "So she thought so... she was just afraid that your strength would be too strong and affect your future family status, right?"

"Yes." Cheng Huanran explained: "She is a very strong person. She wants to compete for the first place in every field she comes into contact with, and even her family status."

Xue Huan smiled bitterly: "Then she must live a hard life?"

"Yes!" Cheng Huanran explained: "She has always worked hard and was very competitive, and she is extremely purposeful in doing anything. Sometimes in order to achieve her goals, she even has some aggression. Her popularity is caused by her personality."

Xue Huan Wensheng: "The status of a family is not determined entirely by economic status. A higher economic status may have more say. But a higher economic status means you spend more time on work. A person's time and energy are limited. If you spend more time on this side, it means you spend less time on the other side. People with high voices spend relatively less time on the family and children. For example, your father and your mother, when you were young, your father spent more time in the family than your mother, and he had a lot more, right?"

"Yes." Cheng Huanran nodded.

Xue Huan analyzed: "If your father pursues his career like your mother, can you still have a father pick him up sooner or later? Can you eat with your father for three meals? Dad will take you to play on weekends? I remember that the elderly and your father took you on a trip for several summer vacations, right?"

"Yeah." Cheng Huanran replied: "Most summer and winter vacations were led by my father. My mother was really busy. Occasionally, she still couldn't go home on the construction site during the Chinese New Year. At that time, she invested in real estate everywhere and had a lot of social engagements every day. Later, the clothing factory and Tianshu Group also took my mother a lot of time. Sometimes my father coaxed us to bed, but my mother hadn't come home yet."

Xue Huan sighed softly and said, "Yes, if your father had not had the sacrifice and dedication of his father, your family might not be as brilliant as today. If your father and mother were pursuing their careers and throwing you to a few elderly people, your family might be evenly better today, but you would never be so outstanding. Your parents and they jointly support this family, but they cannot be evenly matched, otherwise this family would not be as stable and happy as today. My aunt and you have similar family status, but your aunt still has to be shorter than me in career, because her starting point is later than me and her education is not higher than me. When she doesn't have to schedule shifts, she will go home to take care of the children and family. When I don't have to schedule shifts, I still have to do administrative work. So, she spends more time in the family than me, and the distance between me will only be farther and farther. Let me be honest, everything cannot be too much."

"Too much is not too much?" Cheng Huanran couldn't understand very well.

Xue Huan explained: "The difference between husband and wife cannot be too big, but it is difficult to pursue similarities and equality. For example, the difference in education cannot be too much, otherwise the gap in knowledge will cause communication not to go smoothly. But there is no need to be exactly the same, right? For example, your aunt, who gave birth to A Yue after taking a year off from school, and it was not easy to be able to study for a bachelor's degree for several years. Could I ask her to take the postgraduate entrance examination like me? Your father's education is lower than your mother, your mother never felt that it was not possible, and your father never felt that he had to go further and pursue his mother, right?"

"Yes." Cheng Huanran smiled bitterly: "I think so too. I think there is no need to be the same for the two. My family background cannot be changed, because I have these because I have them since my grandfather's generation, and my mother has obtained the struggle for decades. Xiao Qiao values ​​these, but she disdains these, and even always worrys that I will be stronger than her in family status in the future. Since we graduated last year, we have been involved in the topic of marriage, and we have constant conflicts. Later, she stayed in the imperial capital to work and planned to put career first for the time being. Unexpectedly, more conflicts broke out later. She felt that she was under great pressure, and it was all caused by me. But I felt that she was getting farther and farther away from her, and she was very tired every time she was with her."

Xue Huan's eyes moved slightly, and his voice calmly said, "Then break up."

ah???!!

Cheng Huanran was speechless for a moment and looked at him for two or three seconds.

"Uncle Huan, why don't you persuade us? After all, we have been in love for many years and have reached the stage of talking about marriage. You can't just give up like that."

Xue Huan stopped: "It's just a marriage, not a marriage. You can get divorced even after marriage, why can't you break up when you fall in love? So what about relationships for many years? Love is about falling in love, and marriage is about getting married. Who can guarantee that the long-term relationship will last? You feel good about falling in love with her, but you start to feel tired before marriage is involved. Then what should I do if I really get married? After getting married, I think about divorce, and there are a lot of concerns, especially when there are children. After all, once divorce is the most harmful to the child."

Cheng Huanran was shocked and couldn't help feeling nervous.

“…Yes, if you really get married and find the problem again, it may be even more difficult to solve.”

Xue Huan analyzed: "Just as you said just now, this is obviously a problem with Qiao Hui's personality. It is easy to change the country and nature, and unless she is really willing to change her personality, your marriage will not be stable. But a girl as strong, independent and strong as her should not make changes for others easily."

"Impossible." Cheng Huanran felt lost: "Every time we have problems, she always has to ask me to bow my head, even if the wrong person is her."

Xue Huan smiled bitterly: "Then what are you waiting for? Instead of staying with a piece of boring ribs, it is better to break it if you break it. You are not a child, and you should know how to analyze the situation and future situation. When I brought my girlfriend back to China, even when I found the problem and still gritted my teeth and persevered, it was similar to your current situation. Both of them have been getting better for so many years, and she is even willing to come to a foreign country for me. How can I talk to her about breaking up? But what's the use of hesitation and pity, it's just that it's more annoying and helpless. When I was heartbroken, it was really uncomfortable, but my heart was sad and recovered, and another relationship was another beginning."

"I..." Cheng Huanran hesitated and murmured in confusion: "Does he really have to break up in the end?"
Chapter completed!