Chapter 1714 Parents' Suffering
Ah Hu patted his arm and whispered: "It's okay to pay more attention to the child in the future. He is still young now and has more opportunities."
"Oh..." Chen Min sighed bitterly: "I'm in my early twenties, it's a little late."
Ahu said "Ha!" and said, "My little brat finally settled down after getting married. He used to be a world-class person. If Ayuan and his sister-in-law hadn't helped me suppress him, that kid would have gone to be a second-rate man in a corner."
Cheng Tianyuan didn't think so, explaining: "Little Huzi is just a little bit naughty, and he loves to play but not to study, and he doesn't have much disadvantages. The worst thing is that the family environment is too good, spends money and shows off. Others are minor problems. As long as the time comes, people are mature and have a more stable personality, many of them can be changed over time."
"Hey!" Ahu stopped his hand: "If it weren't for your strict control at that time, and my sister-in-law even found an opportunity to help him with his career, he would definitely not be able to change. People, they have to know how hard it is to make money, and they know that money is hard to come by. They have to save some money and not spend it indiscriminately."
Chen Min couldn't help but envy him and said, "He makes so much money now. He has married a beautiful wife and two such cute kids. Brother, what else are you not satisfied with?"
Ah Hu laughed: "Satisfied! I'm quite satisfied!"
He touched his round beer belly, as if he was moved and admired.
"I think he is only in his twenties, and can have his own career, and can buy such a big courtyard in the imperial capital. He has a warm bed with his wife and son. Compared with people of his age, he is considered the best. I think we are still like a fool at his age. I go to learn to drive, and you sell things to people in the supply and marketing cooperative, and you can spend a few cents all day in your pocket. Thinking of this, that kid is really not bad!"
All three of them laughed.
Go around the corridor, come to the back garden, and go straight to the back door.
Cheng Tianyuan walked ahead and led the way, looking back from time to time.
"Amin, it's better to take advantage of this trip to the imperial capital to change the environment for the child. Xiaohuzi is no longer a boy from a few years ago, especially in the past two years, he has become much calmer. I suggest that Xiaohuzi brings Xiao Chen around and let him see a broader world, which may lead to a major change or change in the world and values."
Ahu also echoed: "Yes! We are all old antiques, and our thoughts can no longer keep up with this society. Nowadays, young people are all engaged in the Internet system. If you have a computer or a mobile phone, you can know the things all over the world. We can't do it anymore, we've long been out of touch. We don't understand any of their trendy words. After all, young people have to be carried by young people to help them."
"Oh." Chen Min smiled embarrassedly and stammered: "I'm afraid of causing trouble for you... Xiao Huzi has a family and career, and is very busy every day, afraid of affecting his work or something."
"What are you afraid of?!" Ah Hu said readily: "I will turn around and say he will go! That brat doesn't do anything else, but his heroic spirit is similar to when I was young. I am righteous, and he is righteous. Isn't it okay to take care of my little cousin and his relatives?"
Chen Min still didn't dare to agree and whispered: "Xiao Huzi is very busy and has a big career now. He has always cared for and loved his cousin, and I have always been very moved by this. But that boy Ahao is so useless, maybe he doesn't even dare to follow Xiao Huzi-"
"Don't think about it!" Ahu interrupted angrily: "How can you say that a child like this? He is still young and still studying, how can he be determined to be unreliable? He is unreliable now and will definitely do it in the future. If you say why you are a parent, just blame the child! Even if you really don't dare, you have to encourage him!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Yes, you have to encourage your children appropriately. Xiaohao is now facing academic and emotional crisis, and his body and mind are already exhausted. As parents, you have to change your perspective. Don't be angry and blamed, you must encourage and help your children get out first."
"Oh!" Chen Min sighed in embarrassment: "I dare not tell my wife at home... If she knew that the boy was going to jump into the river, she would probably have to jump into the river."
Ah Hu curled his lips: "What's the difficulty? If you don't say it, how could my sister-in-law know?"
Chen Min grabbed the gray-white short hair, which was quite helpless and sad.
"In the past, when I was a son, I thought about my family, took care of my parents, and my sisters. Since I had a son, I always felt that their generation was very good. I had to eat, drink, and stay, had a car to go out, and had money to spend in my pocket. The parents above didn't need them to take care of them, and they didn't have to earn money, they just had to read books well. But they were depressed at all times and had to jump into the river when they turned around! I really don't know if life was too good or what? They were already so good, what else do they want?"
After hearing this, Ah Hu laughed foolishly.
"I thought about this, but I can't think of the reason at all. That's right! It was so difficult for us at that time, and it was not easy to have a full meal. How could we survive well? Why did we become so fragile and untouched when we reach the young generation!"
Cheng Tianyuan calmly thought about it and concluded: "It's probably caused by the general environment."
Chen Min smiled bitterly and said, "There are also problems with his family. My wife and I don't know how to teach children. Look, your children are all very good, especially Ayuan's four children, each with their own strengths, and their academic performance is also very good. What I envy most is their good temperament, confidence, sunny, and generous. When Yangyang got married that day, I watched their brothers and sisters get along well, and they also knew how to socialize and receive guests, and they were very good at talking. I secretly watched while secretly envious."
"There are also a lot of shortcomings." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Don't just see other people's strengths, but stare at their own weaknesses."
Ahu nodded quickly: "That's it! The four children of Ayuan family are all among the people, and they cannot be compared with them. In addition, they also have some small shortcomings, but you haven't been in contact for a long time, so I didn't find it."
"Everyone has shortcomings," Chen Min said: "No one is perfect. However, Ayuan's children are indeed excellent and have few shortcomings. The key is to make their parents worry. Unlike Xiaohao and Xiaohuzi, one is so dull that they can't even speak well, and the other is naughty and active - they are all uneasy guys!"
Cheng Tianyuan burst into laughter and signaled Ah Hu to open the door. He turned around and sat on the wooden pile at the entrance of the Siheyuan.
"Didn't I say everything just now? Don't always envy others randomly. Other people's things may not be as good as you envy them. Everyone is a parent, so it should be the same. The few of my family have also made Ling Ling and me worry a lot--really."
Chapter completed!