Chapter 1593 Analyzing the Root Cause
Xue Ling couldn't help but smile bitterly: "Who would agree? It's just that the child is special, she can't listen to our words!"
"You have to train when you need to train, and you have to scold when you need to scold!" Cheng Tianyuan said in a deep voice: "You have to even beat him when you need to beat him! Just don't hurt him, and she must listen to her brain!"
Xue Ling sighed and shook her head: "It's too difficult... Our children are all simpler, and we have been strict since childhood, so even if they do something wrong, they generally won't be too wrong. Xiaohan is different from them. She grew up in an incomplete family since childhood. Both parents will only spoil her and follow her and take care of her as much as possible. She looks weak on the surface, but in fact she is very awkward and has a strong sense of self-esteem, but she is also vulnerable. I don't have much contact with her and don't know much about it. I can't think of a way to persuade her for the time being. If she is our daughter, we will scold you and beat you if you should. But we are just uncles and aunts, and her parents are by my side. Where can we get the qualifications and rights to teach her a lesson?"
"Oh!" Cheng Tianyuan was so angry that he sat down, angrily: "It's all adults who have committed evil! It hurts the child! A good family finally got apart, not only did they hurt themselves, but also hurt the child!"
"It's useless to say it." Xue Ling whispered.
Cheng Tianyuan shouted loudly: "You have to say it out, let the young people in the family take it as a warning! Young people nowadays divorce easily, and if they can't live, they can divorce. They say it lightly, but they have thought about the consequences? People cannot live willfully, and willful people will never have a good ending! Who says that every couple who gets married can be happy? They can live well and shoulder the sense of family responsibility, otherwise how can happiness come from? When you are in love, love to death. If you have the ability, take out the courage of that time and take the responsibility of marriage well! If everyone can do it, the divorce rate will not be so high now! If Cheng Tianfang was not willful and act recklessly, why would she not even have a family today! Her daughter would not have become like this!"
"Don't yell, whisper to me!" Xue Ling angrily slapped his arm and whispered: "Xiao Han is in the guest room in the south."
Cheng Tianyuan didn't care at all and said, "I want to say it now, but I will tell her tomorrow. She is just a teenager and wants to fall in love and get married? What qualifications are there to get married if a person who even has to be arranged by his parents? If Xiaoxin doesn't study good books, is not independent from work, and wants to get married, then I will never agree to her marriage. Girls can rely on their husbands. That's how she thinks? Then she is looking for a good husband, what do you do to find a second-rate man who drops out of school and hangs on the street to rely on? Have you ever told her these words? Hum?"
"No." Xue Ling said the truth: "Aheng saw her dressing strangely, wearing an exposed short shirt and a miniskirt, and was stuck with the second-rate boy, and suddenly became furious! If I hadn't stopped him, he would have beaten the person seriously. The boy knew that he was an irresponsible person at a glance. The two were caught, and he ran away without even saying hello. Such a boy had no sense of responsibility at all, and it was unreliable."
"Hmph!" Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "Isn't her mother the same back then? She was foolish and believed it. If she hadn't taught her a lesson in time, she wouldn't have been today, and she would have been ruined long ago. You have to contact Cheng Tianfang to come back and let her use her negative teaching materials to teach her daughter!"
"Don't be angry." Xue Ling had no choice but to rub his forehead, "Aheng was so angry that he almost vomited blood. He kept talking nonsense, and his mind had lost its normal operation. Xiaohan was furious and arguing with him. The father and daughter were cursing on the street, crying and making noise. Many old men and aunts who were walking outside came to watch - it couldn't be too lively. I couldn't help but persuade him, and my throat hurt. I couldn't stand it, so I simply called a car, stuffed Xue Heng in and carried him away, and then called a car to take Xiaohan away."
Cheng Tianyuan rolled his eyes powerlessly: "I was embarrassed to go to the street, I was talking about this kind of people. Ah Heng is over fifty years old, so why are you so impulsive about quarrels with her in public? Take your daughter away first, ask slowly, and say slowly, if you make such a fuss - it will be a big deal if it's not big!"
"Yes!" Xue Ling shook her head: "Aheng is an elderly woman, and she is very pampered with Xiaohan. Xiaohan cried very badly today, part of the reason is that Aheng opposed her falling in love, and the bigger reason is that she can't believe that her father, who has always followed everything, would scold her in the street for the first time."
"The outbreak of conflicts is definitely not accumulated in a short while." Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly and said, "You are wrong. In fact, this matter is not as simple as it seems. After all, it is the lack of family education and the lack of correct guidance from parents. This cannot be corrected in a short while."
"Yes." Xue Ling couldn't help but whisper: "But you still have to deal with it quietly so that the child can understand it. She said earlier that she didn't want to go to school anymore, and her father no longer loved her. She wanted to run away from home and make money with her own hands in the future. She was very impulsive and said very excitedly, and I listened to it all."
"Don't go to school?" Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "Then she will wait for misery!"
Xue Ling sighed tiredly: "I was dizzy when my father and daughter quarreled, and my head was still dizzy now. I got older and my health was getting worse every year. I didn't do anything today, so I accompanied my third brother to buy clothes and went to the suburbs to find Xue Heng later. You know what happened next - I didn't have much, but my head could no longer bear it."
"You ate the bird's nest and go take a shower and rest." Cheng Tianyuan stood up: "I'll go see that bad child."
"Don't!" Xue Ling said: "I just took Xiaoxin's pajamas and borrowed them. She had taken off her makeup and took a shower to sleep. Her eyes were swollen and she was in poor spirits. I coaxed her to bed before coming over."
"Removing makeup?" Cheng Tianyuan sneered, "I really admire Xue Heng and Cheng Tianfang! The children are all like this, and they are still kept in the dark and don't know!"
Xue Ling stood up with her head and stopped and said, "Don't be angry, let's take a rest first. Ah Heng calmed down just now and sent a message to say that he would come to pick her up tomorrow morning to pick her up to school, and then we'll talk to her."
"The problem cannot be solved so easily." Cheng Tianyuan shook his head with a cold face: "The root of this matter is there, what can I do to solve it? If you don't believe it, wait and see!"
Xue Ling felt pain in his head, and he lifted the quilt and lay down.
"Stop talking, I'll lie down for a while. I won't eat bird's nest anymore, you can eat it. When I'm not dizzy, I'll go take a shower and change my pajamas."
"Okay." Cheng Tianyuan said warmly: "You take a nap first, I'll get you the syrup and wipe it."
Chapter completed!