Fan Yunxuan drove her parents to continue on the airport expressway.

Fan Yunxuan said: "I heard from you two, it seems that I am destined to have a bad relationship with my mother-in-law."

Yunxuan's mother said: "Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two generations of people living in two different eras. It is difficult to converge their values. You feel awkward when you look at me, but I don't like you. Especially your mother-in-law, her husband passed away early, and she puts all her thoughts on her son, and she is even more picky about her daughter-in-law."

Yunxuan's father said: "Before you, she was always the housekeeper of the mother-in-law. She asked her to give up the lifestyle she was used to to adapt to you. Do you think this is possible? No matter what you think in your heart, at least on the surface, you must first agree with her way."

Yunxuan's mother said: "Just like when you work in a company, you must first abide by the company's rules and regulations. If you think there is anything unreasonable in the rules, you are only qualified to make suggestions for revisions after you are fully recognized by the leader."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I thought I would have been married and independent, so you could instill less instill some great principles into me, but I didn't expect that there would be more and more great principles."

Yunxuan's mother said: "After talking about this whole lot, it is nothing more than two words of ritual (reason), one is the 'ritual' of politeness, and the 'ritual' of 'ritual'; the other is the 'reason' of 'reason' and 'understanding'. As long as you understand these two words thoroughly, you will understand the true meaning of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I just got married, and you want me to understand the true meaning of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I have to be afraid of wolves in front of me and tigers in the back. Oh my God, it's better not to get married."

Yunxuan's father said: "The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very complicated, but you don't have to be afraid of wolves in front of you and tigers in the back. As long as you can grasp some principles, many things will become very simple. The first point is to respect your mother-in-law. You can't be too big or small to your mother like your parents. You must be polite. Respect is the prerequisite for getting your mother-in-law's recognition. Second point, you should think from your own perspective when encountering things. You cannot always reason from your own perspective. The family focuses on feelings. If you think your mother-in-law is not as good as yours, don't be serious about her."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Since it's a family, she and I shouldn't be too disagreeable. So just treat her as my biological mother!"

Yunxuan's mother said: "This is really not possible."

Fan Yunxuan smiled and said, "You're jealous!"

Yunxuan's mother said, "Mom is not jealous. She treats her mother-in-law as her biological mother. This wish is beautiful, but it is not realistic. If you have angered, tantrums, and make her angry, your mother will soon forget it. But if you want to be tempted and have a sluggish face, and you have no sense of speaking or doing things at all, her heart will be difficult to untie, and you will even remember it for the rest of your life."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If she is so difficult to serve, I might as well come with her without breaking the river. I don't care about her affairs. She doesn't want to get involved in my affairs. She will just turn the relationship into a freezing mode, which is simple."

Yunxuan's father said: "Since you live under the same roof, it is the water from a well, and all aspects will be intertwined. I am just worried about you now. I am used to being willful and can't stand the control of my mother-in-law."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Four words are popular in this century: Do what you do."

Yunxuan's father said: "Young people like to show their personality, but for the sake of family harmony, they still have to compromise when they need to compromise."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Oh, dad, mom, you are really old, don't think about it. You passed on all the best genes on your body to me. Am I the kind of brainless person? Have I never thought about the questions you mentioned before? In fact, my principles have been confirmed long ago. If she treats me as her daughter, I will treat her as her mother. She will take her as her mother. She will pick on my thorns all day long, and I will not be easy to bully. I have to actively respond and never lose the faces of Professor Fan and Lawyer Tong."

Yunxuan's mother said: "If you really enter war mode with your mother-in-law, that would be embarrassing to your parents!"

Yunxuan's father said: "That can only prove the failure of parents' education."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If she doesn't know how to respect me, what reason can I tell her?"

Yunxuan's father said: "So, you should pay attention to communication and exchanges in daily life. When the relationship is harmonious, she will not disrespect you for no reason."

Yunxuan's mother said: "If there is something she does make you feel that it is too much, you can express your position in time, but your attitude must be gentle. You cannot make her feel that she has lost face in front of the younger generation, and you cannot speak ill of you."

Fan Yunxuan said: "What if it doesn't work?"

Yunxuan's father said: "Then we must fully mobilize Jiajun's buffer function and make him bear it."

Fan Yunxuan said: "That's right, Jiajun is the key, I want him to stand on my side in obedience."

Yunxuan's mother said: "This will make your mother-in-law feel that you snatched her son away, and it will be even more disliked by you."

Fan Yunxuan said: "She is afraid that I will take her son away, so she should not let her son get married."

Yunxuan's mother said: "What she lost is not her son, but her own emotional sustenance."

Fan Yunxuan said: "It seems that I am destined to have an emotional battle with her."

Yunxuan's mother said: "If that were the case, you would be destined to lose both sides and there would be no winner."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Oh my God, I thought marriage was the beginning of a beautiful new life, but it turned out to be the beginning of my nightmare in life."

Yunxuan's mother said: "Nightmare can be avoided, and the opposite of losing both sides is a win-win situation."

Fan Yunxuan couldn't wait to ask: "How to win-win?"

Yunxuan's mother said: "You should focus on her feelings, so that she can feel that she has an extra daughter, not a son. She usually talks about desserts, so she can coax her more."

Yunxuan's father said: "Especially during festivals, you must be careful with the details that parents can ignore when it comes to your mother-in-law."

Yunxuan's mother said: "As long as you are really good to her, can she treat you badly?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "I understand. From now on, she chatted in front of me, and I can only listen carefully, so that I will be a civilized and polite daughter-in-law. From now on, I will massage her back, rub her waist, and pour water for her feet every day, so that I will be a filial daughter-in-law."

Yunxuan's mother said: "This child is not as exaggerated as you say? In fact, the most pleasing way is to say more sweet words to her."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I was raised by you. Don't you know me yet? I have always liked to be straightforward, and I can't do anything sweet and polite."

Yunxuan's mother said: "What does this child mean by a sweet-mouthed sword? There can be honey in his mouth, but there can be no sword in his belly."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Anyway, after all, you just let me wrap all my edges and lose myself."

Yunxuan's mother said: "My parents just want to remind you that you are no longer a child, but a wife, and you can't do whatever you want like at home."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If a person lives without self, it will be terrible."

Yunxuan's mother said, "After we talked so hard for so long, you didn't listen at all."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If you do what you say, I will no longer be Fan Yunxuan. I am afraid I don't even know who I am."

Yunxuan's mother looked at Yunxuan's father helplessly.

Yunxuan's father said: "Some people like to use theory to guide practice; some people like to slowly explore theory in practice. It seems that our daughter belongs to the latter."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I can't lose myself for others, I'm me."

Yunxuan's father and Yunxuan's mother looked at each other helplessly and smiled.

When we arrived at the airport lobby, the radio urging boarding began to echo in the lobby: Flight XX to London is about to set sail, please hurry up and board the plane...

Yunxuan's father said to his daughter: "Dad has been leaving for three years. He originally wanted to talk to him one last time. Seeing that you are so impatient, Dad won't say it."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If you don't say it, I know what you want to say."

"Oh? I guessed it?"

"Since childhood, you have been talking to me many times. 'You can't be confused about big things, don't worry about small things.' This sentence has become my motto."

Yunxuan's father smiled and said, "If you can really treat it as your motto, I'll be relieved."

Yunxuan's mother said to her husband: "She can get along well with her mother-in-law, of course, but if she doesn't get along well, she will also gain experience. Her daughter is a smart person. If you know how to improve, don't worry too much!"

Yunxuan's father entered the ticket gate and turned around and waved to the mother and daughter. Fan Yunxuan and her mother also waved goodbye to him reluctantly...

At this time, Wang Jiayi had finished dressing and was dressed neatly. She was talking to her mother in Sichuan dialect: "Oh, mom, you are so great."

Jiayi's mother said: "It's just that boy is too cheap. His family doesn't get any blood. Even if he is in the back, it's not so shabby, let alone if he is in the back."

Wang Jiayi smiled and said, "Mom, I know, you don't care about this money, you can't swallow this. You always think that if your daughter marrys a man, all the cost of the car and the man should pay for it."

"You know what else! You are just a fool, you have never seen you be so stupid, and you actually marry yourself to be poor and useless. I think you are kicked in your brain by a donkey."

Wang Jiayi asked with confusion, "What the hell is 'poverty and vacancies'?"

Jiayi's mother said: "He is poor and takes advantage of you for nothing. Isn't that 'poverty and take advantage of you for nothing'?"

Wang Jiayi was amused by the term invented by her mother: "Mom, is your daughter the one who suffers a loss? We will pay the 700,000 yuan in the money we owe to the bank, and we will not lose money."

Jiayi's mother said, "Don't linger on me, your mother is not at a loss yet. He has returned all his salary and money to the bank. You can't pay the daily expenses? We'll still lose money!"

"Mom, he and I are now husband and wife. As long as we can have a sweet relationship, is it necessary to calculate so clearly financially?"
Chapter completed!