Chapter 84 Child, should you come (3)
Fan Yunxuan moved Wang Jiayi's coffee cup to her and said, "From now on, take good care of the baby!"
Ren Li sighed and said, "I understand. It is harder to make a woman who really likes children and loves children do DINKs than to let cats not eat fish!"
Fan Yunxuan said to Wang Jiayi: "I expected it to be that with your mentality, it is impossible to become a real DINK. It will be a matter of time before a child has been given birth."
Wang Jiayi said: "Will I still be happy with my children?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "For those who really like children, the trouble of raising children is actually a different kind of happiness. Let's go to your own little days with pain and happiness! From now on, our DINK Alliance has removed you."
Ren Li said: "Yunxuan and I will continue to join forces and we will continue to dip forever."
Wang Jiayi said: "I agreed to be a firm DINK together. I just quit. Will you despise me?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "We despise parents who have given birth to children but are irresponsible."
Ren Li said: "We respect all parents who truly love their children."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Don't think about it all, what kind of DINK is not DINK, the alliance is not affiliated, do what you want and do according to your truest wish in your heart, it is right."
Wang Jiayi said: "The voice in my heart has been telling me that what I lack the most now is a child."
Ren Li said: "This is called motherhood. I heard that once a woman is pregnant, the hormones in her body will quickly stimulate motherhood."
Fan Yunxuan said: "If there is nowhere to release the maternal sentiment, it will be so uncomfortable to hold it in. Hurry up and give birth to a healthy and beautiful baby and release yourself."
All three of them laughed.
Wang Jiayi said to Ren Li: "Lili, you, sooner or later, will you be a waste of time? Do you believe it?"
Ren Li hurriedly retorted: "Nonsense! I don't know how to do it!"
Wang Jiayi said: "If you don't believe it, let's take a look."
Ren Li said dissatisfiedly: "Let's just look at it. I am as firm as Yunxuan and will definitely stick to it. Yunxuan, do you support me?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "You are really different from me."
Ren Li was puzzled and asked, "Why... why is it different?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "I don't love children, I don't have a maternal sentiment. You actually like children very much."
Ren Li said: "If I like children, I can't exchange my youth and happiness! I want to stay young forever and never be a yellow-faced woman."
Wang Jiayi said: "Without children, our youth will be gone little by little."
Ren Li said: "But the child will speed up the process, so you have to let your husband take care of the child. We should worry less and keep our youth is the most important thing."
Fan Yunxuan said: "She can't do it at all. As soon as the child is born, you see, she doesn't want to be separated from the child for a moment."
Ren Li nodded, "I believe. Jiayi is the kind of person who loves children and can love them to the core."
Because of her pregnancy, Wang Jiayi was protected and treated like a panda. As soon as she got into the house at night, she saw the table full of dishes she liked to eat - this was not Haowen's mother's craft, but customized from Sichuan restaurant.
Sun Haowen also excitedly showed her the Tang poetry and Song lyrics he bought for her children, and Mozart's music CD, and told her that from today on, she would do prenatal education.
Wang Jiayi said: "It's too early to do prenatal education and it won't work."
Sun Haowen asked: "Then...when should I do it right?"
Wang Jiayi said: "You have to wait for seven months..."
Sun Haowen said excitedly: "You agree, have you agreed to have a baby?!"
Wang Jiayi nodded slightly.
Sun Haowen almost jumped up excitedly and shouted: "That's great, Jiayi, you are so great!"
Haowen's mother was also happy and couldn't stop talking.
Sun Haowen assured Wang Jiayi: "In the future, I will read more books and surf the Internet to understand the knowledge of raising children. I will not only be the father of the child, but also be his nanny in life, a mentor in life, a spiritual leader, and a political backer..."
Wang Jiayi said: "Stop, stop, who do you think you are? Secretary-General of the United Nations?"
Everyone laughed.
Sun Haowen said: "Anyway, I will love our children as much as possible." As he said that, he held Wang Jiayi's hand tightly and said affectionately, "Jiayi, believe me, we will definitely be able to raise the child very well. He must be a healthy, happy, smart and beautiful baby." After letting go of Wang Jiayi's hand, he continued to say with great spirit, "When he grows up, this star and that star are not as good as our baby. His physique is healthier than me, and his face is more beautiful than you, everyone loves, flowers bloom when they see flowers, birds are stunned when they see birds, and car tires are blown..."
Wang Jiayi couldn't help laughing and said, "That would be very troublesome."
Sun Haowen said: "It will definitely be troublesome if you have children, but it doesn't matter. If you are a boy, you are naughty, I will deal with him. If you are a girl, you will be bothered with your education."
Wang Jiayi said: "I'm worried that if he looks better than a star, if he is a boy, will he fall in love early in the future? If it is a girl, we have to teach her various ways to prevent wolves."
Sun Haowen said: "This is easy to deal with. If it is a boy, we will make him look like you, weak and slender, and surely no girl likes him. If it is a girl, let her look like me. Boys treat her as a friend, so they don't need to be careful."
Wang Jiayi said: "That will be even more troublesome. Either you can't get a wife or you can't get married. What should I do?"
It has been a long time since my son and daughter-in-law were so happy. Seeing them so happy, Haowen's mother was already so happy that she couldn't stop talking and said, "Hurry up and don't let my grandson hungry."
The three of them sat at the table, and Haowen's mother asked, "There are sour and spicy, which one do you want to eat?"
Wang Jiayi looked at the table of dishes and didn't know what to eat.
Haowen's mother asked: "What's wrong? Don't you want to eat?"
Wang Jiayi said: "I want to eat dumplings filled with mackerel."
Haowen's mother said: "Okay, I'll go buy it."
After saying that, Haowen's mother got up and went out excitedly.
Sun Haowen said happily: "My wife is more expensive than giant pandas now. We can do whatever we want."
Haowen's mother walked out of the community excitedly and met Jiajun's mother who was walking back with a vegetable basket.
Jiajun's mother asked, "Old Liu, the corners of her mouth are so grinning. Why are you so happy?"
Haowen's mother was so excited that she said, "My wife...my wife...is...had..."
Jiajun's mother widened her eyes and said, "Is your wife pregnant?"
Haowen's mother said excitedly: "I'm pregnant, I'm pregnant, I want to eat dumplings stuffed with mackerel, so I'll buy them."
After saying that, she left excitedly.
Jiajun's mother looked at her back and stood there for a while, pursing her lips, both envious and jealous.
At this time, Fan Yunxuan was dressing up carefully in front of the dressing table. Today is her birthday, and Jiajun is rushing back to spend a birthday night with her.
Jiajun's mother opened the door and looked angry. She put the vegetables she bought in the kitchen and turned around and walked towards Fan Yunxuan's bedroom.
Jiajun's mother came to the door of Fan Yunxuan's bedroom and looked at Fan Yunxuan dressing up. She was even more angry and said, "I would rather spend time dressing up, rather go out shopping, drink coffee, chat, go to a bar, dance aerobics, and practice yoga than have children? I really don't know what you think?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "Mom, what's wrong with you?"
Jiajun's mother said: "When Wang Jiayi has it, she is ready to have a child. Do you know?"
Fan Yunxuan said calmly: "I know."
Jiajun's mother said: "Old Liu is so lucky that he will hold his grandson. I don't know when I will hold him?"
Fan Yunxuan continued to put on makeup without saying a word.
Jiajun's mother continued, "Yunxuan, don't complain about mom nagging. Mom knows that you have a good relationship with Jiajun, but no matter how good the relationship is, there will be a time when there is a disagreement? There is no tongue that doesn't touch the teeth. The couple has been together for a long time, and there is no one who can't quarrel. What is a child? A child is the adhesive for the relationship between husband and wife, and Anshen Shunqi Pill. The couple has awkwardly, and for the sake of the child, it will be fine soon. You say, how important is the child!"
Fan Yunxuan said: "Mom, if Jiajun and I have a conflict, we will resolve it by ourselves, so we don't need children to help us get along with each other."
Jiajun's mother said: "No matter how good the marriage is, it will not be happy without children."
Fan Yunxuan said: "A husband and wife have a good relationship and will not become unhappy because they don't have children. A bad relationship and will not become happy because they have children. Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai are both loyal without children; Chen Shimei and Qin Xianglian have children, and they go their separate ways."
Jiajun's mother said: "That's a play, not a life."
Fan Yunxuan said: "The same is true in real life. If marriage is maintained by children, it only means that the two people are not in love enough. So what's the point of living together?"
Jiajun's mother said: "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai have a good relationship, but if they have never had children, even if they are not dead, they will not live well, and their relationship will only become weaker and weaker."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Without children, you can have more time to love each other, and the relationship will only become stronger and stronger."
Jiajun's mother said: "No matter how strong the relationship is, it can be strong for decades? Sooner or later, there will be boring times. What are children? Children are your common ambitions and topics. Without children, they will be staring at each other. What does it mean? With children, it will be different, and life will be more purposeful."
Fan Yunxuan said: "If two people don't have children, they will not even have a topic? This is so terrible. Feelings are based on children, not on love. Such a marriage is terrible."
Jiajun's mother said: "Love is not permanent, it will become increasingly weak. Children will quickly transform love into family affection and into family affection, so that they can last."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Oh, mom, you have made too much progress and have become an emotional expert."
Jiajun's mother said: "I bought a few more books, and they all talk about emotional matters and benefited a lot."
Fan Yunxuan stuck out her tongue and hurriedly turned her face to look at the dressing mirror to continue putting on makeup.
Jiajun's mother said: "The book also says that for us Chinese, the role of children is really important. When the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the child is a pistachio; when the relationship between husband and wife is in crisis, the child is the bond that maintains their emotions. Many people who want to divorce cannot get divorced when they think of their children; many people who have divorced will give up their past grudges and make up for their children. You say, how important is children!"
Chapter completed!