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Chapter 110 The Doctor's Theory of Love(1/2)

"Do you have any headaches, dizziness, or sweating?"

"I have a bit of a headache and I feel like I was sweating last night."

"Is your mouth dry or not?" Zhang Yan asked very carefully and in a gentle voice, which somewhat relieved the patient's mood.

"A bit, doctor, what's wrong with me?"

"Have you encountered anything troublesome recently?" Zhang Yan did not answer, but continued to ask with a gentle smile.

"What's bothering you?" The young man didn't understand. He had a stomachache, so why did he still ask this question?

"I saw your brows were furrowed, your eyes were bloodshot, and then I saw your tongue coating was red.

Apparently something happened and he got angry."

"Doctor, can you still read faces?" the young man asked in surprise.

"I am a Chinese medicine practitioner, and reading faces is also one of the methods of treating diseases." Zhang Yan said with a smile.

"In your case, you have no history of abdominal pain before, but it only appeared in the past two days. When I just performed an abdominal examination on you, I found that none of your organs had any symptoms.

I took your pulse just now and found that you are in good health.

I just feel a little anxious and have some liver qi stagnation."

"Does this have anything to do with my stomachache?" the young man asked in confusion.

"It's related. In addition to organic stomach pain, stomach pain refers to stomach pain caused by pathological changes in the organs in your stomach or eating bad food.

Another condition is mental abdominal pain.

Don't get me wrong, this is not mental illness.

It means that you have abdominal pain caused by tension, irritability, joy or sorrow, etc.

This condition is called psychogenic abdominal pain." Zhang Yan patiently explained the condition to the young man.

"Can this also cause stomachache?" the young man asked in disbelief.

"This situation is relatively common. Everyone has seven emotions and six desires. Even the monks in the temple cannot do without desires and desires." Zhang Yan said with a smile.

"Doctor, how should I treat my situation?" the young man asked worriedly.

"There are two ways.

One is to recover on your own. There is nothing in this world that cannot be solved. Even if things seem unsolvable for the time being, maybe if you take a step back or wait, the problem will be solved.

There is a saying that what you plan for is up to you. Don't force anything. Gradually your tension and irritability will be relieved, and your illness will be cured without medicine." Zhang Yan smiled at the relieved young man.

"Oh! How can it be so easy to think about it!

Doctor, I have been really anxious and annoyed recently.

I dated a person, but my family disagreed and disliked him because he was a daughter of a capitalist." Under Zhang Yan's gentle words, the young man opened his heart and began to talk about his own affairs.

Perhaps, the young man originally wanted to find someone to talk to about his troubles.

Zhang Yan said nothing and nodded slightly to show that he was listening.

"What happened to the daughter of a capitalist? Now we are in New China. Since the country has not held them accountable, it shows that they have their own conscience.

My parents are stubborn and refuse to agree to our marriage. They also said that if I marry her, they will sever ties with me."

"In your situation, indeed, anyone would be annoyed." Zhang Yan nodded in approval.

"That's right! It's my parents on one side and my partner on the other. I really don't know what to do. I've been so worried that I couldn't sleep for the past two days." The young man pulled his hair in distress.

"Do you really love your partner? Or are you ready to face everything in the future with her?"

"Doctor, what do you mean? If I don't love my partner, how can I be distressed?"

"According to research by Western scientists, love is actually a hormone secretion that only exists for a short period of time.

Love is very short-lived. Now you are in pain when you face love. Maybe after you turn around, you will forget the previous pain.

Because you find that you don’t seem to love anymore.

Love is a momentary impulse, while marriage is about staying together, tolerating each other, and supporting each other through the rest of life.

I believe you love your partner very much, but are you really ready to get married to her?

At weddings in Western countries, pastors often ask the married man and woman, are you ready?

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I want to ask you this now, ask yourself in your heart, are you really ready?" Zhang Yan's tone was gentle, full of magnetism, and he told the young man softly.

The last sentence, are you really ready?

The young man was stunned by the question.

He had seen too many such situations among young people in later generations.

Although he never fell in love in his last life.

But he has seen much.

I once had a roommate in the same dormitory who was very much in love. After falling out of love, I was very desperate, with a painful expression that I couldn't live without the other person.

Everyone was busy trying to comfort him, going drinking with him, and playing black games with him.

As a result, the next day, this guy suddenly announced that he was in love again, and his partner was so-and-so.

This is what is called love.

It all starts with lust.

Whether we can get together or not has nothing to do with love.

The so-called love begins with appearance, is based on talent, and is loyal to character.

"Thank you, doctor!" The young man stood up and bowed deeply to Zhang Yan.

I didn’t even ask for a second way to treat abdominal pain and just turned around and left.

He no longer needs the second method.

"Brother Zhang, you are so awesome!" Zhao Shengli gave Zhang Yan a thumbs up.

"Dr. Zhang, is the psychogenic abdominal pain you just mentioned true? Why haven't I heard of it before?"

"Brother Zhang, do you think he really loves his partner?" As a girl, Qian Hongying's focus is different from others.

“In the study of diseases in traditional Chinese medicine, many diseases are caused by emotions and desires.

In Western medicine, it is also believed that severe emotional fluctuations can cause organic lesions in organs." Zhang Yan first explained to Lu Jun the scientific nature of the existence of psychogenic abdominal pain.

Then he looked at Qian Hongying and said, "Didn't I just say that?

Love is very short-lived, it is a temporary impulse caused by the secretion of human hormones.

Regardless of whether they are girls or boys, they actually have this urge.

You girls, when you see a handsome boy who matches your fantasy of your partner, you will blush and your heartbeat will speed up.

On the other hand, when boys see a beautiful girl, they will blush and their heartbeat will speed up.

These are caused by accelerated hormone secretion from the pituitary gland.

Xiaoqian, as someone who has been through this, let me give you a piece of advice: never fantasize about marrying for so-called love.

Marrying for love is the most unreliable thing in life and the most irresponsible decision for yourself."

"Ah?!" Qian Hongying was dumbfounded.

This was the first time someone told her so clearly that she should never marry for love, as marrying for love would not be reliable.

"Brother Zhang, if you don't want to marry for love, why don't you just find a man to marry?"

"No! Finding a partner is the most important thing in life, and you must consider many factors.

For example, the other person’s talent and learning, the other person’s character, whether you have a common language, similar values, and your family background.

These are the keys to determine whether your marriage is happy or not." Zhang Yan said to Qian Hongying seriously.

This is also his understanding of love and marriage.

Once, when he was in school, he also wanted to find a love, but later he found that love was too expensive and time-consuming, so after seven years of bachelor's degree, he completed the achievement of being single for seven years.

At this time, another patient came in, and Zhang Yan ended the topic.

This is a patient with lumbar disc herniation, a male patient, 53 years old.

"Master, you have a herniated disc in your waist, it's not serious.

I'll give you a massage and then put a plaster on it.

Leave the plaster on for three days, and then just peel it off by yourself after three days.

In addition, I will teach you another set of movements. If you take the time to do it more often, your back pain will be relieved in about half a month.

Keep at it, your lumbar disc herniation can be cured without taking medicine." After Zhang Yan finished the examination, he said to the old man with a smile.

"Okay, thank you, doctor!" Although I don't know yet how effective it will be, Zhang Yan's attitude made the old man very satisfied.
To be continued...
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