Chapter 175: Never forget to love yourself at any time
In order to please his father, stepmother and younger brother, in order to please his girlfriend, and in order to gain love and care, he actually forgot about his mother, who was thinking about his future plans before she died.
He is so heartless and should not do so.
Mom, actually, you are the one who loves Xiaoxuan the most, right?
I should love you the most, right?
Shen Xuan just came up with this idea in his dream.
Suddenly, everything in the dream disappeared.
The surroundings were filled with white mist, and he couldn't see anything clearly. No, there seemed to be a figure in front of him, but he couldn't see clearly.
In the dream, he inexplicably thought of the plain ring.
Put on that ring and you will see the person you should love most in this world.
So, is the person in front of him the one he should love the most?
Who is it?
It should be my mother.
Shen Xuan just waited quietly for the figure to turn around.
In the white mist, the figure of the man was very blurry, but he looked familiar.
Soon, the man turned around, and the white mist gradually dissipated.
When Shen Xuan saw the man's appearance clearly, he was stunned for a moment.
Because that person looks exactly like him.
No wonder, he feels familiar.
Therefore, the person he should love most in this world is actually himself, right?
For a moment, there was something in Shen Xuan's ears, and it was like an explosion in Shen Xuan's mind...
Shen Xuan remembered the piece of paper he saw when he opened the circle.
Wearing the ring, you will see the person you should love the most.
So, the person he should love the most is himself, right? In other words, the person everyone loves most should be himself, right?
But why?
Loving yourself is still at a loss for Shen Xuan, even though he is already in his twenties.
What does it mean to love yourself? How does it mean to love yourself?
He must love himself. After all, although his life is not very good, it is not too bad either. He is doing well.
Shen Xuan was stunned, unable to think of a reason.
At this time, the white mist gradually dispersed, and another thin figure appeared.
It is also very strange, but also has an inexplicable familiarity, like a mark engraved in the bones, and because of the distance in time and space, it brings a sense of strangeness.
The man slowly walked towards him, and soon the white mist dissipated, and he could see the man's face clearly.
She stared at him with delicate facial features, a slight smile on her lips, and a pear dimple on her left cheek.
Shen Xuan also has a pear dimple on his left cheek when he smiles. It is said that he inherited it from his mother.
Almost as soon as he saw the person in front of him, the memory door that had been sealed for more than ten years was suddenly opened in his mind. Those memory images that were originally blurred and inherited by time surged out in an instant, as if he had returned to the seventeenth century. At that age, everything became clear.
"Xiao Xuan..." The young woman's voice was soft, but filled with tenderness and endless longing.
Just two words completely broke the defenses in Shen Xuan's heart and confirmed his suspicions.
He dragged two trembling legs and walked forward slowly, staring at the face that was almost blurred in his memory. He couldn't control it anymore, tears fell down, and his voice was choked and trembling: "Mom... "
Shen Xuan couldn't help it anymore and hugged Bai Sujuan in front of him, that is, his mother. Before he was seven years old, she gave him the ultimate love and care. When he was seven years old, she left his mother forever. Mother.
Bai Sujuan gently patted her son's head, comforting him, again and again.
Just like when her son was wronged at school when he was young, he would come to her after school to complain and complain. At that time, his son also threw himself into her arms, cried and complained about his grievances, and she held him gently and gave him a hug. He embraces and enlightens.
However, her son was still a few years old and only reached her knees, so she had to squat down and hug him.
And now,
Her son is already a head taller than her...z.
However, he still rested his head on her shoulder as before, expressing his grievances and sadness.
Bai Sujuan gently stroked his hair and said, "Cry. Cry when you feel wronged. Don't hold it in your heart."
"Mom knows, I'm sorry. It's a pity that I couldn't be by your side these years, causing my little Xuan to suffer so much injustice."
"My mother has heard all your experiences over the years and the grievances you have suffered."
"However, Xiaoxuan, don't doubt yourself. Mom's Xiaoxuan is not wrong, it's just them who are wrong."
"But Xiaoxuan, you forgot one thing, something very important, very important..."
Shen Xuan raised his head blankly and looked at his mother in confusion.
Bai Sujuan stared at his face and said: "It was your mother's departure that prevented you from receiving complete maternal love. It was even because of your father's behavior... that your native family was missing something. Mom knows that you are very eager, very eager. Love, longing for other people's love and care, longing for others to take you into their hearts, longing for other people's hugs and kisses, longing for other people's warmth, but Xiaoxuan, at any time..."
Bai Sujuan paused, then said seriously and firmly: "At any time, never forget to love yourself, and love yourself the most."
Do you love yourself the most? Shen Xuan was stunned.
Bai Sujuan continued: "Whether it is in family, friendship, or love, you must put loving yourself first. No matter whether others express love to you or not, you should not think about giving, sacrificing, or trying to please." Get love and care.
The first thing we have to do is to love ourselves. If a person does not love himself and regards himself as so humble, then he will not be able to love others, and he will not be able to attract those who love him."
"Xiao Xuan, at any time, don't think about giving or sacrificing to get love. That kind of love is illusory and short-lived, like poison wrapped in honey. If we want to get love, the first thing we have to do is Love yourself, do interesting things that you love, and do things that make your heart happy. Don’t wrong yourself, and don’t please others.”
"Loving yourself is not selfishness, it happens to be self-love."
"Xiao Xuan, your name was given by your mother. Do you know the meaning of the word Xuan?"
"Xuan refers to sunlight and means warmth."
"Mom hopes that mom's Xiaoxuan will strive to be his own sunshine, strive to grow towards the sun, strive to become his own sun, and then... embrace yourself and warm yourself."
"It doesn't matter if you are alone, you can give yourself a hug."
"It doesn't matter even if you are lonely, you can comfort yourself."
"It doesn't matter if you are lonely and cold, you can keep yourself warm."
"Let the light warm yourself first, and then share the overflow with others."
Chapter completed!