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Chapter 1771

Xue Ling asked back with a funny look: "When I grow up, I love to run outside, and each has his own work and circle of friends and colleagues. Even if I have a football team, I will feel that I have fewer at that time."

Everyone laughed.

Xue’s mother couldn’t help but remind: “When I first gave birth to one more child, I was fined a lot of social support by the neighborhood committee. The third and fourth child were one child, so our family could only be considered as having a third child. I was fined once when I was a second child, and then I gave birth to a third child, which was fined a lot of money that year.”

"It's okay, it's okay." Liu Ying smiled and said, "I said on TV that the country now encourages everyone to have more babies, the more the better!"

Xue Ling chuckled and explained: "No, it's just a third child. There is no encouragement as much as possible."

In fact, among her friends at her age, there are most of them one or two, and there are very few cases of four children like her.

"Hey!" Xue Zhilan interrupted: "Not to let go of the third child, even if it is fully relaxed, young people nowadays are not willing to have more. I have two sons and three grandchildren, and there may be only three great-grandchildren in the future, or even fewer. Many young people like DINK, and some don't even like to get married."

Dad Xue lowered his voice: "Fortunately, we guys have grown up in a big family, and we are all together to be harmonious, otherwise we have to worry about this."

"Don't say it!" Xue Zhilan said: "At most young people have two children, there is no more."

Liu Ying said "Oh~~" and said, "The young couple of Yangyang said that they were enough for one child, and they said that one child and two babies were enough. I was worried secretly! Fortunately, they were pregnant with twins, and if it was just one, they might just have one."

Xue Ling was not worried, explaining: "When their child is born, we will help him take care of it, and then ask a professional nanny to help subsidize some milk powder and daily necessities. As long as young people don't feel too stressed, they will have one or two more. Children who grow up with big families will not only want to have one. But we shouldn't force it, after all, this is the choice of young people, and it's not easy to interfere too much."

"Wrong!" Xue's father hurriedly reminded his daughter: "You can't be too enlightened about this matter! Young people are greedy for comfort when they are young, and they know how miserable they are when they are old. It makes sense that the older generation says that there are more children and more blessings. If there are many children, then the responsibility shared by their parents will naturally be smaller in the future."

Xue Ling thought about it and explained: "It's not that I want to be enlightened, but that the times cannot help us not being enlightened. Nowadays, young people have high freedom and extremely free thoughts, and the things they pursue are much more complicated than ours. In addition, their generation pays more attention to themselves and will not think about too much responsibility and how to prepare for the distant future. They are more at will and pay more attention to their own self-feelings."

Modern technology is changing with each passing day, and information technology is extremely developed. The stronger the independence and better privacy are protected, the more young people will pay attention to themselves.

No matter how busy she was in the past, she would try to take time to spend with her children. No matter how tired she was, she would not dare to stay away from her family for a long time.

Despite this, the generation gap between her and her children is still very large. Even though she has been studying, she tries to change and adjust with an open-minded attitude, and the generation gap will be narrowed, and it will still be there.

"When they get old, they will regret it." Xue Zhilan agreed with his cousin's idea and said, "Most parents will consider their children. As long as they can manage themselves well, they will never bother their future generations. But what they are most afraid of is that they will not be able to cook sooner or later, and they can only rely on their children. People eat grains and grains, so how can they not get sick? Once they get sick, their children have to go to the hospital to make money and hire families. It is not easy to do! The older generation always says that there are many people and the power is great, and the reason is that. If there are many children, they will have money to contribute money and strength. After the responsibility is shared, even if they are not filial, they must fulfill their own responsibilities."

"Yes!" Liu Ying nodded constantly: "Why do people have to raise children? Isn't it to pass on the family line, and to have descendants who can rely on when they are old?"

Xue's mother thought so, and said loudly: "When I was young, I felt that my children were less, my financial pressure was less, and my life was better. When I got old and disabled, all the pressure would be transferred to my children. What should I do if I regret it? It's time to give birth to it? It's said that the benefits of the elderly are good, but the most important problem is still not solved. When you fall ill and have no money, who will find someone to take care of you? Even if you go to a nursing home, you have to have money, right?"

"Mom, I forgot to bring your headphones." Xue Ling hurriedly took out a small thing from the old man's pocket, carefully stuffed it into his ears, and debugged it, and reminded him: "Remember to bring it with you when you wake up, otherwise you will start to speak loudly without realizing it."

Mother Xue said a few times, laughing loudly.

"No wonder you always feel that you were talking a little softly today! It turns out that you forgot again! Look! This is the principle that you must raise children, right? When you can't cook by yourself, at least someone will remind you and help you."

Everyone laughed.

Dad Xue said earnestly: "Sometimes I can't help but wonder, is it too wrong for young people to advocate for free and willful thinking nowadays? You say that we humans are originally a group living, and we live together without others and rely on ourselves to live on everything. We will definitely not be able to survive. Even if it is really possible, it is similar to wild people or animals in the wild, so we can't be considered human at all. We can't get rid of materials, so why are we talking about spiritual freedom? "

"Uh..." Xue Zhilan chuckled: "That's right, not right. Brother Wu, I feel that this question is more like a philosophical question."

Dad Xue laughed and stopped.

"It's too difficult. We are not young people anyway, so we must not understand. They don't understand us, and vice versa. Let's not talk about it, and then play chess."

Liu Ying turned his head and reminded him again: "Ling Ling, you still have to let a few children have one or two more, at least one person has to have two. We are both good at both men and women, no matter how many men and women, we have to have two or three."

"Okay." Xue Ling smiled bitterly and pretended to agree very happily, "Mom, don't worry. When they give birth to a baby, I will definitely contribute money and support my actions in terms of money."

Four children mean at least ten grandchildren. She needs to save more money quickly, exercise her health, and strive to be a good grandmother in the new era in the future.

So she hurriedly took out her cell phone and contacted Xiao Liao to prepare to start work tomorrow.

Cheng Tianyuan came back and took off his coat while coming over.

"What are you doing? Haven't the private room already been booked?"

Xue Ling lowered his voice: "I plan to have a meal with Xiao Liao at noon tomorrow. I am going to sell a portion of the stock I have on hand and leave some money to spare."
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