Chapter 1907 Can't Control It Anymore
Ah Hu frowned and asked, "What if it's true? You didn't see how quarrels were!"
"No matter how powerful it is, it doesn't matter." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "How serious can a couple quarrel? You helped you and also helped your son - that's wrong. Xiaohuzi was incited by you and beat Shan You - you are also responsible for this matter!"
"I...I didn't say I was right." Ahu was irritated and held his forehead, "Aren't I so angry at that time? I have only two precious grandsons, so how could I bear to stay on the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan's tone was a little slow and he whispered: "It's just a discussion at the moment, and it hasn't been decided at the end. If Xiao Huzi refuses, Shan You will naturally not do it rashly. This matter mainly depends on Xiao Huzi."
Ahu said "Oh!" and said unhappy: "Youyou is also an unintelligent! He listens to her parents in everything! She does whatever her parents say! She only thinks about her parents, why don't she think about us! My mother is widowed and raised me, and I was in my thirties before marrying Wang Qing. I am just a son of Xiaohuzi. I finally have two grandsons, but I don't need to be single-handed for three generations - how can I let the little guy adopt him to the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Don't think too much. Xiaohuzi and Shan You are still young, and they are planning to have a third child. The couple of Shan Yue have been sick in recent years. The only daughter, Shan You, is married here again. The two old men are too lonely and they will inevitably want a lively and cute little guy to be their companion, so they make such a request."
"What about me?" Ah Hu shook his head: "I can't bear it either! I want my mini tiger too!"
Seeing him angry, Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind: "Calm down, your blood pressure will rise again."
Ah Hutteng fell on the sofa and spoke in anger.
Cheng Tianyuan wiped Xiao Xiaohu's mouth and coaxed him to watch TV aside.
"You, you must have a little mentality. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If you are anxious here, maybe Shan You and Xiao Huzi have already made up and discussed it. If your son and his daughter-in-law are just a quarrel, you will pretend not to hear it. If the quarrel is so strong, you have to go forward and persuade him to leave. When the quarrel is quarrel, no one will give up. But only one party is pulled away, and if there is an elder to coax him, it will be fine soon. You are good - if you don't help persuade him, you will help your son! This is your biggest mistake today."
"Actually, both Ah Qing and I were in love with Youyou." Ah Hu said in a muffled voice: "You know this too."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "I know! But at that time everyone was angry and couldn't calm down and think about it. If they could calm down, why would they quarrel, right?"
Ah Hu sighed deeply.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "My daughter-in-law is not as good as her daughter. My Xiaoxin is the youngest in the family. She is the most coquettish and has many bad habits. Although I love her the most, I have to say it when I should say it, and I have to scold it when I should scold it. Ling Ling also said that she is the most worried about the children. But Xiaoxiao is different. We can scold Xiaoxin, but it is not good to talk about her daughter-in-law, even if the tone is heavier. Even if my daughter beats her, she was raised by us. If you break the bones and tendons, you can grow up and recover as before. The daughter-in-law is different. It is duty to love her, and it is too much to scold her."
"You rarely scold children," Ah Hu murmured: "It's not like Xiao Huzi-I've been angry with me since I was a child!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Every child is different! Xiaohuzi has been naughty since childhood, and we are all a bit gentle. He angers you, but he is also filial to you, right? We Xiaoxiao is also a good child, diligent and polite, and can endure hardships. She grits her teeth and perseveres. She has less than two years of school and gave birth to two boys and two girls for us in one breath. She is a great hero in our family. Just this, our whole family must love her."
Ahu couldn't help asking: "If the mother-in-law ran away and said he wanted one or two of them to take their surnames - can you agree? One for them?"
"Let Yangyang and Xiaoxiao decide by themselves." Cheng Tianyuan laughed softly: "Ling Ling and I really can't care so much. When my mother was still there, I was angry that Xiaoyu and Xiaopeng didn't follow my surname "Cheng", and even had a lot of trouble for a few days. Do you still remember this?"
"Yes." Ah Hu replied: "Remember."
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "I had the same idea as Ling Ling at that time. I left this matter to Xue Yang and Xiaoxiao, and we would not interfere. My mother couldn't accept it because she was an old traditional and old head. Ling Ling and I had the same idea. Anyway, no matter what the child's surname was, they were our grandsons, and there was no difference. The four children, one or two of them, each of them took our surnames. But no matter what their surnames were, they were our children, and there was no difference at all. Brother, the times have changed, and people's thoughts and ideas are also changing. Don't care too much about what is there, it is the truth to live a peaceful and stable life."
"You said it too easily!" Ah Hu said depressedly: "That's because you can see it openly... In fact, you are also very traditional in your bones."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled softly: "I have changed a lot over the years. Partly because Ling Ling has changed me, partly because I am older and have taken many things lightly. I don't know why, maybe I have lived for a long time and have a lot of calmness. Some things that seemed to be dead in the past now seem to be just trivial matters, and Xiaoxiao doesn't care. I am indeed old."
After living for a long time, many things are no longer caring. Sometimes it is powerless and helpless, sometimes it is indifferent and calm, and it is also the calmness and wisdom accumulated over the years.
Ahu thought about it and whispered: "What you said just now - some people think bird's nest is treasure, while others think it is garbage. Whether it is treasure or garbage, the most important thing is how that person thinks, right? When you don't care, it doesn't matter. When you care, it is put in your heart."
Ayuan and Ling Ling are both open-minded people, so they didn't care much about what their grandson was surnamed, and they left it to the younger generation to deal with it.
He is different from Wang Qing. They care too much, so they are worried about gains and losses.
"That's the reason." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Don't take it too seriously, you can be more relaxed. If you can control your sons and daughters, and if you can control your grandchildren, can you continue to manage it? When the great-grandchildren? When the ancestors changed their names and surnames, they thought they just recognized it accurately and remember which clan they came from. Later, there were more people, they lived in trouble, married and intermarried, and gave surnames and changed surnames, which had been a long time since we were alive. It was already good enough for the children to live well and live a stable and happy life. Brother, take everything lightly."
"Oh..." Ahu sighed softly: "Forget it, let them young people make their own decisions. It's really... I can't control it."
Chapter completed!