Upstairs, outside the corridor

Mother Xue sat on the chaise longue, basking in the sun and blowing the sea breeze.

Xue Ling took a hair dryer and carefully blew the old man's silver hair, while reminding him: "If you wash it at night, it's not good to run out directly. The sea breeze is strong, the wind is cold at night, and the hair is wet, so it's easy to catch a cold all of a sudden."

"I get it." Xue's mother joked, "I'm just old, not stupid."

Xue Ling put down the hair dryer and helped her comb her hair.

"I have already told Butler Li and An An to help you wash your hair and lie down and wash it without bent your neck. You must also remember that you should not bury your head for too long."

"I know, I know!" Xue's mother teased herself: "I'm old and useless, and I can't even lower my head. When I was young, I refused to bow to difficulties. Now that I'm old and have no difficulties in life, I still must not bow to my head."

Xue Ling laughed and gently stroked the old mother's silver hair.

"Because you are a new era woman who can't bow your head, and you are born to not know how to bow your head!"

Xue's mother smiled with a bitter smile and said, "The so-called new era has long passed. Our new era decades ago, and now the new era is young and has nothing to do with us. The new era is so beautiful and so novel. We didn't bow our heads, but we had to bow our backs."

"Aren't it all like this?" Xue Ling smiled and said, "I am a generation younger than you, and I have to accept my old age, let alone you."

Mother Xue chuckled and sighed: "It's easy to accept old age, but it's still harder to accept your old age. You, do whatever you should do, and your dad and I can still move. Besides, isn't Ayuan there? He is more careful than you and likes to nag us old guys more than you."

Xue Ling couldn't help but ask, "Do you praise your son-in-law or scold your son-in-law?"

"Of course it's a thumbs up!" Xue's mother said excitedly: "He is a son-in-law, and taking care of us is not his duty. He can do this, all of them are affection. Can I succeed if I don't like him? He just did it so well that we can't pick on it. We can only do whatever he says."

"Yes!" Xue Ling joked: "What I said, you occasionally pretend not to hear it. Ayuan only said it once, and you immediately obediently executed it. As expected, the son-in-law's face is still valuable!"

"Of course!" Xue's mother said without hesitation: "You can't compare with him! You can't compare with him at all!"

Xue Lingle saw that: "So, I asked your son-in-law to stay and take care of you two, and I worked hard to take my grandchildren."

When Mother Xue thought of several great-grandchildren, her heart suddenly felt soft.

"Everyone is still young, they cannot live without their mother's age. Xiaoxiao hasn't come back yet, so you have to help take care of it. It is a responsibility to show the children to others."

Xue Ling was amused and crying: "I am a grandmother and I have no obligation to look at the child, but I have the responsibility to look at the child."

"Of course!" Xue's mother explained: "If a young man entrusts his child to you, he will believe that you have to help them take care of him. If you can't take care of him well, and the child gets sick, the young man will naturally think that you are not caring for you, or that you are not doing well. This is how you take care of your child. If you do well, you will secretly blame you."

Xue Ling understood the hint in the old mother's words and said, "The child and his parents cannot be separated for a long time. The epidemic in China is relatively stable, and the situation is better than abroad. It's been eight or nine months since I came here, and it's time to go back."

Mother Xue nodded: "Yes! Just help with it, you can't rely on you for everything. You are old and can't keep up with this society and can't teach your children well. After all, your children have to rely on their biological parents to teach them. You are grandparents, you can't compare with other parents. Don't always think that you are the only ones who are great, and young people are much better than you!"

"That's that's it." Xue Ling emphasized: "The key is to rely on their own parents. We just support us, and we can't be full-time grandparents."

Mother Xue raised her bare eyebrows and whispered: "You have to think about other daughters-in-law. You have more than one son, and more than one daughter-in-law. You help the second son take care of four children, what about the old man? If you help the son take care of his daughter, how can you help your daughter? You have to think more and more, don't just think that if you can help. The eldest son already has one child, and will have a second child soon. The fourth son is about to give birth to a child soon. The third son and the others are not far away. The four are your babies, and you won't favor anyone, but if you tend to be one, the days are long, others will have no objection? Ah?"

"Yes." Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "You are right. In the past, there was only the second family, so we will naturally help them more. Now the eldest also has children, so we can't always help the second family."

Mother Xue looked left and right.

"You, don't think that your daughter-in-law are reasonable children, you can be careless. It's one thing for them to be reasonable. As elders, you have to keep a fair rule for a long time. Otherwise, as long as you go, young people will inevitably feel dissatisfied and even quarrels."

"I understand." Xue Ling gently stroked his mother's hair and said warmly: "Thank you for your reminder."

Mother Xue nodded with satisfaction and whispered: "You guys have been grandparents for a few years. There must be something you can't think of. Remember, don't help any household or any one. They are all your children, just treat them equally. They must also be consistent in their own treatment. They are all the things they have, and we will help them. If they have something to do on the fly, they can do it. It's okay for a short time, but it won't work for a long time. You, no matter how powerful you are, you can't be three heads and six arms, so you have to be more cautious."

"Yes." Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "Ayuan and I are no longer young, and we are prone to dizziness when we get fussed by the child. Now there are four or five, even if we have nanny help, we are still overwhelmed and very busy. If we have more, it will be even more impossible."

"Take care for you." Xue's mother continued to remind: "It's not that the children are unfilial. They have to make money and take care of their families and children, and they have no time to take care of you. While you help them, you should take care of yourself. Once you fall ill, they can take care of the young and don't care about you old people. Take care of yourself, and you will be comfortable in body and mind, and the children don't have to worry about them. While you love others, you should take care of yourself, especially the elderly at this age, which is more likely to be ignored by them."
Chapter completed!