Zhu Bamei ran to Ye Yuran and said, "I seem to understand! If I want to straighten my back in front of a man, I have to hold on to the business of making money by myself and not leave it to anyone."

Ye Yuran smiled. She looked at Zhu Bamei, and then looked at Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei behind Zhu Bamei, and said, "There is a saying that "the economic foundation determines the superstructure". Maybe you have never heard of it, but that's probably what it means. Whoever holds the economic lifeline of the family in his hand will have the final say. Before, you thought the world was unfair. We had a female red class. Women had to learn things and improve their abilities. But men could enjoy their success without doing anything. But the world is so unfair, because the 'economic lifeline' of this world is controlled by men, and all the rules of the game are decided by men..."

"If you want to break this rule and let a woman speak, women must work hard to catch up and strive to stand on the same line as men before they can be qualified to speak."

"The reason why your sister-in-law can speak at home is because I let them hold the money in their hands and the income from their respective rooms. If your brother wants to eat, it depends on your sister-in-law's face. Your sister-in-law's waist will naturally become hard."

"Of course, don't think that in our family, you sisters-in-law have the right to speak, so they can show off their power. You must know that the world is up to men. In other words, only if you brothers are willing to "give" this step at home and are willing to "give" your sister-in-law to stand up, your sister-in-law can be like this now. If your brothers don't want to, even if I give your sister-in-law the things, your sister-in-law may not be able to hold it."

...

Speaking of the latter, Ye Yuran's face became serious. She didn't want Zhu Bamei, Lin Sanmei, and Lin Simei to really think that after she had a few business, she could really stand up straight and challenge the man.

The rules of the game in this world are set by men. Within a limited range, Ye Yuran can let women be the "head of the family", but within this range, the one who really makes the decision is still men.

So once you step out of this range and show up outside, it is still a man.

The three people who were originally happy were as if they were poured into cold water by Ye Yuran, and their hearts were blew up.

——No, after talking for a long time, isn’t it back to the starting point?!

——Does it just be possible to watch like this and can’t do anything?

It was like the darkness before dawn. Before we were woken up, everyone was confused and nothing was left. Suddenly, a few people were awakened and found that they could not do anything. That felt really bad.

Looking at the lost three people, Ye Yuran laughed again and said, "Okay, don't be depressed. Although the rules of the game in this world are set by men, how to play in this game is not completely up to the man to decide. You can look at your third sister-in-law. Although she married your third brother, you dare to say that she is holding the Xu family's dowry in her hand. Will she not be able to live well in the future?"

Zhu Bamei still likes Xu Yujin, the third sister-in-law, and nodded: "It shouldn't be true. Not to mention that the third brother is not a fool, the third sister-in-law is also a clear-minded person. As long as she doesn't do anything stupid and holds so many dowry in her hands, she will definitely live a good life."

"That's because your third sister-in-law is clear-headed. She knows what she wants and knows how she can make her live a better life under the rules set by this man." Ye Yuran said with a smile, "Women can't just love and love in their eyes. Put everything in their eyes on men, be happy with men's joy, and be angry with men's anger, and treat themselves as a man's accessory. Otherwise, no matter how much you hold in your hands, you will still not be happy."

Although Ye Yuran did not say it explicitly and Xu Yujin did not place all the joys, anger, sorrow and happiness on Zhu San, this is probably what it means.

Zhu Bamei looked surprised: "Mom, aren't you angry? Although I'm also a woman, my third sister-in-law... The third sister-in-law married the third brother. She has married the third brother, so she doesn't regard the third brother as the "god". There are other ideas, is this..."

A little unauthentic?

Zhu Bamei thought that Xu Yujin married Zhu San because Xu Yujin really fell in love with this man, and he had to do this man.

Forgive Zhu Bamei's mind, there is love and love. After all, she is just a little girl over ten years old. While caring about gains and losses, she does not forget to imagine the so-called "love".

"Why am I angry?" Ye Yuran smiled and said, "It's not that your third sister-in-law doesn't like your third brother, but when she likes your third brother, she left a small part for herself. When a woman likes someone, she still remembers to like herself and maintain her independent personality. That's a truly successful woman. And the woman you third brother likes is also such a woman."

Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei are already at the age of looking for each other. Ye Yuran did not hide it, so he made clear the little things between men and women, and picked some of them that they could say.

Ye Yuran told them not to think that men like women who are "obedient" in every way. If they follow them and everything, they will not take this woman to heart.

There are many women in the village who "masterly husband is the best" and Ye Yuran can "strike" them to death by picking up a few of them.

Ye Yuran couldn't say that Liu's mother's family was such a person. He only mentioned the woman who was beaten to death by her man last time but was still sent back by her parents, serving her husband's family and living a miserable life.

After talking about the other party, he used his own example: "Look at me and Old Man Zhu again, how dare he treat me like that?"

Without Zhu Bamei's answer, Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei quickly shook her head: "I dare not."

——Not to mention whether Uncle Zhu is such a person. With Aunt Zhu’s tough personality, even if Uncle Zhu wants to resist, he is probably not his opponent, right?

——Who doesn’t know that Uncle Zhu was suppressed by Aunt Zhu in the entire Zhujia Village?

"Then why didn't he dare?" Ye Yuran asked.

Zhu Bamei, Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei: "..."

I dare not answer this.

Ye Yuran smiled, not because she wanted them to answer, but because they understood that this is the case between men and women. Only when you dare to resist will men not dare to "do whatever they want" to you and do not take you seriously at all.

Ye Yuran also knew that this example was a bit inappropriate. She also took out Zhu Da, Zhu Er, Zhu San, Zhu Si, Zhu Wu and others one by one to let them understand that different couples have different ways of getting along, but it is probably like this - women cannot really follow men in everything.

Only a woman who "remember to like herself" and who will be good to herself will attract another excellent man, let him learn to be nice to her and live a peaceful life.
Chapter completed!