A distance leads to resentment

"It's worth it! Professor Nie, you just have a good time in class. Why are you so excited?" Nie Guangyi put down the coffee in his hand and drank the last sip before it went cold.

"Butou, dad is not excited. It has been so many years. If this is a meaningless thing, then dad's regret will only increase day by day. You know, dad..." Nie Tianqin couldn't continue.

"It's all over..."

"Datou, dad still owes you a personal apology."

"Again! Do you really want to come to Italy?" Although Nie Guangyi was asking rhetorically, his tone was somewhat compromised. He asked aloud: "Have you finished all your classes this semester?"

"It's still summer vacation, Big Head!"

"Okay, you can come if you want. See when you can buy the tickets." Nie Guangyi paused: "It's best to wait for two days, I have to entertain a friend these two days."

"What friends? Male or female?"

"Female."

"A woman? A good woman!" Nie Tianqin was very happy.

He is not a doctoral supervisor or a professor at the moment, he is just an old father with a bit of a gossip mentality.

"How can a woman be fine? Don't you know that it is difficult to raise a woman with a villain? If you are close, you will feel inferior, and if you are far, you will be resentful!" Nie Guangyi did not want to have anything to do with women.

"Dad didn't set a good example." Nie Tianqin hesitated to speak.

This topic cannot be discussed in depth.

Once you get deeper, there will be some insurmountable problems.

Nie Guangyi didn't know what to say.

If his mother were still alive, he would definitely complain to Professor Nie now.

From the fear of being dominated by a tiger mother as a child, to growing up...

His mother didn’t even see him grow up...

Professor Nie actually didn’t either…

Family love is often the most difficult emotion to describe in words.

Distance will weaken most love, but it can deepen the understanding of family love to a certain extent.

Nie Guangyi thought that after fourteen years of emotions, if he were in China at the moment, he might still have a lot of hesitation.

There is a lot that cannot be said.

Being so far away, I feel that whatever I say is normal.

Nie Tianqin said that he had not set a good example.

There is no doubt about this matter.

The marriage between Father Nie and Mother Nie was originally a mistake.

Father Nie was actually pretty much the same as he is now, a celibate.

The label of [Ominous Person] was the most fundamental reason why Nie Tianqin came up with this idea.

Nie Tianqin was only three years old when he was sent away.

When Grandpa Qiu and Grandma Qiu gave him away, they said that such a young child could not remember anything and would only adopt his father and mother when he grew up.

But Nie Tianqin actually has feelings and memories.

Moreover, he always knew that he was adopted.

Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie did not deliberately tell or hide anything.

Nie Tianqin felt very insecure inside.

He always wakes up in his sleep.

He craves recognition and is afraid of making mistakes.

Even if he had a smooth journey, from Ph.D. to stay in school, and from stay in school to doctoral supervisor.

There is still a piece missing in his heart.

In that era when everyone got married young, Nie Tianqin waited until he was thirty-eight to get married.

What made him willing to enter the marriage hall was not love, but Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie's death order, hoping to have a grandson in his lifetime.

Nie Tianqin is filial.

His resistance to marriage is because he thinks there is something wrong with him.

Apart from not wanting to get married, he was almost completely obedient to Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie.

As time passed, Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie became terminally ill one after another.

Nie Tianqin's balance also shifted.

Mother Nie happened to come into his life at this time.

Mother Nie is not a heinous person. There are tiger mothers everywhere, and there are not many like her.

The problem is that her expectations for Nie Tianqin exceed what Nie Tianqin can give.

She got pregnant just two months after getting married.

Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie were still alive at that time.

Although they were not Nie Tianqin's biological parents, they gave him the best education and left all their property to him.

When he was dying, the two elders asked Nie Tianqin to go back to Changqiao Village to take a look.

At that time, Mother Nie was still a very gentle and knowledgeable person.

With her pregnant belly bulging, she returned to Changqiao Village with Nie Tianqin.

Brought a lot of things.

The differences between the couple began when Nie Tianqin decided to unconditionally support all the Qiu family's grandchildren, all the way to college graduation (as long as they can pass the exam).

Nie Tianqin's decision made Nie's mother feel that he didn't care about his home at all.

Things developed step by step like this.

Mother Nie also suffered from postpartum depression.

But at that time, there wasn't much talk about various types of depression.

In short, Mother Nie's temperament changed drastically and she became hysterical since her confinement.

She later placed almost all her hopes on Nie Guangyi.

It is usually difficult for mothers like this to get out of depression.

Mother Nie was lucky because she gave birth to a genius.

He has performed extremely well in many aspects since he was a child.

No matter what expectations she had, Nie Guangyi always exceeded them.

Gradually, Mother Nie also developed her own hobby - making money.

Nie's mother is a whole round younger than Nie's father.

When she got married, many people thought she was after the Nie family's money and house.

Mother Nie proved herself with practical actions.

Her clothing fabric business is quite successful.

At that time, there were not so many luxury brand men's clothing entering China.

Starting from the fabric, domestic suits are a bit behind.

Many of the fabrics introduced by Mama Nie have never entered the domestic suit market.

Many big-name suit brands in China also started to rise from that time.

The quality and style are both passable, and the price is not cheap at all.

Nie Guangyi's meticulousness in dressing, to a certain extent, also stems from Nie's mother's "demanding" attitude since she was a child.

Thinking back, he was also greatly influenced by his mother.

Whether it is the emphasis on clothing or the mysophobia in life, I have to say that it all comes from the true legacy of Mother Nie.

It is extremely stressful to live with a mother who is obsessed with mysophobia and storage, and regards her son's grades as a way to show off.

Fortunately, he also has a father who has discussed everything with him since he was a child.

To sum it up, Nie Guangyi used his IQ to be far superior to that of his peers and secured a relatively less repressive childhood for himself.

He is already ranked number one in the entire grade, and he has various hobbies, from calligraphy and Go to piano and marimba, all of which are "cheating" to win wherever he goes.

Mother Nie really has nothing to find fault with.

Not to mention not letting him go out to play during the winter and summer vacations for reasons that would take up study time.

Thinking of his mother, Nie Guangyi doesn't have many good memories.

It was precisely because I didn't have it that I felt guilty after my mother passed away.

If he had listened to his mother in everything, if he had not made those wooden arch bridge models.

He may have gone to Tsinghua University, and his mother may still be proud of him.

I'm not in good condition, so I'll post half a chapter first, and let me think about the rest of the plot first.
Chapter completed!