Jin Jiyun frowned and said, "Why are you laughing?"

Li Chengyou thought for a while, since he had always chosen to be honest with Jin Jiyun in order not to let Jin Jiyun feel estranged and to be willing to correct his identity, then there was no need to be secretive. It was better to break the self-respect in Jin Jiyun's heart.

Looking at Jin Jiyun, Li Chengyou said slowly: "Jiyun, we have grown up together since childhood. In fact, sometimes I know you better than you know yourself."

Jin Jiyun frowned a little and looked at Li Chengyou without saying a word.

Li Chengyou said: "There have been a lot of boys who have liked you since I was a child, and some even made trouble for me because of you. But you have never been disrespectful to those boys. You even deliberately avoided dating other boys because you were afraid that I would misunderstand you.

Take the initiative to contact. But tonight you..."

Jin Zhiyun said hurriedly: "I have already explained to you that I have nothing to do with him."

Li Chengyou nodded: "I believe you." After a pause, he shook his head and said, "But what I want to say is not a matter of trust, but that you...are unwilling to accept it."

Jin Jiyun said anxiously: "I didn't!"

Li Chengyou chuckled lightly and said warmly: "Let's not argue first. You listen to me first. - How to put it, let's put it this way. In fact, I can understand you, really.

Let alone you, if any woman met a man like me and said she could accept it without hesitation, she would definitely be deceiving herself.

If you think about it, human nature is actually the same.

I have always rejected you. I have never done anything romantic with you, nor have I been very considerate and gentle to you. Even though your heart is tied to me, I still push you away and never accept you.

That's all, but I'm telling you clearly that if you follow me, you have to accept my playfulness, my dissoluteness, and a man who can't be devoted to you.

Let's be honest, let alone you, any woman would definitely feel hesitant.

She will definitely be thinking, is it really worth living a life with such a man? Is this really the life she wants? Does she want a small warm home, a husband who only loves her wholeheartedly, or does she just want

Don’t worry about food and clothing, but only meet material needs while ignoring spiritual needs?

She will definitely ask herself, she will definitely hesitate, and she will definitely be confused.

I understand all of this, really.

This is human nature, human nature, and a very normal psychology, so I can understand why you agreed to have dinner with that boy tonight."

"me……"

Jin Jiyun opened her mouth to speak, but looked flustered.

She suddenly discovered that Li Chengyou really understood her, even better than she thought.

Li Chengyou summarized: "That's why I hope that we can be separated for a year, and we will not see each other again within this year. You can understand your heart clearly, figure out what kind of life you want, and calm down."

Think clearly, do you really like me as a person, like me enough to accept all my shortcomings, or have these more than ten years of long-term relationship given you a misunderstanding, mistakenly thinking that you belong to me? Is your feeling for me just

A habitual obsession."

Jin Zhiyun opened his mouth and was speechless. After a while, he said in a low voice: "Is this the reason why you have never accepted me? Do you think I don't really like you, but just have a crush on you?"

Li Chengyou said: "Jiyun, we have been together for too long. We have been neighbors since childhood, and we are the same age. We went to the same elementary school, the same middle school, and the same high school together. We were not separated until college, but

We are in the same city again. We have stayed together for so long that you have no time to think, and we have formed an inertia.

but now.

We all need to calm down.

I am very clear about what I want, and I will live according to my nature. But you are different from me. You need to ask yourself, what exactly do you want, and what kind of life do you expect?

. I don’t want you to be filled with regrets after you get together with me, and feel that every day you are with me is a torment.

I hope you can live a happy life, even if it's not that happy, but at least you won't regret it."

"me……"

Jin Jiyun hesitated for a long time, wanting to say something, but seemed not to know what he wanted to say.

After a while, Jin Zhiyun said: "What if, if I choose to leave you in the end, will you regret it? Will you feel regretful?"

Li Chengyou's eyes flashed slightly and he nodded: "Of course I will regret it and feel regretful, but I hope you will live a happy life."

Jin Jiyun hesitated and then said: "What if, if I accept other boys during this year, after finally dating, I still feel that I like you more. If I come back to you in a year, will you still be willing to accept me?

?”

Li Chengyou rolled his eyes secretly and couldn't help but want to complain——

What are you thinking about?

But considering the current atmosphere, Li Chengyou still held back. Looking at Jin Jiyun, Li Chengyou said frankly: "I told you, I am a selfish and tacky man. If you are not the one I choose to marry, you are just a man who is doing it for the occasion."

Woman, I don’t care no matter how complicated your past is. But as for the marriage partner, as long as it’s a man, no one really likes second-hand goods.”

After a pause, Li Chengyou softened his tone: "Zhiyun, what I said may be too explicit, and you may not be able to accept it easily. You may even think it is unfair and that I disrespect women and objectify them. But frankly speaking,

This is what men are, men are very selfish. Men don’t care at all about women who think they don’t belong to them. But when it comes to women who think they belong to them, men are far more petty and obsessive than you.”

Sighing, in order to let his chosen wife-to-be know more clearly where his bottom line is, Li Chengyou said warmly: "Actually, men's mental hysteria is much higher than that of women. If a man cheats on her, the woman will have to endure it."

You can still accept it reluctantly, but most men can't accept it if a woman cheats. Those who are not married will simply break up, and those who are married will get divorced directly.

This is the nature of men.

Although many men nowadays seem to not care whether their wives are second-hand or third-hand when they get married, in fact they don't really care, they just don't have the capital to care.

With a salary that barely covers food and clothing, you want to find a self-respecting and beautiful woman. Men are very realistic creatures. They know it is impossible, so they don’t have such high expectations. But if you have a fortune of tens of millions and are not short of fame and wealth, and

Or there are certain material conditions, but most men actually care about women’s lack of self-respect.

No man will really like a woman who has no self-respect. Even if she gets married, there will still be a thorn in her heart. If there are no conditions, that’s it. If there are conditions, most men will not suppress themselves once there is temptation from the outside world.

Because of the thorn in his heart, he can easily find a reason to convince himself when faced with temptation. Even when the temptation from the outside is strong enough, divorce will not have too much of a moral burden on a man.

Guilt.

Because a woman who has no self-respect looks down upon herself, how can a man value her so much?

I am a man, and I am confident that I will definitely be rich and famous in the future. Even I will not hide it from you Jiyun. You know that my movie is being released. I can tell you now, but this movie, etc.

After the box office accounts are settled, I will have at least an income of more than 2 billion. If I choose a woman to get married, what kind of woman do you think I will find?"

Jin Jiyun was silent.

Li Chengyou's words undoubtedly showed his bottom line and also broke her nascent unrealistic fantasy.

Jin Jiyun is convinced that although Li Chengyou didn't say it clearly, from today on, if she meets that senior alone again, she will even have any too close contact. If she doesn't get discovered by Li Chengyou, that's it. Once he does, Li Chengyou will not give her any more

Any chance.

Li Chengyou has always expressed his attitude to her very frankly. He doesn't care about the temperament of a woman who flirts with others. But when it comes to his marriage partner, Li Chengyou has extremely severe mental mysophobia.

But even though he understood this, Jin Jiyun became even more confused.

For Li Chengyou, who is so lenient towards himself and strict with his wife, is she really ready to spend her life with him?

Can she really ignore Li Chengyou's romance and debauchery?

Jin Jiyun suddenly doubted himself.

perhaps.

She really needs to leave Li Chengyou for a while.

"Okay, it's getting late, I'll take you back."

Seeing Jin Jiyun's silence, Li Chengyou knew that she needed time to think, so he stood up and prepared to leave, but after thinking about it, he added: "Jiyun, some things may seem complicated, but they are actually very simple. When faced with choices,

, you only need to ask yourself whether it is worth it? Are you willing to do it? Once you make a choice, can you really have no regrets? As long as you think about this clearly, the choice is actually very simple.

In fact, the most terrifying thing in human nature is only one thing: being greedy and greedy. The driving force for human progress is dissatisfaction, but the biggest original sin of human beings is also dissatisfaction. People know themselves and are always happy when they are content."

A few minutes later.

A gust of night wind blew by, and flowers and leaves were floating. Under the bright moonlight, there was no one on the bench.

After a while.

Suddenly, a slim figure came out of the darkness not far away. He looked at the bench and then at the path extending into the darkness, curled his lips, and couldn't help but mutter.
Chapter completed!