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Author: Qingyue

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139. Tutoring

"Many parents make mistakes: give the carrots they think are good, not the flesh and bones they need, so the other party cannot feel your love, because you love the wrong one, and instead blame the child for not knowing gratitude."

Parents should have compassion for their children. What is kindness? Compassion means giving the other person happiness, compassion means helping the other person get rid of pain, life is really hard. As parents, if they truly love their children, they should help the child get rid of pain, make him happy, and provide him with school. Learning knowledge is compassion, allowing him to avoid his own shortcomings, and leveraging his strengths is also a kind of compassion... Let him choose a lifestyle that suits him to live in a lifestyle..."

Seeing Aunt Qiao lowered her head and pondering, Zhang Yu suddenly realized something.

"Aunt Qiao, look, I'm just a middle school student, and you're a college teacher. Are I showing off some classes? I'm sorry, I'll make you laugh."

"No, no, big girl, I said before, whether it is wisdom or knowledge, you are above me. You are not like a senior high school student who is only seventeen years old. Before meeting you, I believe that diligence can make up for your shortcomings. Now I believe that some things are innate. For example, my son is not a material for studying. I insist on forcing him to study, and almost forced him to die. You are gifted, which is something that ordinary people cannot surpass even if they try hard."

Zhang Yu's actual psychological age is already thirty years old, and she has been from later generations. The knowledge and information in later generations are far from comparable to that in this era, so she will naturally understand many things that people in this era do not understand. This is just a problem of poor information, not that she is talented.

Zhang Yu could only talk nonsense: "No, Aunt Qiao, you have been too rewarded. I just like reading books, especially psychology books. Because I am afraid that education will not be good, I will delay my younger brother and sister. So I am interested in children's psychology and education, and have studied some knowledge in this area."

Aunt Qiao believed Zhang Yu's words: "Is there a book like this? Can you lend it to me?"

"I saw it from the library, you can go to the library to take a look!"

She took out the paper and pen: "What is the name of the book?"

Zhang Yu didn't expect her to be so serious.

"I have read a lot and can't remember the specific name. It's a book on teenage psychology."

Aunt Qiao still remembered it seriously.

Zhang Yu was a little ashamed. He didn't know if there were any books in this area in the library at this time. Even if there were some, they were probably some obscure and boring books with strong textbook-style professional terms. Unlike later generations, there were so many down-to-earth psychological books, which were easy to understand and interesting, and very practical.

Seeing Zhang Yu go silent, Aunt Qiao said, "Speak! Big Girl, let me talk about the content you learned from the book. You educate your younger brothers and sisters so well, which means that the method you learned is correct and desirable. You can introduce more and let me learn."

The knowledge about educating children in later generations was overwhelming. Zhang Yu planned to marry Xia Yunbo, and their days were settled. So when they were fine, they would also read some educational books and videos, combined with her life experience, so they said that big call to Aunt Qiao.

Since she likes to listen, let’s share it with her. Based on her understanding of her two contacts, she is the kind of person who is very strict in life, is strict with herself and children.

This kind of person has experienced the benefits brought to her by self-discipline and diligence, so she feels that as long as the child does it like her, he will be as excellent as her.

"Parents raise children, just like Confucius said, take advantage of the situation, follow the trend, discover advantages, ignore shortcomings, and let your child soar in the sky if he is an eagle, let him swim in the water if he is a fish. If you only let the fish fly according to your own preferences, or let the eagle swim in the water, it can only be a tragedy."

"What's his advantage?"

"I just got in touch with him. I don't know. You raised him for more than ten years, don't you know?"

"Big girl, I'm really ashamed. I only saw his shortcomings before, but I never thought about what other advantages he has."

"So from now on, you open your eyes and look with a magnifying glass. One day, you will find where his strengths lie."

Zhang Yu put the tea on for Aunt Qiao.

Aunt Qiao took a sip.

"Big girl, listening to your words is better than reading for ten years! I, a person who works in education, am really ashamed! I have been teaching and educating for most of my life, but I have not educated my children well. In other words, my education method is completely wrong. Before I met you, I always felt that I had a clear conscience towards my children. Why did my children not become successful? It was because God gave me a stupid child."

"Every child is an angel and has his own mission. As a parent, he can live his own wonderful life by sending him to his own track."

"That's great, big girl, university, are you willing to get into our school? We are a normal university, and after graduation, we teach and educate people. You should be a teacher in the future. If you are a teacher, you will send many children to their own track and live their wonderful lives. What a great thing."

Zhang Yu was a little confused.

She took the college entrance examination just to get a diploma, and to let Li Jiahui accept her daughter-in-law, she couldn't make up her mind what major she would study, and she never thought about what career she would pursue in the future.

Her original intention was to make a lot of money and then lie down. She didn't want to do a job and clock in to work step by step every day.

"If you want to go to our school, I can help you get a recommended place."

Zhang Yu waved his hand.

"Don't, I'll give Guodong homework. Teacher Miao knows that others will definitely know. As a result, you get me a college admission quota. In this way, it will become a transaction between us, which will have a bad impact on your reputation and not good for uncles."

"How could it be! This is a fact that you have good academic performance, and you have educated your younger brothers and sisters so well, which is obvious to all. This is not mixed with any moisture in this recommended place, and it is well deserved. My proposal is based on the intention of cherishing talents and without any personal selfishness."

"I know, but others won't think so!"

"Do you don't want to be a teacher?"

"I never thought about being a teacher, but your suggestion made me feel a little moved. I will think about it. Even if I go to your school, I will take the exam based on my own ability."
Chapter completed!