Chapter 266 Grandma avenges you (3)

Wu Xiuzhen turned her head and saw that her son Xiaoyu was still standing outside the door biting her fingers, staring with a pair of bright eyes and not daring to come in. She smiled helplessly and greeted Xiaoyu and said: "Xiaoyu, come in and eat, you kid, stand still

What are you doing at the door?"

Xiaoyu then walked in calmly.

Wu Xiuzhen felt that her son was a bit petty, so she explained to Cai Wenqing and Cai Wenli with some embarrassment: "Xiaoyu is a bit silly, and you guys are laughing at it. I often tell him, look at Brother Xiaobao, what a joke."

clever."

Wu Xiuzhen thought Xiaoyu was too young to understand what she said.

But after she said these words, Xiaoyu lowered her head in shame.

Xiuxiu noticed this scene keenly from the sidelines.

At Xiaoyu's age, although she is still a child, she has reached the age of self-esteem.

What Wu Xiuzhen does will obviously hurt the child's self-esteem and make the child less and less confident.

Thinking of this, Xiuxiu immediately showed her favor to Wu Xiuzhen and praised Xiaoyu: "Xiaoyu is so good and polite. Every time he comes to our house, Xiaoyu is very sensible. We all like Xiaoyu."

After hearing this, Xiaoyu's expression finally became less nervous.

Xiuxiu whispered to Wu Xiuzhen: "Xiuzhen, you can't say that to Xiaoyu in the future. Although Xiaoyu is young and doesn't like to talk, Xiaoyu already has his own thoughts. What you say will hurt the child's self-confidence.

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Wu Xiuzhen suddenly realized this and quickly glanced at her son, her eyes slowly showing a light of shame.

She thought that she had not paid attention to her son's self-esteem when she spoke just now. If Xiuxiu hadn't reminded her, she wouldn't have noticed these changes in her son.

So Wu Xiuzhen quickly apologized to Xiaoyu.

"Xiaoyu, mom didn't mean what she said just now. You won't be angry, right?" Wu Xiuzhen was worried that Xiaoyu would remember it in her heart.

Xiaoyu is a sensitive person.

Xiaoyu must have understood what she just said.

Xiaoyu just shook her head a little lonely: "No."

Wu Xiuzhen breathed a sigh of relief and quickly picked up a chicken leg for Xiaoyu and put it in Xiaoyu's bowl.

"This is the chicken drumstick that Aunt Xiuxiu made for you. Come and try it." Wu Xiuzhen said to Xiaoyu.

Xiaoyu nodded, ate the chicken drumsticks, and then forgot about what happened just now.

Liu Xifeng looked at the way Wu Xiuzhen got along with her son and couldn't help curling her lips, somewhat disapproving of it.

Their family members are also very cautious in getting along with each other.

No wonder Xiaoyu always looks cautious.

Nothing like her Niuniu and Zhuangzhuang.

They are all raised extensively.

It's time to hit, it's time to scold.

As for an apology?

That's impossible.

Even if she said something wrong, she would never apologize to Niuniu and Zhuangzhuang.

Therefore, the two children Niuniu and Zhuangzhuang are very honest and not glassy at all.

Not to mention saying a few words to them, even if they were beaten, these two people would soon forget it.

I saw Liu Xifeng yelling: "Niu Niu Zhuang Zhuang, come to eat!"

Niu Niu and Zhuang Zhuang were like two hungry little pigs, they quickly ran to Liu Xifeng and sat down next to them.

Niu Niu and Zhuang Zhuang looked at the fragrant dishes on the table and couldn't help but take a deep breath.

"Wow, it smells so good!" Niu Niu said.

Zhuangzhuang couldn't reach it, so he stood up and stood on tiptoe to try to reach it.

When Liu Xifeng saw this, he slapped Zhuang Zhuang on the buttocks. He glared and shouted, "You can't sit still and you can't stand. You sit down and eat!"

Zhuang Zhuang pouted: "I can't reach it!"

Liu Xifeng picked up the plate, put a little of it into the strong bowl, and put the plate back: "You can't tell me if I can't reach it! What do you do with a donkey-skin mouth open? You just know how to eat!"

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Zhuang Zhuang was used to hearing these words. He was very solid and didn't mind at all. He picked up his chopsticks and started to eat the meat and vegetables in the bowl in front of him.

As for what his mother said, it went in one ear and out the other, so he wouldn’t take it to heart!

Xiu Xiu looked at the way the children in Liu Xifeng's family and Wu Xiuzhen's family got along with each other, and couldn't help but think of a passage she read in a book during her pregnancy.

That passage roughly means that every family is the first stop for a child’s growth.

The environment in which a child grows up will shape the child's character and is crucial to the child's growth.

Take Liu Xifeng as an example. Liu Xifeng has no education and is a rough person. He yells back and forth when getting along with children, so the two children Niuniu and Zhuangzhuang also have a solid character.

Wu Xiuzhen is from Shanghai, and she has a stingy side in her heart.

In addition, Wu Xiuzhen's mother-in-law doted on her grandson very much and always looked at her grandson like the apple of her eye. She held it in her hand for fear of falling and held it in her mouth for fear of melting. Therefore, Xiaoyu's child's personality tended to be sensitive.

As for my own child, Xiaobao...

Xiuxiu is also hard to describe.

Her son Xiaobao was originally a good, kind and simple child, but he ended up meeting a naughty father like Rong Jin.

As a result, Xiaobao, a kind and innocent child, was teased to tears countless times.

As a result, Xiaobao grew up in an environment where he and Rong Jin battled wits and courage.

In order to avoid being cheated too badly by his father, Xiaobao also developed eight hundred tricks as he grew up.

So now, although her son Xiaoyu is only four years old, he already talks and acts like an adult.

Moreover, Xiaobao's way of thinking about things is also more careful, unlike Niu Niu and Zhuang Zhuang, who have rough lines.

All of this was tricked by his father.

Now that Xiuxiu recalled the passage she read during her pregnancy, she couldn't help but feel emotional.

The family is indeed the first stop for a child's growth.

Childhood is crucial to a child's growth.

Happy families are all similar, but unhappy families have their own misfortunes.

Having a happy childhood is the greatest happiness in a person's life, while an unhappy childhood takes half a lifetime to heal.

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When she came back to her senses, Xiuxiu found that she had thought too much.

Everyone at the dinner table was munching on their food, but it was good for her that her distraction had even reached the level of philosophy.

Thinking of this, Xiuxiu couldn't help but laugh at herself.

However, from Xiuxiu's point of view, she currently thinks that the environment in which Xiaobao grew up is quite healthy.

She allowed Xiaobao to unleash his nature to his heart's content and never forced Xiaobao to study or do things he didn't like.

The baby is only four years old. The most important thing now is to give the baby a healthy and happy childhood to prevent the child from having personality problems when he grows up in the future.

A problematic family has a huge negative impact on children.

Not bad for boys, their repair ability is relatively strong.

But this may not be the case for girls.

Xiuxiu thought to herself that if she had a daughter in the future, she would have to be careful in every possible way.
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