Chapter 15 Friends Say
There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of having a heartfelt friend. It is impossible to make friends with friends at once, but if you make friends with your heart, start with friends with wine and meat. Everything has to be done step by step. If you make friends with wine and meat, you can at least make a group of friends with wine and meat. For utilitarian friends, you can reach the state of "friends with wine and meat". You think it is much better than people who have no friends. There is no secret to making friends, only the wine table and hobbies. These two are shortcuts to making friends. If you finish a table of wine, at least you will be familiar with your face. After talking, you will drink wine a few times. You will either be fake friends or fake brothers.
For others, follow their hobbies and make a lot of achievements. People live in this world and cannot have hobbies. If you think that a person has no hobbies, it means you have not noticed that the world is as dark as a crow, the world is as lustful as men, and the world is as lustful as brothers. He likes to eat and drink, and accompany him to eat and drink; he likes to sing and dance, dance and sing with him; he likes to pretend to be innocent and play art, and accompany him to poetry and sing. He likes to do so several times, so he will not worry about not attracting you as a close friend, at least he is a like-minded person. There are two details about making friends, willingness and listening, and it is better if you can observe the words and expressions. Be willingness is willingness to give money. If you have money to make friends, you don’t have money to make friends, and you want to make some useful friends, and you are extremely stingy, so you have to ask you to go there.
Another point is listening, which is actually very important. Why do leaders like to hold meetings so much? Because there are a lot of people who listen to their speeches so much. If you are the leader, you don’t have to take the initiative to make friends, and friends will naturally come to you. Why can psychologists become friends with almost every patient? Because they can resist and not speak, know how to listen to the patient’s feelings, but can look like an audience with relish. In the society that is getting faster and faster, how many people are willing to listen to you being sick or not. When you learn to speak less boredom and listen more patiently, your scheming will be slightly deeper and your friends will be more and more. True friends, regardless of age, no matter how low and low! The meaning of friends has different concepts in the eyes of different people.
Friends, no matter how long they meet or how many times they meet, as long as they are treated with sincerity, they are friends.
Some people try to compliment when they use their friends, and when they achieve their goals, they sneer at them, and even mock you in front of other friends and belittle you in front of others. In fact, this is not a friend. This is just a tool he wants to use when he is in trouble. A friend just forgets you when he is happy, finds you when he is bored. He can't think of you when he is playing, and you are indispensable when he is giving gifts.
Friends do not have to contact you every day. Although they are all over the world, they will never lose contact with you or forget your mobile phone number. Maybe they have become distant because of their busy work, but holiday text messages are also warm longing. Friends do not have to report everything to you. But when you have something, you say, the more difficult it is to be with the same person, the longer the friend, the more plain, the purer, and the longer the sincere.
A true friend will not laugh at you when you make a fool of yourself. When you are in trouble, he will not look at you coldly and laugh, can't help you, nor will he run away like a ghost. Friends do not have to use each other, but can also help each other. Sometimes one more friend has one more hand. When you need help, one more hand is extremely precious.
A true friend will not be jealous of you when you are excellent, and will not destroy you or even take it as a handle when you tell him the secret. When you are sad, he will persuade you with sincere and simple words. When you are worried about your work, you can tell your pain, and he can accompany you to relieve your boredom and tell you some truth. A true friend is only one step behind your lover, only one level lower than your parents, and a true friend can accompany you to spend your life forever. I envy my previous comrades, which is the true relationship that is made. This has been through the mountain of swords and seas of fire, and the true relationship refined with true fire is reliable. This has been born and die together, and the brotherly love that is exchanged for is true love. Although I know that people in that era lived a very painful life, and they did not leave much, and there was not even a few photos, but there was one thing you kept, which is brotherly love.
A true friend will not be divided into age, gender, or rank relationships, or wealth, as long as you are sincere enough. A true friend will not just treat it as someone else’s business when you are in trouble and listen to your jokes. A true friend will try his best to help you, understand you, and pull you! A true friend will not cross the moral bottom line to occupy your love or real things!
"Rabbits do not eat grass by their nests" seems powerless in the face of "temptation". In real life, the bloody incidents of best friends changing their love rivals are always heartbreaking and hard to guard against. Love is the mutual fulfillment between two people, so it is not the fault of best friends when they change their love rivals. The man you love deeply cannot escape. If the phenomenon of "good friends changing their love rivals" is happening around you at this moment, then please muster up the courage to give up them both. The only sigh for yourself: if you are not careful in making friends, you must also accept your fate. In this case, what is worth sad about in your life? Just treat it as garbage under your feet, and let it become a stepping stone to your life success.
A true friend will not scold you because friends respect each other. Even if there are any conflicts, they will be kept in their hearts. At most, they will be alienated from the relationship and will not scold you. If you can scold your friend, then you are not real friends. You will not scold you behind your back, because those who scold others behind your back are villains. If you respect villains far away from others, such people will never become friends and will only use you.
There are many sayings about true friends. In my eyes, this is true friends. If a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare, so when you have such friends, you must cherish this friendship and treat all kinds of emotions with your sincerity. True friendship will last forever!
The more people are afraid of embarrassing, the more they care about other people's opinions. The more they care about other people's opinions, the more they will ignore their own feelings. The more they ignore their own feelings, the more they will live for others to see like puppets. Finally, they imprison their true self step by step in the deep darkness. Losing themselves is the root of our inability to find happiness and happiness, and the root of all psychological problems. Time is changing, we are all changing, life is not perfect, life is not perfect, regrets and incompleteness will always exist. Then tell your friends. Sometimes friends stand on the standpoint of a third party and can speak their opinions fairly, and sometimes friends' kind-hearted persuasion will make you suddenly enlightened.
Chapter completed!