Loneliness is not terrible. What is terrible is that you cannot be calm in your heart, have no sense of security, and cannot find comfort in your soul! Giving up your baggage, changing your personality and transcending yourself is the whole meaning of life!

My friend said: "I am really envious that you not only have a pure personal world, but you are also very rich - a relatively large amount of time. I think it is a kind of happiness to have a relatively lonely period of time on the way of life's growth.

Enjoy it. How to do it? If you can't open your heart temporarily, you can go online. You can also talk, chat, communicate and discuss with many people online. While doing this, you can not only completely relieve your so-called loneliness, but also

I have benefited a lot and never tire of it. For example, I read books by good friends such as Lin Yutang, Confucius, Zhuangzi, Zhu Ziqing, Shakespeare, Laozi, Mencius, God's Instructions, etc. While reading, I asked myself more about why, and then thought more about what to do next.

Do, what should be done, don’t read a book because there is no purpose. Reading a book is not just a matter of reading it. You can learn a lot of knowledge from it and learn a lot of principles of life and doing things. There are many philosophical things in it, which need

Experience it yourself, refine it, and take more eye-brow-style notes, which will benefit you a lot; you can also try to recite Wang Xizhi's "Preface to the Lanting Collection" and practice calligraphy! Maybe you can also master the pen, and more

There is no guarantee that you will be able to write again and become a Fushengtong; you can also draw a self-portrait (comic) to relax; or you can go to the cinema and watch a movie, and maybe you can laugh it off.

Or maybe you can be moved to a complete mess. Anyway, don’t hold it in alone. Give your mood a break. My friend, loneliness is a rare kind of happiness. Learn to enjoy it and be happy. Not everyone can have it.

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Loneliness, first of all, you need to understand what loneliness is? Then, you need to know why you are lonely? Only in this way can you find the cause of loneliness. Then you can fundamentally solve loneliness and defeat loneliness from the bottom of your heart. First of all, what does your loneliness feel like? How do you do it?

Looking at loneliness? Why do you feel you are lonely? Feel empty? Feel lonely and cold? Or feel like no one can understand you? Why does this happen? Are you not good at communication? Or can't understand others or everyone can't understand you?

Is it caused by the pressure of your life and work? Or maybe you personally feel that you are born lonely, like a lonely star. If you just want to pretend to be cool, you don’t have to pretend to be lonely. You can pretend to be A, pretend to be C, etc.

Or you can try pretending to be between A and C, but pretending to be lonely is too connotative and not advisable. Whether you are a lonely person or you are the lonely person is unknown, but I know that lonely people are

Very pitiful, they are all pitiful creatures.

Language is the bridge between people. Only communication can make each other know each other, from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to close friends. This all requires communication. People can't just talk without doing, but they can't just do without talking. They must be able to speak well.

Only by communicating more and doing more things that promote mutual friendship can you make friends. Let’s talk about understanding. Understanding is mutual. Only if you understand others first can others understand you. Don’t take it for granted: everyone should

Understand me, if you are self-centered, then it would be strange if you are not lonely. Because you are not RMB, don’t think about others surrounding you.

There are many reasons for loneliness, and everyone is different. Some are because of broken love, some are because of pressure, some are because of being deceived, and some are because of betrayal by people around you. But the result is that you feel lonely, and your heart is very lonely.

Loneliness, you are really lost. This is mainly caused by the lack of purposeful and systematic design, promotion and management of your own life, the lack of a happy life, no long-term goals, and no plans. You often give up on things halfway, and lack perseverance and perseverance.

.Interests and hobbies always have little to do with reality, and there is no big passion. We just muddle along. How will we live in the future? It is very distressing and we can’t find a girlfriend. The final result forces us to

Establish a goal in life and work hard to achieve it.

To feel happiness in life, don’t always be alone, don’t live alone, do things that make you happy, and make friends you like. Learn to give up, be tolerant and patient, learn to smile at the people and things around you, and learn to

Give. Also, don’t regard happiness as a goal. Happiness is just an experience. People who only want happiness and comfort will not achieve anything. This kind of pleasure is only temporary and will not bring you happiness. Find it for yourself

Do something to enrich your spiritual life and keep in touch with friends! In fact, everyone has such a day in their life.

The pressure of life and work means that you should be able to adjust the rhythm of life, think less about work and more about things that make you happy. There are many ways to reduce stress in life and work, so I won’t go into details. Choose something that suits you and do it.

Stress, loosen up, and try to relax in life. Finally, I wish you can be cheerful. It is useless to say more, the most important thing is your own heart. As long as you are determined to get rid of loneliness, you will be able to do it!

Everyone can tell you the truth, but I am really lonely. Now I really like to hide in a room alone. The surroundings are closed and the light is dark. I cannot hear the noise of the city. I hide in my world and ignore anyone.

I am alone. This state of loneliness often lasts for a day. I can be a quiet and beautiful man and stay quietly for a day without being disturbed by others. In this completely closed house, I enjoy the loneliness I bring to myself.

Feeling. It's really like being isolated from the world. There is no deception, no intrigue, no scolding, no disgust, no love, no talking. A person's world is so quiet.

In this room with no one, I can only accommodate myself. It’s just me. I don’t need anyone else to accompany me. Just be alone. But often this emotion is negative and always makes people feel unhappy.

, a solo love song, the most bitter. Recently, I watched "Six People", which released "I don't have a true friend around me. I was wrong, I regret it to death. I didn't do well in the past and lost many friends. Now I can't recover the past."

Friendship, so now I am very lonely, the kind of loneliness without friends.

Is life just the first time we meet? I don’t want to think about the past. I’m still as bad at expressing myself as before. Even in the illusory network, I still don’t want to tell my true feelings. There are many things I can’t say. I’m afraid.

Faced with the fear of sharing, God ordered me to never share my feelings with others. Only by using a pen name can I say something and write something. So I wrote a book, hoping to record my feelings and let the readers know how I put myself in someone else's shoes.

You can also get insights from it.

Wherever I fall, I lie down and sleep; wherever I fail, I take a rest; wherever I succeed, I leave my name; then, I dare to say "I say" loudly.

I am very lonely, just like the loneliness in the mountains where birds are singing. No one can understand me. My heart is gradually becoming deserted like a grassland being gnawed by sheep. There is no life at all, and my whole person is feeling decadent.

I have never felt so lonely. Not only do I have no one to talk to, but more importantly, no one can understand me. My heart has never been truly opened, because there is no one in this world who is worthy of my trust. I can talk to strangers. No matter how lively and cheerful I appear in front of others, I can also pretend to be taciturn in front of my relatives. I am cheerful outside for survival, and reticent at home for the purpose of living. I play different roles in survival and life. In fact, I found that I was really tired.

As a boy, I feel that I am not strong. I shed tears for the fate and suffering of the little girl in "Warm Spring", I shed tears for the kindness of the villagers and the transformation of the children in "Metamorphosis", and I can even shed tears for the death of a criminal. I shed tears in confession. I don’t know why I shed so many tears. I was moved accidentally. Maybe as a boy, it’s dirty to say that I often shed tears, but I can no longer hide my fragile side.

I am at home, day after day, time is passing through my fingers, and I know that I am wasting time. But who can live with me? I feel really bad, I am a poor person who no one cares about and loves. Well, lonely people are equally shameful, and we are all spurned by others. We are all the same kind of people, losers in life. Deep in our hearts we all hide the same loneliness, the same intolerance of loneliness, the same lack of friends. Lonely people They are all similar, they all have different "reasons for loneliness", and they also have similar "reasons for loneliness", but they can't find a way to get rid of loneliness. Why is this? They are as similar as fate, and life has a long way to go. Look for so and so, and don’t disturb them. But it’s okay. We all have ways to endure loneliness, ways to endure loneliness, and a strong heart. I comforted myself and said: “Everything will be fine, really, haha!”

Being a man is hard, being a man is tiring, being a lonely man is hard and tiring. I hope there is someone who can share the joys, sorrows and joys of life with me, and go with me to the places I long for. I don’t ask for wealth. A simple and ordinary life is fine, but it is so difficult to find a person like this. I have imagined what you will look like in the future thousands of times, but why do you still not show up... Where are you?
Chapter completed!