Job selection is also an important turning point. Unlike employment, most of the time we are employed, forced to find employment, do jobs that we don’t like, and deal with people we don’t like.

Then if an opportunity in the outside world is placed in front of you, you are selective, and this is career choice. Many people can encounter this turning point. For specific choices, please refer to your life to make a choice.

Similarly, what are the bosses and chairmans in society who make a fortune now? How many students from famous universities are there? It is normal for junior high school students, doctoral students and subordinates to be under the doctoral students. But if you analyze them carefully, there are basically no high-level education among the first generation who started their own businesses. Some are also "supplemented" after all. Without exception, they are all courageous and wise people. Can't this tell the problem? So, I think it doesn't matter if my literary foundation is not deep. After all, writing books does not depend on literary foundation. Of course, it would be good if there is, but unfortunately I don't.

I don’t want everyone to believe me, nor do I want to say that I will definitely achieve such achievements in the future, or that I will achieve such a height when luck comes, and their height is not simply achieved by myself. Opportunities in the general environment of the times and opportunities in my own small environment are indispensable. So, I think if I have nothing, have no strength, no luck, and don’t work hard, then I will say this all day long, then I will be too disgusting, right?

I just want to explain one thing: in the vast society, high education does not mean high quality, high alcohol tolerance does not mean high quality, high vision does not necessarily mean high taste, and high level does not necessarily mean high results. Nothing is eternal. The two results are exactly the same as the benefits of being appreciated by the leader and the boss by drinking with the leader and the boss.

For the author, no matter how excellent we are, no matter how others do not recognize you, there is no soft use. The key is the second point: how to position and play your own qualities, how to find your own position and field, and how to make others admire you. Only by doing this can you get real gains of your own!

I also said that I was powerless. After all, I am a failed author and have no right to point fingers at your life. So I hate those who think they are very successful talking about life, ideals, and careers to us. Such people are so disgusting. I have never met such people. If I meet them, can we say loudly to them: "I'm sorry!"

After scolding them, I walked away casually. I am such a person, so there are no successful friends around me. Because I hate others being proud of me in front of me, this will make me very disgusted. I am a straightforward person, so I can't hold it in, I can only say it out, so! Haha, it will naturally be annoying! This is also a matter of no choice. If there is a way, I want to please people like them, but I don't want to do this, nor do I want to learn it.

To sum up, the turning points I mentioned are actually! I just said it casually. Don’t take it too seriously. If you really say to such people like me, “I’m sorry”, I’m afraid that your life will probably be as down and out like me. This is not good, so don’t imitate it. There are risks in cursing people, and you need to be cautious when scolding, haha.

It’s not just these in your life, but relatively controllable. If you reincarnate, win a grand prize, or something, it’s also right, but it doesn’t make sense. Because if you have such good luck, you don’t have to care about these things anymore, and it won’t be so painful.

These types of turning points are not unique, for example, you may have chosen a career many times, so don’t be angry if you miss a turning point. You will always make a few mistakes in your long journey of life. Learn more lessons, scold more people, be scolded more, and listen less to other people’s suggestions and reminders to get wider.

Alas, no matter whether it is loneliness or sadness, we can live alone, what else do we want to do!

Sometimes I would ask my blind date girl this way: Silence, we just say nothing, we just want to remain silent like this?

The blind date girl asked me back: Aren’t we not talking? Why do I want to talk? You are a boy, don’t you have anything to say?

Maybe this is the embarrassment we encounter during blind dates! It’s just that everyone is unwilling to speak or speak first.

The blind date girl asked me like this, maybe she was complaining: Do you feel good in this situation now? Then why do you still have to go on a blind date? You think you are living a good life, it’s not enough to live alone, so why do you still have to come out to meet others? Aren’t you living a good life alone?

I have nothing to say, and I don’t know why she thinks so. Of course, I don’t want to live alone or live alone. I just don’t want to live alone, and I don’t want to live alone before I go on a blind date. Can this be because of fun? I’m also drunk.

Why didn't that woman want to talk to me? Do you don't like me? I want to know the reason? Because she doesn't cooperate, there is nothing fun, so it's a failed blind date. So the blind date ends immediately, and then everyone goes back to their own houses and finds a mother? That's it?

For blind date girls, is this how I exist? I don’t want to be the first in your heart, nor do I want you to have a lot of affection for me as soon as I meet, nor do I think that sparks of love will be created between us immediately. I know you are very busy, I am very busy, and we are all very busy.

So everyone takes such a little time out of their busy schedules, and then, everyone doesn’t say anything, just let it spend this rare opportunity in this embarrassment. I know that you will be very tired every day because of work, and you need to meet many people and take care of many people.

But this time you didn’t even have time to talk to me, you didn’t even have the idea to talk to me, and you didn’t even have the idea to try to communicate with me. Then what else can I say, and you won’t have anything to say to me, right!

But in your mind, I am not even the tenth place. I can’t even enter the top three. Even if you are a stranger, you will take the initiative to greet him, but it won’t work for me. For me, it’s the last place. You don’t want to greet me. What else can we say?

No matter what it is, it is more important to you than me. Sometimes I feel that what you say to the waiter is much more than what you say to me, and you will keep asking them to recommend special dishes. But what about me? You didn't say that I asked me to introduce myself and tell me what advantages I have.

If you ask me, you know that I have many advantages, and then I will continue to express my own advantages. In this case, are you still afraid that I will be silent and unable to speak? But what I didn’t expect is, in this case, how can you say nothing at this time? Are you dissatisfied with me? Or do you hate me? Or after you see me, you are too lazy to pay attention to me.

I am so worthless to you? How unremarkable do you need me to appear!

The blind date girl said: I have never thought so, I have never said so, and I have never had any dissatisfaction with you.

But I don’t think she is just dissatisfied with me, she is just dissatisfied with me, she is just saying this all the time. It’s just because I’m too stupid, I can’t understand you, I can’t understand your attitude towards me.

When you are silent, do you know what I am thinking? I should understand that you are not busy or embarrassed. Compared to me, you are just thinking about other things in your heart, those you like, not the ones you don’t like in front of you.

When eating, I threw me aside and just cared about the food in my mouth. I should also understand that the food is much more attractive than me. It’s not that I don’t want to talk, you just don’t want to talk to me! You think this is quite boring, so you don’t want to communicate with me, let alone please me. It’s fine if you say you don’t please me, but when you say you can’t say ‘I love you’, I should wake up completely.

You are embarrassed to say, you just don't want to lie! You are afraid you haven't liked me for a second, right? I really can't stand this boring me anymore. Am I ridiculous in front of you? You are so worthless to me, and you have nothing to say to me, and you have nothing to say to me. Do you have no curiosity about me? I am also drunk.

Do you know? I hug my cell phone every day and wait for you to call me. I can't always call you. Can't you take the initiative to call me and let me know that you care about me, just like I care about you. If you don't call me, I will get angry. It's not that you are angry with you, but that you are angry with me. Am I really such a boring person? Every day, just to wait for your call, I think about how to call you and say something to you every day?

So, sometimes I feel that I can't let myself live so sadly. I must make you like me just like me. I plan such strategies every day, which can make you admire me or become interested in me again.

I once said that to you, and I would like to say once that in this world, only the deepest love can we know how to let go and fulfill, and only the deepest love can support the waiting for loneliness. This is love. When I am uneasy about others, others often become indifferent.

Should I be more casual? No matter what happens, I pretend to be indifferent. I will sleep in every day, put my hands into my pants, scratching my thighs, and eating steamed buns for nothing.

I just don’t want others to find out that I became nervous and then looked at me with strange eyes. I would be really sad, and I would be really breathless if I did. After all, I am just an otaku. I am not a great god or an amazing man. I am just an ordinary man.

I don’t want to meddle in other people’s business, I just want to write my own articles well. Is I such a broad-minded person to you? Just because you like me, I’m just that kind of person.

Or is it because I have never dated people, can't you feel what you are feeling now? Or do you think there is no one who wants to read my books? Or do you think there is no one who likes me? To me, am I such a poor person? You don't need to sympathize with me, nor do you want you to pity me. I want to say that I am doing well, and you don't need to worry about me.

Now I have no time to write because of writing. If I can’t see you, I can’t live anymore. If I can’t hear you, I can’t live either. If I don’t let me write anymore, then what’s the point of living? It’s better to die.
Chapter completed!