Chapter 345 Change
Sometimes I feel very tired, very tired, very boring, and I want to give up, but what else can I have to give up? I don’t need to tell you when I’m tired and annoyed. Gradually, we get annoyed, and I have no idea. I look at us and get tired, and I get tired as I do it. As I do it, we get tired, and when I write, we have nothing. I know if I will give up, but I think as long as you don’t leave, I will not leave, and I will not give up.
Study, study, study, write, write, and we write again. If we have something to do, go to the bookstore to read books and write. You can get a lot about career, ideals, dreams, interpersonal communication, future trends, etc. The competition in this society is too fierce. If you don’t study, you will be eliminated. If you don’t update, no one will pay attention to you.
Do you know how many college students can’t find jobs now? You don’t think that no matter where they are, the competition is so fierce. The competition at work is so fierce and the competition in writing is so fierce, so we must know one thing: after graduating from college, it is not that the study is over, but that the study has just begun. Also, I personally recommend a good online novel, which is "God Instruction" written by our God-instruction brother. In this noisy world, we need to have a place that suits us. We write all our fatigue on our faces to place those youths that were afraid of the past.
Let’s have some inspirational things!
The snail's shell is added by itself.
It depends on both the heaven and the earth, and on yourself.
The responsibility on our shoulders is also added to us.
We also rely on the heaven and the earth, and we must rely on ourselves.
Accept failure calmly.
Be generous and generous, and never give up!
There is no absolute fairness in the world, fairness is only at one point.
Only when the heart is peaceful can the world be peaceful.
Learn to give others opportunities.
Ranking and honor are like clouds in the sky. You can't lie in it, you will fall down when you lie in it. Ranking and honor are actually beautiful scenery, you can only appreciate it.
Anything that is done out of compassion and face will almost fail.
Every river has a dream: to rush to the sea. The Yangtze River and the Yellow River all rush to the sea, in different ways. The Yangtze River splits the mountains and opens the road, the Yellow River is winding and twists and turns, with different trajectories. But they all have a spirit of water. If the water precipitates in mud and sand during the rushing process, it will never see the sunshine.
I always believe that as long as you never give up, we still have a chance. Finally, we still firmly believe that as long as you have dreams, keep working hard, and keep learning, no matter how you look, no matter how you look, or that.
A man’s appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent, so I think I shouldn’t look for someone so handsome. Should I be a little ugly? No, not a little ugly, just like others. You like ugly people and don’t like handsome people. You are just jealous. I understand, you are particularly jealous of me, so that my talent can attract you.
Today is cruel, tomorrow is even crueler, every day is cruel, only our past is beautiful, but most of them are dying today and tomorrow's road, so everyone should not give up today. Only by doing today well can we have a better tomorrow, right?
"Why do you give up treatment and why do you give up reading?" I often think of this sentence. What does it mean?
God Instructed is an author who wrote self-reported novels. Some scholars on the Internet, and a young man who didn't understand anything, gradually left the inspiration we should pursue and turned to like vulgar novels, and were often criticized. Later, God Instructed My Brother's novels could not be written and stopped because there were no such readers and markets.
Why do you give up treatment? You obviously have many problems in yourself. Why do you escape from your heart and let yourself fall into a dark world? This sentence is what God instructs your brother to say. The original meaning is why you give up God instructed your brother to actively treat you. Now it is mostly used to mock and self-deprecating, which means the same as stopping medication and treatment.
Because it is very shameful to use vulgar words to attract readers during the treatment process, and it is not desirable at all, and we are often criticized. You should have a positive and positive attitude and a positive attitude so that you can fly higher and farther.
Later, it was used on the Internet to refer to what one person said to another person or some opinions, opinions, comments, and disagrees, so they say "Why did you give up treatment?", which contains the three meanings of humor, sarcasm, and scolding. The general meaning is "If you have a brain problem, you should go to treatment", "If you have mental illness, you should go to treatment, you should not be discharged from the hospital", which means cursing people and having a disease, and water in your brain.
The same life, but our mentality is different, and we have completely different perspectives on things. We must be able to look at ourselves, not look at others, and not look at the world outside of ourselves. We must learn to observe ourselves and know ourselves with an optimistic, open-minded and considerate attitude;
We must first learn not to be too demanding of ourselves. More importantly, we must learn to be kind to ourselves. Only by being kind to ourselves can we have confidence to break through ourselves, because there is hope for a good life. The person who makes you angry has gone far and you are still angry for him, so why bother? The philosopher Kangde said: Being angry is punishing yourself with other people's mistakes.
Looking at yourself from another perspective, that is, stepping out of yourself. What does it mean? It means that we should not be trapped in our own body and heart. We might as well take a different perspective to perceive ourselves. You will realize that the hardships, fatigue, happiness, and comfort of life depend on a person's state of mind, involving people's attitude towards life and feelings about things.
We must learn to get out of our own shadow. Looking at ourselves from a different perspective, you will face life calmly and calmly, and will never punish yourself with other people's mistakes. When pain comes to you, you might as well look at yourself positively and optimistically. Looking at yourself from a different perspective, you will find that you are excellent and the world is so beautiful.
Face our ill-fated life bravely, and find the causes of pain, lessons and ways to overcome pain on the sad barren soil, so that the soul can make a brave choice in the thorny heart to find the maturity of life. Only confident people can have hope, only confident people will work harder, and only confident people can exude our deepest strength.
We must recognize our current situation and also see our own essence. Nothing can defeat us, and we will be happy in life. Then our daily lives are good days and we will have a good mood every day. As long as we are in a good mood, the door in our hearts will be relaxed, our hearts will be bright and we will have no difficulties and troubles.
By the way, an old mother gave birth to two daughters. The eldest daughter married an umbrella businessman and her second daughter worked in the dyeing workshop. This made the mother worry every day. When it was sunny, she was worried that her eldest daughter's umbrella could not be sold; when it was cloudy, she was sad again. She was worried that her second daughter's clothes in the dyeing workshop would not be dry. She was so sad that she was also worried about the sunny day and was worried, and soon she turned white. One day, a distant relative and friend came to see her, surprised her aging, and asked her reason, but she didn't find it funny. The relative and friend said, "On the cloudy day, your eldest daughter's umbrella is easy to sell, you are happy, and on sunny day, your second daughter's dyeing workshop should be happy. In this way, you have happy things every day, and it is a good day, why don't you pick up happiness and pick up sorrow?" The old mother thought from another perspective: "It makes sense!" From then on, she smiled and was happy every day.
A person's life is always inevitable, he will get angry when he encounters unhappiness, or he will suffer from natural disasters and will not be in trouble, etc. How do we deal with it at this time?
I remember a philosopher, God, instructed him to say: Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by our views on these problems. This is very philosophical and it guides us to be liberated. Speaking of this, I think of another story:
Speaking of which, in the evening of summer, a beautiful young woman committed suicide by jumping into the river and was rescued by a white-bearded shipwreck who was rowing in the river. The shipwreck asked, "You are young, why do you look for a short-lived person?" "I have been married for only two years, and my husband abandoned me, and then the child died of illness. What fun do you think I have to live?" The shipwreck heard this and pondered for a while. "How did you live two years ago?" The young woman said, "I was free and carefree at that time..." "Did you have a husband and a child at that time?" "No." Then you were just sent back two years ago by the ship of fate. Now you are free and carefree again. Please go ashore..."
As soon as she finished speaking, the young woman seemed to have a dream. She rubbed her eyes, thought about it, and left the shore. From then on, she no longer looked for a short-term view. The young woman changed her mind because she looked at herself from another perspective, so she saw a dawn of life and felt the strength of freedom. In many cases, all our sufferings and troubles are wrong judgments made by ourselves based on the "experience" obtained in our past lives.
At this time, we might as well learn. When we have time, we have to reexamine ourselves. We cannot expect to find our own reasons in others. We must find our own shortcomings in ourselves.
It is very important to know yourself. You might as well re-understand ourselves. You will not be depressed by failure in the battlefield, failure in the shopping mall, or frustrated in the love field; you will not be complacent for fame and fortune, and praise will spread everywhere. Looking at yourself from another perspective is a breakthrough, a kind of liberation, a kind of transcendence, and a high-level indifference and tranquility, so as to gain the pleasure of freedom.
Looking at the world from another perspective, the world is infinitely lenient; looking at people and things from another perspective, people and things are all relaxed. May you be a good day every day!
May you be in a good mood every day!
Chapter completed!