Chapter 41: Caterpillars Cross the River
During a gathering, a friend came up with a brain teaser for everyone: flowers bloom on the other side, and the four seasons are like spring, as if heaven is like, caterpillars have to go to the other side to live, but a big river blocks the way, and the bridge is far away. So how can caterpillars cross the big river?
At that time, I was wondering how caterpillars would cross the river. It was nothing more than a long journey and climbing over the bridge. But my friends' answers were strange and countless people gave countless answers. It was like there were a thousand readers, and there were a thousand Hamlets.
A girl who just left school said: Take a boat! (Heaven, it’s a caterpillar, not a human.)
The editor said: It's very stupid and naive. Do you think that the current businessmen will let a caterpillar do this. Nowadays, the businessmen are so powerful. If you don't have money, you may even be able to get up. What's more, it's not a human, let alone a caterpillar, let alone a caterpillar without money. You think they will carry caterpillars, and you must step on it to death!
A business friend said: You can go there even if you hide on someone else or stick it to a car! (Ha, a genius caterpillar!)
A friend who is an editor said: When did the caterpillar become as smart as a human? Do you think it is the best caterpillar on Hua Qiangu who was dating Luo Shiyi! Not only did you fall in love with others, but you were no one else! Can it be more normal? Do you think others are like you and fight when you go out?
And the lawyer friend thought for a long time and said with certainty: Climb over the map! (It's too treacherous, only the lawyer can think of it. Although it's a brain teaser, it must be reasonable.)
A friend who is an editor said: The lawyer is the lawyer, who is the best at being clever and clever. You think I am a brain teaser! Then there must be a river on the map! You can cross the river, so that caterpillars can cross the real river, not a fake river, and not let it travel the whole world on the map.
There are many other answers, such as falling on leaves and floating over; climbing on turtles and letting them over; waiting for the river to dry up.
Yes, it's just a brain teaser, so all the methods are OK, as long as you can reach the other side. But my favorite answer is: turn into a butterfly and fly over.
Oh my God! What a wonderful thing! Dreams" is such a word that is "illusory and unrealistic". In the eyes of many people, dreams are just daydreaming, but if you have never really had dreams, you will not understand the preciousness of dreams. I like the saying "stay dreams because unless a person decides to give up his life, we must always stick to it, passively, proactively, no matter what direction we take. All successes cannot be copied, because no one can repeat the paths others have taken, different times, different environments, and different opportunities. We can only find something to learn from, that is, to see what support it
Some successful people go on, a concept, or a dream. The key to perseverance is persistence. If a caterpillar gives up and becomes a butterfly, and gives up the determination to become a human being, it will always be a caterpillar, and will always be afraid of the big river ahead of you. But when you spread your wings, you find that everything suddenly becomes clear. The difficulties before are no longer difficult. You are no longer afraid of being afraid of you, but you dare not face them before, so it turns out that it is so simple. It’s just that you were afraid of, and you gave up and don’t dare to face it, and it will become a big river that hinders you. As long as you have the determination to cross the big river ahead of you, one day you will cross it. Only by defeating your fearful heart first can you conquer this world.
Starting from a small egg, the caterpillar experiences many molts, grows up, and then becomes a pupa. On a day when the wind and sunny flowers are filled with fragrance, the caterpillar turns into a beautiful butterfly. In the admiration of everyone, it flies across the river with dignity and joy to reach the other side of the blooming flowers. If people want to succeed and change their destiny, it is important to have dreams. I think everyone should have dreams in their hearts, have the great ambitions of the motherland, find their own dreams, and do it when they recognize them, and do not follow the trend without wavering. At the same time, we should not only have dreams ourselves, but you should also have dreams.
Use your dreams to infect and influence others, because successful people must use their dreams to ignite other people's dreams and are the ones who sow dreams all the time. In fact, which boy and girl have never dreamed of going to heaven and earth, but in the face of life, many people have slowly given up their childhood dreams, so they have become those who have lost their dreams; while some people, no matter how difficult life is, never give up their dreams, so they become those who always keep their youthful dreams and passion for struggle, and can change the world and create the future.
As long as you become a caterpillar and fly over, you will lead more caterpillars to fly over. Of course, if you take the lead and retreat, it will also affect a lot. Caterpillars will also retreat. Before they become butterflies, they may all turn and leave. Then you will never see the beautiful scenery of flowers everywhere on the other side and the fragrance of flowers. So don’t give up easily at any time, be a brave caterpillar, dare to love, hate, and dare to break. Don’t be limited to the world in front of you. Maybe you are very small now, but one day you will grow up and your wings will become fuller. At that time, you will celebrate that you did not give up your dreams and guard that cruel dream.
I think this is a caterpillar that is truly smart and truly worthy of admiration. It is not whimsical, not dependent on others, not temptation, not dependent on others, not opportunistic, intelligent and diligent, not afraid of autumn rain, winter snow, cold wind and hot, overcome difficulties in the alternation of the four seasons, grow up safely with confidence and constantly improve itself, until it becomes a beautiful butterfly, and then fly across the river to reach the other side of happiness.
Not everyone should build a Crystal Cathedral like me, but everyone should have their own dreams, design their own dreams, pursue their own dreams, and realize their own dreams. Dreams are the soul of life, the beacon of the soul, and the belief that guides people to success. With lofty dreams, as long as they pursue them unswervingly, their dreams will become reality, struggle will become feats, and life will create miracles. - Robert Shule
First, have dreams. When a person is richest, he has dreams, and having dreams is the happiest thing. Second, he must stick to his dreams. There are many people with dreams, but very few people can stick to them. The reason why Alibaba can succeed is because we persist. In the fierce competition environment of the Internet, we are still there because we persist, not because we are smart. Sometimes it is much better to stick to stupidly persevere than not. It turns out that everyone believes more, and feels that every light on the ground is shining by that dream, and they all raise their necks to catch up. When the neck is hot, they feel warm; when the tan is healthy, the skin is hot, and the dream is even more
It's getting closer; it's blistering, it's already in a dream, it's painful and happy. It's soaked, it's exposed, the meat is cooked, the meat is black, the meat is muddy, the nose is crying, it's not going! It's so manly! It's so awesome to walk! It's necessary to bear it! The spotlight is off, the man has nothing to bear, it's flashing, the man is twisted, the man is so tired that he can't bear it. The man is playing with matches, the man is collecting cigarette butts, the man warms the bed, the man is basking in the moon, the man is standing there and looking at it, tilting his neck, staring at the cataract, and calling for persistence! I'm absolutely persistent, Yuan Fang, what do you think? I'm very persistent, very persistent!
Each of us has our own life. Our starting point is different, and the starting point of life is also different. We all have different dreams. Some people are closer to our dreams, some are far away, and some are even unrealistic. Although our dreams are different, we have no background, scenery, no worldly style, and no support, only the illusory dream is waiting for us in front of us; the road we have to walk is long, we have to pay a lot, we have physical strength, hard work, emotion, and even step on our friends.
After walking, the process is very difficult, the journey is very long, and the road is tortuous, so we learn to be smooth, escape, deceive, and cheat. Many people lose their dreams in a hurry because they don’t want to be that kind of self. For their own dignity, for their honesty, for their bottom line, they only pick up ordinary, plain, and mediocre. Dreams cannot be lost. Which path you are determined to take and what kind of person you want to be, the longer you stick to, the further you can go.
Once upon a time, two hungry people received the gift of an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of fresh and huge fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fish rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish set up a campfire with dry firewood to cook the fish. He swallowed it voraciously and had not yet tasted the aroma of fresh fish. In a flash, he ate the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other person held the fishing rod and continued to starve and walked towards the beach step by step. But when he had seen the blue ocean not far away, his last little strength was used up, and he could only let go of the world with endless regrets.
There were two more hungry people, who also received a fishing rod and a basket of fish from the elders. However, they did not go their separate ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cooked one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the beach. From then on, the two began to fish for a living. A few years later, they built houses, had their own families, children, and fishing boats they built themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.
It can also be like this. They also received a fishing rod and a basket of fish gifted by the elders. They came to the scenic countryside, where there were mountains and water. They put the fish in it, and they built a bamboo building. Then what? They bought a mahjong machine and made several barbecue grills. They borrowed fish rods to let others fish for others. The fish they caught were used for barbecue (of course, fish is not a free barbecue grill, nor a free mahjong machine, nor a free private room or a free box). The guests happily played mahjong, fished, ate barbecue, and drank beer, and everyone lived happily. A person only cared about the immediate interests, ate the fish, and held an inappropriate fishing rod, and eventually achieved nothing, and what they got would eventually be short-term joy; a person had lofty goals, but had to face the real life. Only by organically combining ideals and reality can they become a successful person.
Wisdom is also needed on the way forward. Only those who are good at thinking can come up with better ideas. We need to help each other. Each person has limited resources and abilities. Only by supporting each other, making more friends, and working together, can the two hungry people survive. Sometimes, we have to be willing to let go. If we only care about personal gains and losses, then we only care about our own interests and ignore the interests of others, then we will not be able to cooperate.
Why can’t there be cooperation between two strangers? It’s because many of us don’t know how to give and just want to ask for it. As a result, your greed ruins the bridge of cooperation and makes cooperation impossible. Let’s ask at the beginning, if we take out resources together, and everyone will work together, the result will be different. Therefore, the premise of cooperation is to have no reservations to each other. The same is true for love. If we retain our respective love from the beginning and are reluctant to hand over our sincerity to others, then how can you expect others to hand over all your sincerity to you? Love is a sacrifice without reservation. Love is fair. Like the two ends of the balance, no matter which side pays more or less, it will lead to an imbalance of the balance, and eventually the collapse of the balance, and the things at both ends of the balance will no longer exist.
Chapter completed!