Chapter 5 Time is precious
I have experienced youth once in my life, and the purpose is to listen to the sound of flowers blooming, watch the silence of flowers falling, and then end. During this period, we will come into contact with all kinds of people and meet all kinds of people, but we rarely accompany us to the end. Please cherish the people in front of us. Affected by the weather, mood, love time, and stock market, what happened to me? I have become sentimental recently. I feel that I have lived for a long time and still have many things I haven't done. What should I do!
Just like the lyrics of Tian Fuzhen: "I love you, you love him, he loves her, she loves him, you love me, I love her, she loves him, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he loves her, he doesn't love her, he wants to be so complicated, people nowadays like to love and love, I really don't know who they really love.
Whether it is blind dates or real-life interactions, we must try our best to get together and part. Whoever doesn’t want to meet the right person at the right time, don’t swear, and don’t delay others even if they don’t meet them. Teacher Meng said: “As an adult with IQ and EQ, you accept it if you like it, and don’t like politely reject it.” A harmonious society should be harmonious in everything, and blind dates should also be harmonious, and they should live in harmony. Blind dates are originally a matter of mutual affection, and knowing one person more may not be a good thing. Why do many good things have changed today, become extremely reluctant, become deliberately perfunctory, and become burdens for people like us. I really take every opportunity to meet seriously, treat every person I meet carefully, and regard it as a great wealth for my life experience.
Today I know why many people go crazy. Because they see things they don’t want to see, they can only deceive themselves with madness. I have always been obsessed with her, and now I understand. When I love someone, she is everything; when I no longer love someone, it turns out that he is nothing. So I don’t need romance. Romance will confuse me and make me unable to see the reality clearly. It seems that without one person, there will be no reason to live. I am lonely. The reason for loneliness is not because there is no one to accompany me, but because I don’t understand why I live. When I am tired and painful, I can cry, but love is no longer the reason to cry.
The noisy society, I am in a corner of the world, because I am too ordinary, and people do not pay attention to my existence. In the crowd of people who are clamoring, we pass by each other. The impetuous life makes us strange. We meet but never stop. In the end, we each leave without taking away a cloud!
As time goes by, maybe I am mature, I gradually like to be alone, yearn for harmony, and that tranquility. When I recall the stagnant years, why do I feel that my heart is always empty? Why do I become like this now? There are too many whys, and I can't take that step? Get closer to your heart! I have always been sad that time passes so fast, and time has slowly lost. Many real problems have emerged in front of me, especially the blind date has been put in front of me, which makes me feel very difficult and embarrassing. I don't know what to do. I try to meet others and get along with others. I just hope that she can cherish this fate as much as I do.
Life has to continue, and time will not stop for me alone. Recently, I have lived a lot of time every day. I have written, thought, thought, and write, and I am with the words every day. I have found myself in the words and let my mood fly in the words, but I still think about some things! In addition to sleeping every minute and every second. Life is like this, and I have been repeating every day, making myself feel fulfilled. Although I don’t want to think too much, I can’t restrain myself from thinking about it! I think I can also put it in the same way as the person I went on a blind date with.
"If that person has ever appeared in the world, everyone else will become a general." He Yichen said. I can't wait for that person like He Yichen, because my person has not appeared yet, and He Yichen's she has appeared, so he can wait, but he is unwilling to go and a general. Sorry, I am an ordinary person, neither a talented man nor a top student, so I can make a general. This is not a big deal. Is it wrong to be handsome?
In the world of love, there is only love and not love, no settlement, and no backup tire. He Yichen's waiting alone, there is still He Yimei, Xiao Xiao's deep love, and Zhao Mosheng's infatuated ex-husband Ying Hui's relentless pursuit, but as for Yichen and Zhao Mosheng's choice, the person who loves is always the one who is not to settle down. That is the love of the people of the imperial capital. We can't understand it in the countryside. She has only been waiting for her for seven years. What's so great? I have been waiting for my one for thirty years. Look at what I said, hey, some people are just love. (Haha, I look so elegant.)
It is difficult to find a soulmate, but it is hard to find true love. "Since the piano is on the rise, why is the sheng Xiaomo?" Perhaps the view of love is exactly this sentence, "I have never provoked you, why did you provoke me? Since I provoked you, why did you give up halfway?" Is it? Love never ends. May lovers in the world finally get married. May those who are lucky enough to watch this drama meet the love that makes you not settle for. Grab it. If you love, please love it deeply!
Do the same job every day, use the same mood, use the same movement, and use the same smile. Although sometimes you will feel disgusted, it will affect your mood! I often tell myself that no matter how tired I am, I believe I will survive. I am strong, I will not be defeated by life! I will not be so angry that people who go on blind dates will be so angry, so I exist, so there is nothing difficult for me! What life will leave behind is my happiness. A person is not lonely, but only if I think of a person will be lonely. If I think of a person for decades, I will be both lonely and lonely...
The first sentence of Tolstoy's "Anna Karenina" says: "Happy families are similar, but unfortunate families have their own misfortunes." I was so unfortunate that I was single for so many years and cried.
Chapter completed!