ps: What would the person before committing suicide look like?

After everyone sat down, I drank the "Lu'an melon slices" just sent by the nanny, took a sip, and then began to praise the fragrance of "Lu'an melon slices" in front of everyone, and began to admire the fragrance of "Lu'an melon slices" in front of everyone. Luo Liting's parents did not understand what I mean very much, and several other psychological workers present seemed to understand what I mean. One of them, the elder named Zhang Xuanting (Editor's Note: The name is a pseudonym) said: "Xiao Jiang, I like to tell the truth. Since there are psychological workers from both public and private parties present today, I have a concern: Will this case eventually develop into the administrative power of the public to suppress the conclusion of the private parties?"

After listening, I nodded frequently and said, "It's still Teacher Zhang who speaks quickly, and can understand the metaphor of my drinking tea. Everyone relies on their own strength to serve the parties, and their reputation is extremely popular! Today, I will talk about my attitude in front of everyone. The Psychological Counseling Center will never make things difficult for you because of this case. Here, I looked at it and they should be my elders. Teacher Zhang is a respected person in Wu Xi City who is famous for treating psychological depression. The juniors have long been honored. Here, their business level cannot be comparable to you in any case, so from a business perspective, I am just like

An intern psychologist is here to learn from everyone. The reason why I asked the applicant to gather everyone here is to explain this truth! Don’t think that I am tied to me from the psychological counseling center, or make decisions based on my own judgment and ability. Is it OK?” As soon as I finished speaking, everyone, including Zhang Xuanting, applauded. They had such concerns about "using public to suppress privateness" before, just like your private enterprise and a tertiary industry enterprise with administrative background to compete for the same target. Do you dare to compete with your private enterprise? Even if you fight for this time, will such major events such as administrative approval be stuck in you in the future?

Since everyone has abandoned their previous worries, they began to communicate their first impression of Luo Liting with each word, under the leadership of Zhang Xuanting. To be honest, these psychological workers are working hard to study psychological knowledge in order to have a certain market reputation. I have never even heard of the theories they talk about. I have a mentality of self-satisfaction. Fortunately, I have fulfilled my previous words and everyone can express their opinions. For my "despicable" level, it is almost negligible.

.(In your daily work, the bureaucratic style and unintentional style of the psychological counseling center have been circulating in this industry. If there is no such threshold for administrative filing, people will not look down on you. There was a colleague who once showed off his business ability and then went to a newly opened psychological studio as an ordinary person to interview a psychological counselor. As a result, the second round was defeated, and his interview score was far behind other applicants. This incident once became a joke after dinner in the psychological industry.)

Others have better business skills than you. Then you don’t have to worry about it, just listen honestly. After everyone argued, a decision was made: everyone unanimously recognized that Zhang Xuanting was the person in charge of the team, and everyone summarized their own diagnostic opinions to the person in charge. Finally, the person in charge made further work arrangements based on the information summarized by everyone. Luo Liting’s parents agreed with this decision and repeatedly emphasized that this matter should be started as soon as possible.

Originally, I wanted to spend some time introducing Zhang Xuanting. This old comrade is definitely one of the few outstanding psychological workers in China. At that time, many people knew that Luo Liting's case was the last case he took before retirement. As a result, this "search work" was very imperfect, somewhat similar to the captain of the Titanic. However, Smith paid his life for the disaster of the Titanic, while Zhang Xuanting saved his life but left a bad reputation. I thought about this later, and let it go. Zhang Xuanting didn't seem to want someone to mention this case anymore. I would like to introduce him without any hesitation. It was more or less disrespectful to him.

I don’t have a detailed description of the process of dealing with Luo Liting’s case. Anyway, everyone knows the result, but this case with great influence has integrated almost all the famous psychological workers in Wuxi City to take charge, but why did it end up in failure? As one of the parties involved, I will summarize several reasons for the final failure of this case:

Luo Liting herself does not want to receive psychological treatment. In fact, during my contact with Luo Liting, it is not difficult to find that Luo Liting has been avoiding treatment. At that time, she was basically in a state of drunkenness. You contact her during the day, she was sleeping, and you contact her at night. She was very "busy" every day and had no time to pay attention to your psychological assistance.

The psychological assistance team is too large. Although famous doctors such as Zhang Xuanting and Fang Aiping lead the lead, the entire summary system is procrastinating and swelling. As long as there are different opinions, Zhang Xuanting and others will analyze and observe very carefully. As a result, a new treatment plan is often three or four days later. In these three or four days, Luo Liting's mentality has undergone new changes, and to a large extent, it is not timely enough. What's more important is that Luo Liting is a person who has been hurt and is deliberately avoiding many problems. No matter how good the questioning skills you use, it is difficult to open her heart. What's more, there are so many people talking to her for treatment one after another. Some of them have the same problem and are still asking again and again. Luo Liting resists, and the psychological workers are also creating great useless work.

The rigidity and aging of the overall business skills of the psychological team. This case was a huge impact at that time. Almost all psychological workers in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai knew about this Luo family case. The elites integrated into this case can be said to be unprecedented in Wuxi City. Needless to say, Zhang Xuanting and Fang Aiping are all national first-level psychological counselors. This standard is in my unit. All the people who enjoy senior professional titles and treatments. The most tragic national second-level is me. I admit that in this team, my experience, professional title and business level have dragged everyone down, but no matter what, this team's

People should be said to be extremely capable, but why do you still not be able to see a little girl's depression in the end? One of the main reasons is that the professional skills of this team have aging. According to the popular sayings at present, the members of this team are all old scholars and people who follow the script. If you deal with some conventional cases, you may still be able to deal with such reading scripts, but you are facing Luo Liting now. What kind of person is Luo Liting? Everyone knows that she is infatuated, but they have also forgotten her rebellion. She was a person who took a break from school and traveled around the world when she was eighteen years old. Although she was young, she had never seen any scenes? But Zhang Xuanting and the others seemed to be collectively at this point.

I lost my voice and did not pay as much attention as I should. Instead, I just thought that Luo Liting's depression was caused by a broken heart, which made people feel a little headache and curing the pain of the head and feet! Maybe everyone doesn't understand why this eighteen-year-old rebellion has a great impact on the entire psychological treatment? I can give an example: What would it be if a beggar who is afraid of being a poor person become an official? This is "hysterical" from a psychological perspective. To put it bluntly, it is extremism. The psychological team ignored this extreme and did not say it. They also regarded Luo Liting as a simple little girl. She is knowledgeable and can talk about articles to you.

Can Renaissance people be simple little girls? At this point, the entire psychological team made mistakes. After all, these old scholars have a huge generation gap with Luo Liting. After the generation gap, the old scholars are not enterprising and do not consider how to keep pace with the times. Instead, they let young people cater to you? This kind of thinking is still very mainstream in the current psychological industry. There is no way to do this. Many people apply for psychological assistance. When they see the psychological counselors who come to psychological assistance are very young, they will wonder, is this young man reliable? To this day, many people still think that the older psychological workers are, the more "worthy" they are, and it is ridiculous...

After laying so much groundwork, it's time to talk about the supernatural events that happened next, otherwise the whole story would be like a case summary, which would be unreasonable.

On Christmas Eve, December 24, 2009, Luo Liting and I were having fun in the wine (I admired myself back then, and I could actually do this. If I hadn't said that I could even spit out even when I went to wine. Why? That's because I used to stay in Jiuyi Street. At that time, it was for the publicity and popularization of psychological crisis intervention. There was a station on Jiuyi Street. I stayed there for about a month. Every morning I went to work, and I could see many sanitation workers washing away vomit with river water. I got off the wine street for one night.

The vomit can be seen everywhere. It was a hot day when I was stationed. The fermentation smell from the vomit is still disgusting. Let's look at the wine. The hygiene is extremely poor, and the wine staff will not clean it deliberately. At night, the wine is full of lights and wine. Who would have noticed that there are many used condoms, toilet paper and even vomit in the audience?) Luo Liting was very excited all night until the countdown was over and Christmas was approaching. Luo Liting suddenly said to me: "Jiang Kai, I think I will die!"

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